Xu Xian, a medicinal herb merchant born in Qiantang, went to the grave alone on Qingming Festival due to the early death of his parents. On the side of the stormy West Lake, he met a mysterious woman, and also started the entanglement of this life. Time flies, and the classic drama from 18 years ago is still alive today. In the finale, Xu Shilin rescued his mother under the Leifeng Pagoda and married his cousin Li Bilian. However, Xu Shilin's relationship with the Jade Rabbit Jing Hu Meiniang seems to indicate that the fate of this family is not as satisfactory as imagined.
Hu Meiniang's departure made Xu Shilin painful. But the wheel of fate rolled forward, and he finally married Li Bilian. How many of them are the expectations of the two families, and how many are their own helplessness?Their marriage is more like a continuation of affection than the result of sincerity. Can they look at each other and smile to hide the endless bitterness in their hearts?
Li Bilian, a kind and affectionate woman, silently endures everything for the sake of her family and marriage. Her feelings for Xu Shilin may be more of a constraint of responsibility and morality. She did not refuse the marriage, and did not complain because Xu Shilin had someone else in her heart. Her love is deep and strong, but in this relationship, she is always a giver.
Some people may ask, what is not satisfied with marrying Xu Shilin?However, the most feared thing in marriage is that the loved one has someone else in his heart, and Li Bilian's marriage is just like this. Xu Shilin's respect and concern for her is more out of politeness and kindness than love. His heart seems to stay forever on Hu Meiniang, who had a brief relationship with him.
Li Bilian's destination, is this marriage or her own heart?Maybe even she doesn't know. In this seemingly happy marriage, there is too much helplessness and bitterness hidden. And the real happiness is in the **?In the story of Lian and Xu Shilin, there was no love between men and women at first.
Under the weight of responsibility, Li Bilian knows that she should be affectionate. However, such a marriage lacks a happy love between the two loves, as if it has lost its soul. When these two disturbing factors are taken into account, one can't help but wonder if marrying Champion is really a happy choiceHow can the abundance of material life be compared to the satisfaction of two loves?
Li Bilian, a virtuous and sensible woman, she knows everything and understands everything. She will never let her "little self" affect the "big self" of the Xu and Li families. Xu Shilin, a man who has been descended from the world of literary and opera stars, has shouldered heavy responsibilities and experienced ups and downs. His fame, saving his mother, and tying the knot with Li Bilian are more out of gratitude and nurturing, and all these actions require Li Bilian's "cooperation".
There is nothing more painful in life than the plight of a loved one not loving him. Li Bilian is willing to bear this pain, Baoshan has expressed her love many times, it is not that she does not understand, but the constraints of reality and the secular marriage contract make her unable to move. She understands all cause and effect, and readily accepts and faces it calmly, which is distressing. When she knew the cause and effect of her marriage, for the future and life of the two families and Xu Shilin, she did not hesitate to give herself, and did not ask for anyone's thanks, gratitude or recognition.
If Hu Meiniang hadn't suffered misfortune, that unrecognized love might have a different ending. But Xu Shilin's marriage contract with Li Bilian doomed Li Bilian to be the only one in his heart. Hu Meiniang's romantic and crazy love for Xu Shilin is something that Li Bilian can never replace.
Since knowing Xu Shilin's identity and marriage contract, Li Bilian's life can no longer find herself. Her dedication and marriage seem so blind. Although everything is clear, she can only follow a preset trajectory. No one really cared about her inner feelings and thoughts. Parents thought that Xu Shilin was the best match, and Xu Shilin also kept his promise to marry her.
But in this seemingly perfect marriage, Li Bilian's dedication and sacrifice are particularly heart-wrenching. My aunt always said that it was best for the two families to get along with each other. But you know what?This woman who gave up her personal happiness for the sake of her family and affection, she skipped romance and went straight into a mediocre life. Can you imagine the helplessness and bitterness in that?
Although she has won the reputation of the champion lady, love and marriage, they need to treat each other sincerely, not just fame and material. The combination of Xu Shilin and Li Bilian seems to be happy, but in fact, what is hidden behind this is the helpless reality and unspeakable pain. If you love, love deeply, and if you don't, don't hurt. I would like to say that if you love, you love deeply, and if you don't, don't make do.
Compared with Xu Shilin, Baoshan may be able to give Bilian complete love. At the very least, Bilian is free to be herself when she gets along with him and responds to that sincere love. No matter how good a man is, if he doesn't have you in his heart, then he has nothing to do with you after all. No matter how virtuous and sensible a woman is, if she is not the person in a man's heart, then she is just a sad existence.
The Legend of the New White Lady is the happiness of everyone, but it is the sorrow of Bilian alone. The name of Mrs. Zhuangyuanlang is nothing more than a bitter pill wrapped in a sweet coat. To eat it means to swallow that wordless misery alone. For Bilian, is this a fire pit or a harbor of happiness?It all seemed to depend on her own ideas. However, such a combination, like a twisted melon, is not perfect after all.
Destiny is in your own hands, not by yourself. If you love, do your best;If you don't love, don't make do with it. I would like to warn all those who are choosing between marriage and love: you must listen to your own heart, and the advice of others can be referred to, but your own thoughts are equally important. Just like Bi Lian, from beginning to end, none of those people who practiced, Zen, and were kind ever really cared about her feelings.
There is only one life, a good marriage is the companionship of the rest of your life, and the wrong union is an ordeal. One day you will understand that people who have lost themselves too much and wronged themselves can only bear their suffering and pain, and no one can empathize with you.
Love is the purgatory of people in the world. Whether it's love or friendship, you need to treat each other with sincerity and understand each other. In this complex world, let's all cherish those who truly care about us, and at the same time learn to care for ourselves. At the right moment in life, when we meet the right person, this emotion will bear beautiful fruits. I am convinced that every word I write carries positive energy and touches your heartstrings. With just one click of "attention", you can explore the true meaning of the emotional world with me.
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