In our lives, we will always encounter some troublesome little people who go their own way, regardless of the feelings of others, and bring trouble to our lives. What should we do in the face of such people?Is it a courtesy, or a tooth for a tooth?This is a question worth pondering.
In this article, I will illustrate this issue with a vivid example. My family lives in a building, and there is a family that is decorating, but the time of their renovation is incomprehensible, often hammering nails and drilling in the middle of the night, and not resting on weekends, so that the neighbors around them can't have a good rest. Everyone reported to the property many times and came to negotiate with them, but they were like scoundrels, not only did not listen to persuasion, but also spoke ill of each other.
Until one day, an aunt couldn't bear it anymore and knocked on their door, and as soon as they opened the door, the aunt lay on the ground, saying that the sound of their electric drill made her have a heart attack, and she wanted to call 120 to call the police, so that their family would pay for medical expenses and mental damage. The family was frightened by the aunt's actions, and quickly asked the master to stop the electric drill, and then said that their house was silent, and the aunt was touching porcelain. When the aunt heard this, she immediately sat up and said that now that there was no sound in their house, her illness would be cured immediately, but if she heard the sound of the electric drill again, she would lie in their house every day. The family was shocked by the aunt's actions, and never renovated during everyone's rest time.
This example made me think deeply, and I found that when we have to deal with a group of villains with different qualities in some very down-to-earth scenarios, we can't get along with them with normal moral concepts and logic. It's useless for you to talk to them about quality and politeness, but it works for splashing and rolling;It's useless for you to keep your emotions stable, it's useless to go wild. Because villains are virtuous for Weibo, they believe in the law of the jungle. The more you make them think you're decent, the more they'll take advantage of your inability to pull down your face and bully you endlessly. The only way you want to cure them is to use the same unseemly method, a tooth for a tooth, and a magic to defeat magic.
This made me understand a truth, learning what kind of color you are and what kind of face I have, is a lifelong practice of a quality person. We can't let the villains think that we are easy to bully, we have to let them know that we are not easy to mess with. Only in this way can we maintain our dignity and protect our rights and interests in getting along with villains.
In real life, we may meet all kinds of villains, they may be colleagues in the workplace, neighbors in life, or even relatives and friends. In the face of them, we must have enough wisdom and courage to protect ourselves and let them know that we are not easy to mess with. In the process, we may lose some of our so-called "qualities", but we can earn our dignity and respect. It's one thing worth doing.
In general, getting along with villains requires us to have enough wisdom and courage to protect ourselves and let them know that we are not easy to mess with. In the process, we may lose some of our so-called "qualities", but we can earn our dignity and respect. It's one thing worth doing.