1.Loss of self: In a "nanny-style" marriage, women tend to live entirely around the needs of their husbands and children, neglecting their own interests and personal development. They will place their identity and sense of worth entirely in their marriage, forgetting the importance of their independent existence.
2.Loss of independent thinking and decision-making: In a "nanny" marriage, women often Xi rely on their husbands to make decisions and solve problems. They may be gradually losing the ability to think and make independent decisions for a long time.
3.Ignoring their own needs and desires: In a "nanny" marriage, women often put their own needs and desires on the back burner. They may put the needs of their families ahead of their own personal needs, leaving their emotional, physical and mental health neglected.
4.Over-reliance on her husband's financial support: In a "nanny-style" marriage, women may become overly dependent on their husband's financial support, leading to an unequal position in the family. This dependence may put them in a passive position in the marital relationship and lose their voice.
In order to avoid entering a "nanny-style" marriage, women should focus on the following after marriage:
1.Keep to yourself: While focusing on your family, you should also focus on your own interests and development. You can maintain an independent identity by taking up your hobbies, attending social events, or returning to work.
2.Enhance independent thinking skills: In married life, learn to express your own opinions and needs, and actively participate in family decision-making. This helps to keep one's mind alive and is also conducive to the harmony of family relationships.
3.Pay attention to your own needs: Arrange your time wisely, take care of your family, and don't neglect your physical and mental health. While focusing on your family, you should leave yourself a certain amount of space to focus on your needs and desires.
4.Financial independence: Try to be financially independent, at least with your own income**. In this way, you can maintain a relatively equal status in the marriage relationship, and it is also conducive to having more say in the family.
In short, after marriage, women should learn to balance the relationship between family and individual, maintain themselves, and realize their personal values. At the same time, we should also pay attention to communication and exchanges with our husbands to jointly maintain a harmonious and happy marital relationship.