Children secretly recharge the game, this problem is a headache for many parents. But as parents, we need to recognize the seriousness of the problem and take corresponding measures to educate our children. Why do children secretly top up games?They may want to get more in-game items, or they want to get more honor and accomplishment in the game. In addition, some children may want to recharge to get more social opportunities and build better relationships with other players. However, these ideas are not correct, because topping up the game will bring many negative effects, such as wasting money, affecting Xi, harming physical health, and so on. 
Therefore, we need to take the following steps to educate our children:1Communication and understanding: First of all, we need to communicate with our children to understand why they are secretly topping up games. It is only by understanding children's thoughts and needs that we can better help them solve their problems. At the same time, we also need to let our children understand our thoughts and concerns, so that they know our positions and attitudes. 
2.Set the rules: It is very important to have clear rules. We need to let children know that their behavior in the game is constrained and cannot be recharged at will. We can work with our children to set rules such as how many hours of play each month they can play, what items they can buy in the game, and so on. At the same time, we also need to let our children know what the consequences will be if they break the rules. 
3.Guide your child to put the game in perspective: We need to guide the child to look at the game in a proper way. Play is just a form of entertainment, and you can't let it be the focus of your child's life. We can work with our children to ** the pros and cons of gaming and give them an idea of how gaming affects them. At the same time, we also need to let children know that games are not part of real life, and that they cannot associate the characters or props in the game with real-life identities or wealth. 4.Help children to establish the right concept of consumption: We need to help children establish the right concept of consumption. We need to let our children know that money is not something that can be spent casually, and that it takes a lot of thought before deciding whether to buy an item or service. At the same time, we also need to let children know the ** and value of different items, so that they can understand what items they can buy within their spending power. 
5.Give your child appropriate punishment: If your child secretly tops up a game and violates our rules, we need to give them appropriate punishment. These penalties can be restricting their playtime, making them take on a certain amount of household chores, and so on. Punishment allows children to know what the consequences of their misactions will be, so that they can be more conscious of complying with the rules. 6.Lead by example: As parents, we need to lead by example and be a role model for our children. We need to let our children see the right way we have attitudes and behaviors towards play. We can play games with our children and share our experiences and perspectives with them. At the same time, we also need to show our children how we spend and manage time correctly in our daily lives. 
Finally, we need to be patient in communicating with our children and guiding them. Educating children is a long-term task that requires constant effort and patience. Through the implementation of the above measures, we can help children establish the right values and consumption concepts, so that they can become better people.