Recently, Wu Qianyu Shi Boxiong's wedding banquet photos have been leaked on the Internet, could it be that the two have secretly married?
* Zhongwu Qianyu wore a red Chinese-style dragon and phoenix gown, and wore a dragon and phoenix bracelet on her wrist, beaming with joy. (Because of the portrait rights involved, we had to cut off the face, let's just look at the atmosphere).
In addition, the wedding invitation of the two was also **, and everything does not look fake.
Qianyu BB finally joined the tens of billions of wealthy families, but this time, no one said that she was a "top fishing girl", but praised her as a "rich flower in the world" and "independent heroine".
Because not long ago, the two of them were on the hot search in a variety show because of spending money.
For this reason, Twelve went to watch this episode of the variety show.
Her rich third-generation boyfriend, Shi Boxiong, is known as the rich third-generation.
But on the variety show, Wu Qianyu dared to ask several other couples directlyHow is the money managed after marriage?
This is a very private topic, Zhu Dan's answer is that Zhou Wei handed over his income, and the living expenses were basically discussed, regardless of each other. It seems that she has a sense of security about this, so in the past few years, she has been very relieved to be a full-time mother.
And Xi Mengyao's answer is that the two of them are financially independent, but they are not AA system, and they share the burden in life.
After listening to the answer, Wu Qianyu directly showed her hole cards - she couldn't accept the AA system, and she didn't want to give the money to the other party to manageBecause then she will be insecure, although Shi Boxiong is better at managing money.
Then, she directly complained that Shi Boxiong accused her of spending money indiscriminately in her life, but the expenses of playing golf by himself were obviously more expensive, but he thought it was an investment behavior.
For example, Wu Qianyu spent a few hundred yuan to buy a vase, and Shi Boxiong was a little angry: "Why do you want to buy such flashy things?"”
Wu Qianyu said with a tough attitude: "I spend my own money, why should you care." ”
Shi Boxiong disagreed with this, and then exported values like many straight men:
One is that "there are already a lot of decorations at home, there is no need to buy them again";
The second is "this money is not worth it, this vase is not worth so much money, and there is no appreciation value";
The third is "I don't want future children to develop a lavish consumption concept".
After reading this paragraph, others were obviously a little surprised by the dilated pupils.
Female celebrities spend their own money to buy a vase, and the rich three generations also dislike spending money indiscriminately?
Wu Qianyu and Shi Boxiong, the dispute between the two of them in terms of consumption is actually the difference in the consumption concept between the old money family and the ordinary upstart.
Although Shi Boxiong is a rich third generation, his family education has been very strict since he was a child. When he was in junior high school, his family only gave him 500 Hong Kong dollars a month in pocket money. He received strict tutoring and financial education from an early age.
After graduating from university, he did not work in the family business, let alone inherit any family property, but chose to work his own, working his way up to the head of the Asia-Pacific region.
However, at present, he has not inherited the family assets, and he is only a senior worker, so he pays great attention to practicality and cost-effectiveness when spending money on shopping.
Shi Boxiong's consumption concept is quite in line with the low-key and pragmatic style of the old money family.
They adhere to the core of long-term investment value, and value the experience and the long-term value of the item. Every penny spent, I will consider whether it can bring you a higher return. Conscientious, step by step, and strive to pass on wealth from generation to generation.
And Wu Qianyu was born in an ordinary family, his father was in a small business, and his mother was a housewife. She broke into the entertainment industry with her beauty when she was a teenager, and then became famous with her love history.
Before the age of 20, he fell in love with Lin Feng, and less than a year after the breakup, he found a boyfriend of 10 billion yuan, Shi Boxiong. It can be said to be a template for high marriage.
Her concept of consumption, in the eyes of us ordinary people, is not a problem. When you have the ability, of course, you must try your best to give yourself the best. As long as it is something you like, you have to take it, and you don't have to think too much about cost performance.
Therefore, the contradiction between the two in spending money is very big.
Not only that, when traveling, Wu Qianyu hopes for a leisurely vacation, eating and drinking well, and enjoying life. And Shi Boxiong is like a "special soldier", and when he goes to a place, he will arrange it to be full, so that it is worth the ticket price.
Doesn't Shi Boxiong love Wu Qianyu?
He said in the show that he "often feels inferior, often feels indebted, and often fears losing" to Wu Qianyu, and like He Youjun, he is a "wealthy love brain".
The reason is actually quite simple, the rich three generations are far from being as rich as everyone thinks, and the family's net worth of tens of billions does not represent their personal net worth. Moreover, there are many restrictions within the extended family.
At that time, he and Wu Qianyu were in a relationship**, and Shi's father threw the gossip magazine that reported their relationship in front of Shi Boxiong for the first time to express his dissatisfaction.
Wu Qianyu's reputation in Hong Kong was not very good at that time, and he was always criticized for "fishing for girls" and "worshipping money", but Shi Boxiong stubbornly withstood this pressure. praised his girlfriend in various ways on social platforms, which gradually reversed Wu Qianyu's comments.
Under the influence of Wu Qianyu, he changed his bad temper, so that the family elders saw the positive energy brought to him by this relationship, and gradually recognized Wu Qianyu.
The wealthy son in the real world is by no means like the domineering president in the TV series, spending money to chase girls.
On the contrary, he is very firm in his own concept of financial management, and tries to change the other party in this part - spending money, not as he wants, but with moderation and planning.
And Wu Qianyu's reaction is definitely the same as the mentality of most women - I am financially independent, I earn my own money and spend it myself, why do I have to look at your face, do you really love me?
I have to say that Shi Boxiong can speak.
Instead of turning communication into an accusation that makes the other party feel unworthy, he explains it from a higher dimension
He is not against spending money, but hopes that she can develop financial Xi as soon as possible, manage her assets well, complete the original accumulation as soon as possible, and live comfortably even if she does not work in the future.
He also said that he thinks Wu Qianyu is a very talented and charismatic actress, and hopes that she can make persistent efforts and make more movies and TV series to enhance her influence.
If men in reality can communicate so peacefully and rationally, it is estimated that there will be much less quarrels about money in the family.
Previously, I had a little prejudice against Wu Qianyu as a "gold-digging girl", when she was young, she met a young man who was willing to spend money on her beauty, and she must have fallen into it, and she didn't know that it was not easy to get rid of this label in the future.
Now, Wu Qianyu is visibly relaxed.
I injured my leg during filming, but I gritted my teeth and persevered. Actively operate his own social accounts, and at the same time have several advertising endorsements, and his ability to attract money is leveraged.
At the same time, she changed her high-profile life in the past, dressed in a low-key manner, and traveled in economy class, working hard to wash away the bad comments of "brainless money worshippers".
I saw a blogger interviewing her home, and she opened the refrigerator door to introduce a hot sauce that she usually likes to eat.
It can be seen that she really gained a stable and real emotion, and she is rushing to get by.
After all, in real life, you don't walk the red carpet every day, and only you know whether you are doing well or not.
But if you want to take this result and persuade women to compromise in marriage and reduce their material needs, it is really unnecessary.
Because, Shi Boxiong obviously got a key point, that is, Wu Qianyu lacked trust in feelings and had no sense of security.
After all, after the last relationship ended, she was simply humiliated by the Hong Kong media for many years, ridiculing her for the failure of a wealthy family, and her ex loved her so much that she finally married someone else.
Under such a shadow, her degree of caution about her feelings has reached - if the other party is not sincere, then she will never admit it, and she will never make it public.
Before the two appeared on the variety show, they had already got their parents together and submitted a marriage application, which is basically equivalent to a real hammer for marriage.
In such a situation, Wu Qianyu was relieved to take her husband to a variety show, and she was ashamed.
In the program, when it was mentioned who would control the financial power after marriage, Shi Boxiong said that Wu Qianyu would be in charge.
Even because Shi Boxiong's own mother died early, he was worried that he would have an accident, so he made a will in advance, saying that the inheritance would be handed over to Wu Qianyu to take care of.
Although Wu Qianyu complained about being "stingy", the other party was serious and gave her enough security in her emotions.
So keep this in mind, it must be based on this premise before it is worth believing in the man's advice that the woman is really good for herself.
If a man saves money just to pay less for himself, then this set of rhetoric is PUA, just to find a reason to force a woman to agree to a cheap relationship.
Why would I want to write this?
Because Twelve himself has experienced this problem firsthand.
I myself studied liberal arts, while my husband studied science and economics. When the two of us are together, the biggest conflict is also the issue of spending money.
My parents were very frugal, and I was always controlled when I was a child. When I graduate and have an income, I don't want to save as much as my parents do, and I like to have dinner as long as I'm happy.
But my husband's salary is paid, and it is divided into several parts, except for living expenses, the rest has to be used to manage finances, save money to buy a house and a car.
So my evaluation of him at the beginning was also "slamming the door", thinking that when we went out together, I spent more generously than him, and he saved his own money.
But at that time, I didn't dare to talk about money directly, but expressed my dissatisfaction on other things in a roundabout way.
It wasn't until we decided to get married and he asked me to take care of the money that I understood that he wasn't picking, but being generous in the big things he thought were more worthwhile.
For example, when I was pregnant, he immediately spent tens of thousands of dollars to book me a private hospital for maternity **. Because, he thinks this is a major event in a woman's life.
When I was really relieved, I also began to learn Xi family finances, rather than simply equating love with "generosity" or "spending money on things".
After all, family life really needs to have a long-term vision and a long-term plan.
Many couples will have friction because of spending money. Two people come from different families and will definitely have different consumption Xi.
Men pay attention to logic, expressing that this thing is "not worth it", it is too wasteful, and it is completely possible to buy more cost-effective alternatives.
Women pay attention to emotions, and what they want to say is, I spend money to buy something and be blamed, don't I deserve to use something good?
In this state, sometimes there is no distinction between men and women, and there are men who are willing to spend, while women like to save.
In marriage, the reason why people consume impulsively is because their emotions are not seen, and they need to compensate for those "grievances" and "forbearance".
At this time, if the other half is still reasoning, it will be even more chilling.
Zhang Ailing has a saying, which I think can represent the voice of the vast majority of women in marriage:
Spend his money, not because of the greed of women,
Because women don't just spend any man's money
This is actually a deliberate choice over a thousand sails.
Spending money is just a way for a woman to prove that she is loved.
The deeper appeal behind the money is the confirmation of a sense of security.
At this point, women should learn a thousand words bb directly:
I will be insecure if you do this.
I can change my view of consumption, but I deserve more security.
More importantly, women must not turn themselves into a yellow-faced woman who is thrifty, picks the door, and ignores or even gives up her own needs.
On the contrary, we should follow the example of men, and be willing to invest in ourselves and make ourselves the most important asset in our marriage.
This is a sense of security that no one can take away.
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