As with the aftermath, ancient ChinaCollogismAll of them were created by the people, and later circulated among the people. This kind of literary carrier, although not likePoetry and songsis the same tall, but they can be regarded as the crystallization of the culture of the ancients.
And the short text also contains a large number of ancient peopleWisdom of life。EspeciallyMarriage, life, wealth, careerAnd so on, all passedCatchyofAdviceIt's impressive.
So in aboutPersonal partner selectionabove, as mentioned by the ancient folk saying"Don't marry a wife, don't marry a warped mouth, marry a man, don't marry a heavenly court".What's going on?What isCocked mouth, what is called againHeavenly Court Fortress?
Although the vast majority of ancient sayings, there is some truth, but if aloneAppearance,It negates others, is this kind of proverbial advice good or bad?Should we continue to choose?Convinced
First of all, what isCocked mouthFrom the outside, it is very simple, that is, a certain personLips upturned,Friends who often go fishing know that people often sayCocked mouth, in fact, it is the general appearance of the cocked mouth.
Mentioned in the Book of Songs"Wrong salary"., which means the face of a personBump,It's not really good-looking.
Of course, judging others by their appearance alone is obviously tenImpolitean act. The reason why the predecessors mentioned it".Marry a wife, don't marry a warped mouth".And here's why"Warped".YesHigh and dangerousmeaning.
To knowWoe comes from the mouth, like some likesExposing others and sowing discordIf you don't want to be successful in running a family for your husband, you just don't cause trouble for your husband, and your husband is already thereThank goodness。Life is hard, such a woman, naturally no one wants to marry them.
In addition, in terms of appearance, the predecessors were not like thatSet store by. After all, it is two people to marry a woman and go homeLive together。I want to live in harmony for a long timeCharacterAlways come first.
There were a lot of lustful emperors in ancient times, but as long as they wereWisekings will also be more virtuousGentle and frugalThe woman is the last. For example"Qing Ping Le".mentioned inSong Renzongof the QueenCao's, neverNot outstanding in appearance
It is often saidRed face and troubled water,Although this is not fair to women, it is true that strife and jealousy between men can lead to many evils.
ComparableVitriol, the threat of red faces to the family is completely negligible. Just imagine, as a man, it is better to marry a beautiful woman to go home, or to marry a person you likeStir up troubleof ordinary women go home better?
Words often have deeper meanings, which need to be understood by future generations.
So what is a heavenly court?The meaning here is maleIn the middle of the two eyebrows, they have been stacked together with a frown, and they look worried. In other words, Heavenly Barrier can be used to describe a certain maleNo opinions, indecision, and no responsibility.
When the family needs this person to take on the corresponding responsibilities, he will often be because:Hesitation, compromiseA series of bad Xi, causing things to get worse. When encountering this type of man, it is natural to stay as far away as possible.
"Journey to the West".The Zhongzixia Fairy has a line:
I hope that my crush is a hero of the world, and one day he will step on the colorful auspicious clouds to marry me.Despite this ideal, it is unrealistic for the vast majority of ordinary people. But what woman does not want her husband, to be able toIn times of crisis, stand up to the skyWhat about it?In the family, men areRoof beamsGeneral presence.
If the pillars and pillars are not to be relied on, who else can women rely on? Let such peopleBoss, which will hardly do any good other than bring more harm to the family.
Therefore, a woman should never marry such a person when she marries. Even if you would rather be single, you can'tBury the future with your own hands.
Many people may think that this statement is someMake a big fuss。But only after you really get married will you understand that men have no responsibilities in the family, which is completely true for the familyExtinction.
After a man and a woman get married, the family is not decided by one person, but by two peopleCo-support, mutuallyForge ahead.
Many men seem to be very afraid of their wives when they are outside, but when they really encounter problems, they never willFlinch. The so-called fear is actually a kind of wifeRespect.
On the contrary, other men have a much higher family status, and when it comes to real big things, they will be the first to quit"Battlefield",How can such a person be relied on?
Despite the fact that in the modern world,Men and women have equal rights and are progressively equal, but the advice left by the predecessors is still worth peopleAdopt.
Especially in some female-dominated and male-dominated families, when men should stand up, women can't be allowed to fight alone.
Many people envyGrow old togetherIf in the family, the husband and wife can also love the family, this kind of life will also happen to themselves.