Tan Zongming likes Andy very much, but he knows that he is not suitable for him, so he deliberately keeps a certain distance from him. When many people were in "Ode to Joy", they were sighing, why didn't Tan Zongming follow Andy?Although the two seem to be a match made in heaven, the relationship between Tan Zongming and Andy is not a simple friendship. After reading the original text, Tan Zongming woke up the dreamer with a word: "I was once cheated by Andy, and I still remember it very clearly." It's terrible to be too smart a woman, we're just friends, not wives. Tan Zongming seems to be gentle and polite, but he has a strong desire to control in his bones.
He knows everything about Andy, from her family background, to her friends on the 22nd floor, to Andy's suitors. Such a person who is Xi used to controlling everything will never show his true face in front of Andy. He cares about Andy on the surface, but in fact, he is using business to seek greater benefits for himself.
At work, Andy was too diligent, which caused a lot of dissatisfaction, but Tan Zongming was like a "smiling tiger" and helped Andy reduce a lot of burden. Andy is a "black face" and Tan Zongming is a "white face", and the two work together and cooperate in the division of labor.
However, once they really get married, Tan Zongming can't stand Andy's always "black face", and his wife must be sociable and good at dealing with various occasions. But it was clear that Andy couldn't do that. Tan Zongming is "Wang Lao Wu", he is very good at enjoyment, and he is much stronger than Andy in terms of life taste. There are so many women around him, he must have his own reasons, not waiting for a good show. Tan Zongming felt that Andy couldn't give himself a warm home, nor could he bring himself a sense of security. Because Andy was abandoned from an early age, he was psychologically fragile and had a hard time forming deep friendships with others. This is something that Tan Zongming can't give.
Tan Zongming has a very high taste, and there are many people who like to pick up girls. He is not married, he is rational considerations, he wears the coat of emotion, and he only talks about interests, not feelings. In contrast, Xiaobao is always special, he really wants Andy and is willing to give everything for her. Only this passion touches Andy, reassures her, makes her happy, and makes her happy. The most touching thing about Tan Zongming and Andy is that the two have a relationship that goes beyond friendship, but does not lose love.
They set a boundary where both parties can live with peace of mind. They knew they couldn't be a couple, so they decided to trust each other. Tan Zongming used to have a good impression of her, but he knew that the two were people from two worlds, so he always maintained a friendship and did not show it. Tan Zongming is a smart person, and he knows very well that his relationship with Andy will not be sincere, so the friendship between the two is enviable.