A child's addiction to gaming can be an unexpected challenge for many families. In this digital age, the world of gaming is becoming more and more powerful for the younger generation, while parents are at a loss in the process of finding a solution.
Parents, this trick I recommend to you does not require expensive equipment, nor does it require strong financial strength, nor does it require complex psychological theories. Children are addicted to games, and parents only use one trick to solve it, and this trick is communication.
Imagine spending some time sitting down with your child who is immersed in the virtual world and starting a conversation calmly and rationally. And this is not a condemnatory conversation, but a sincere listening and understanding, as a person who has come before, I still have experience, because I didn't know how to communicate with my children before, and the parent-child relationship was a mess.
Imagine spending some time sitting down with your child who is immersed in the virtual world and starting a conversation calmly and rationally. And this is not a condemnatory conversation, but a sincere listening and understanding, as a person who has come before, I still have experience, because I didn't know how to communicate with my children before, and the parent-child relationship was a mess. , a friend recommended me to learn Xi parent-child course of Gaotu Beautiful Family, and I learned a lot of family education skills! It feels very useful! Now the child loves to learn and Xi and is obedient, and I can deal with all kinds of problems that arise in the child, saving a lot of worry!
So first of all,We need to understand that play is not a simple pastime for children. For them, gaming is a realm of their own, a place to escape from the pressures and academic troubles of everyday life. Therefore, we need to ask them in an understanding manner, asking them why they are addicted to games, is it because they are looking for a way to express themselves? Or is it because of the escapist remedy?
In this dialogue, we need to be careful not to be too blame-and-critical. Children's addiction often stems from internal problems, such as emotional difficulties, social difficulties, or academic stress. Through dialogue on an equal footing and understanding, we may be able to get a glimpse of the essence of the problem, rather than just addressing the superficial phenomenon.
In the conversation, consider sharing some of your own experiencesLet your child know that you have also been young and frivolous, and that you have also been addicted to certain things. It's not about soothing the child, it's about making them feel that you understand them and not just see their faults.
At the same time, we need to work with our children to set some clear rules and boundaries. While prescribing screen time, set aside plenty of time for them to rest and play. It is advisable to develop some family activities that you can participate in together so that your child can experience real-life fun. And this requires the joint efforts of your family.
The most important thing is to give your child enough love and support. There may be a lack of emotion behind indulging in games, a way to find recognition and fulfillment. With the companionship and understanding of family members, we may be able to fill this gap and gradually free our children from the virtual world.
Although children are addicted to games, parents only use one trick to solve it, but this is not a panacea, nor is it a secret to solving problems instantly. It is a long and gradual process that requires patience and determination from us parents. But in the process, we may be able to create a deeper connection in the relationship and let the child understand that they are not alone.
Perhaps, in this process, we will find that the family is not only a place to live, but also a warm harbor and a stage for common growth. Through communication, we can find the root cause of the problem, find a solution to the problem, and find a way to move forward with the child.
Parents remember! We need to understand that parents only use one way to solve their children's addiction to games, that is, in the process of communication and education with children, we not only teach children problem-solving skills, but also establish a trustworthy family environment for them. May every conversation inspire more love and understanding in the family, so that we can move towards a more harmonious family together.