At the 19th Asian Games in Hangzhou, e-sports became an official competition for the first time.
E-sports athletes took to the arena to compete and win glory for the country, allowing more people to see the competitive spirit and glory of video games.
For a while, the e-sports industry has become a hot spot again, which also makes many children who love to play games unable to sit still:
In the circle, I am the best person in the game, and the ranking and score are quite high, I think I can play professional esports, why can't you respect and support my dream......”
Many parents have a headache when they hear this.
If you support it, your child will give up her studies, and if you don't, your child will often have conflicts with her parents.
As a result, they fell into a dilemma.
So what should parents do?
First of all, parents should not "change color" when talking about e-sports, but first understand the root cause of their children's thoughts.
Most children want to become esports players because they find it interesting to play games, they don't want to learn Xi, they just want to play games.
Only a small number of children are really full of love for this game and industry, and have a firm "e-sports dream".
Whether it's the former or the latter, we parents have to find an opportunity to have an in-depth communication with our children. So how exactly do you communicate?
We first need to identify with the child and say, "You think the esports school is good, it's no problem to send you there." The people who play games and make games are also very good and powerful, and there are leaders and leaders in every industry.
Dad thinks that there is an e-sports master at this moment, a master of developing games, standing in front of me, but Dad wants to tell you that the road to e-sports is very cruel and not as simple as imagined.
It is not that you can become a player by entering the e-sports circle, nor can you become a player who can play games, open live broadcasts, endorse advertisements, earn millions a year, drive a Ferrari or Cullinan, change your fate, have unlimited scenery, and reach the pinnacle of life.
Such people are the top of the top and a minority of the few. Some people have been substitutes for the rest of their lives, and they have retired before they even set foot on the field.
Some parents around my dad sent their children to esports school and then picked them up. Because you can't beat others in games, people will force you to practice Xi, which is more bitter and tiring. Many people go and find that it is different from what they think, they can't bear this hardship, and they come back again.
In addition, if you don't learn the knowledge points well, you won't be able to do it if you have poor cultural knowledge. For example, designing a game is not as simple as we think, because it is more brain-intensive and requires a lot of cultural knowledge to lay the foundation, so it needs to have strong thinking skills.
I also know that many children can't bear it after they go because they have a poor Xi schooling. Therefore, even if you want to take this path in the future, you have to go to school first, learn cultural knowledge well, and do a good job of paving the way, don't you say?”
Director Huang also once talked about a case after class:
One child came back from school and said, "I hate teachers, I hate Xi, I want to blow up the school!"”
Usually, when many mothers hear their children say this, they begin to be more serious with their children, confront their children, and deny their children: "Why do so many children hate school, you dare to blow up the school, and others dare to arrest you!".”
In fact, when the child says that he is bombing the school, he is just angry, just expressing his emotions, at this time we have to let the "bullets fly for a while", and don't rush to deny others.
After that, we can say, "It's okay to blow up the school, how do you think you blow up the school?".If one person is not enough, Mom and Dad can help you. How many explosive packs do you say we need?How do you transport explosives after you get them?After transportation, will it be placed at school, or in which location?What if you can't fry it all at once, what if you keep half of it?If we're going to blow it up, we're going to blow it up!
At the same time, my mother wants to tell you that the police will definitely come to arrest you after the bombing, have you figured out the escape route?The two of us were caught, it doesn't matter, we're going to jail, but your life is still long, you must protect yourself, you must run first. ”
You have to tell him about the twists and turns of the road ahead, throw all the problems to him, let him be prepared, and think about how many children can endure hardships today.
After thinking about it, he must have said, "Forget it, it's so troublesome!."I might as well Xi. I'm just telling you, you're serious, are we really bombing the school?”
Therefore, whether the child says that he wants to bomb the school, or he wants to go to the e-sports school to practice games, he actually doesn't want the parents to do anything for himself, so parents don't take what the child says too seriously, he just wants to express his thoughts and inner things, and then see what the parents will have and what kind of reaction they will have, or whether they see me, whether they value me, and whether they see my difficulty!
Every parent wants their child to be excellent. But parents don't know that if there is no professional guidance for their children's problems, it is difficult for us to communicate with their children.
In order to help parents cultivate excellent children, the automatic spontaneous special set up a 3+1 training camp for the prevention and control of mobile game addiction, and the founder of the automatic spontaneous Huang Dao gave a lecture, step by step to analyze the specific situation of each game addiction, and planned a complete set of programs from beginning to end.