There is a lot of good in lifeFriendship, but there are someFriendshipbut it was broken because of men. LikeLi LanwithLiang YanIn this way, the friendship between girlfriends for many years was broken. InLi LanEyes,Liang Yanis an older woman who believes in true love, hoping that she can find a husband who is caring for her family and considerate. However,Liang YanBut there was a rightLi LanThe interest of the husband, which makes itLi LanDeeply angry and disappointed. This story evokes my interest in itFriendshipwithMarriageReflections on the relationship between them.
Li LanwithLiang YanofFriendshipStarted as a teenager and was the best friend of girlhood. They went through many classmates and even started their own familieslifeLi LanVery sad to seeLiang YanInMarriageI lost myself and couldn't find a suitable partner. She feels sorry for her best friend, and has always been committed to finding a partner for her, hoping that she can also experience happinessMarriagelife
But,Liang YanThe act of being causedLi Lanof suspicion. Every timeLiang YanCome to the house,Li Lan's husband always finds an excuse to leave. Li LanAt first, she wondered about it, and she failed to understand her husband's concerns. Until one day,Li LanFound outLiang YanThe picture in the circle of friends suddenly woke up. The picture was of the curtains on her balcony, and her husband could be seen doing laundry behind her. This discovery letLi LanFurious, she suddenly realizedLiang Yanalso understood her husband's reminder and caution.
OrderLi LanEven more angry,Liang YanNegative impact on daughter. She told her daughter that beautiful girls are worthy of liking, and this idea made herLi LanDeeply dissatisfied. She reflects on her words and actions and realizes that she has made mistakes in this friendship. She invites too oftenLiang YanCame to the house without noticing the impact this could have on the family and daughter.
This story made me reflect deeplyFriendshipwithMarriagebetween the boundaries. Friendshipis a pure and precious feeling, but when it comes toMarriageWhen it comes to relationships, we have to keep the right distance and proportion. Whether it's between girlfriends or between husband and wife, mutual respect and trust are needed. ForLi LanwithLiang Yanto say,FriendshipThe rupture originates fromLiang YanRightLi LanThe husband became interested. Liang YanAnd not only inLi LanFrequent appearances at home, yesLi Lan's husband showed obvious affection. This behavior not only letsLi LanAnger also made her see clearlyLiang YanImproper attitude in the relationship between men and women.
When we have a partner and a family, we should learn to protect ourselvesMarriageand family. That doesn't mean we're going to cut ties with other people, but we need to be clearFriendshipof the boundaries. You can share it with friendslifebut we must keep it in mindMarriageand the scale of the family. In the same way, husbands and wives should respect each otherFriendship。We should understand the relationship between spouses and friends and give each other space and trust. If we have doubts about our friends, we should express them clearly, not suspicion and complaining.
In the story,Liang YanTell your daughter that only beautiful is worth liking. This statement seriously misleads her daughter's cognition and values. As parents and girlfriends, we should help the younger generation to establish a correct self-perception, not only focusing on physical appearance, but also on internal qualities and abilities.
Appearance is only a part of human beings, and the pursuit of beauty is everyone's right, but it cannot be the only criterion for judging a person. We need to nurture the essence of our children, let them understand the importance of knowledge and wisdom, and understand the meaning of cherishing friendship and family.
In this story,Li LanGot itFriendshipwithMarriageThe boundaries between and the realization that the value of an individual is not only determined by appearance. She learned to face it with equanimityLiang Yanbetrayal, while communicating and reviewing with her husband. FriendshipwithMarriageIt's all uslifeWe should actively maintain and cherish important relationships. Friendshipcan bring us joy, support and companionship, whileMarriagecan bring us stability, love, and growth. However, let's also be clearFriendshipwithMarriageto avoid hurting each other and yourself.
To truly maintain these two relationships, we need mutual respect, trust and understanding. We need to be kind to our friends, but we also need to protect ourselvesMarriage。At the same time, we also need to give our partners enough trust and freedom to give each other the space to develop themselvesFriendshipFriendshipwithMarriageIt's uslifeOnly by carefully managing and cherishing them can we make them last for a long time and bring us joy and happiness.