The attitudes of boys and girls towards feelings are completely different, and most of the boys' love is external, simple and clear.
Some people love from the bottom of their hearts, while others just like it purely physically. This requires us to distinguish the true from the fake, after all, girls want to meet someone who truly loves them, and boys also want girls to be worth their own efforts.
It's easy for girls to get caught up in a problem, and often wonder if the boy really loves me, or just just a physical liking.
And what is true love?
01.Physiological liking is a passionate love.
Physiological liking is very cheap, and the threshold for men to have a physiological liking for women is particularly low. It is no exaggeration to say that if a man has been single for 3 years, he will even like any woman on the street, so don't think that a man who has a biological liking for you really loves you.
The premise of liking is that you can meet his needs, really like it when you need it, shout at you, and be extremely enthusiastic, and really don't like it when you don't need it, and there is no information for a few days or even months, and it disappears completely.
Like is like fireworks in the night sky, dazzling and charming, but will eventually dissipate, just like a man's liking is a passionate love, which satisfies his desires.
The person you like can make you feel excited, but it can't give you peace of mind, he is more of the dopamine produced in the body, but there is no psychological peace, he will not consider your emotions, only care about his own feelings.
02.The person who loves you is a kind of peace of mind, and you really feel that you are loved.
The man who loves you, he will consciously reveal his sincerity to you, and in the details of life, you can feel his sincerity and dedication.
I love you from my heart, I love you from my feelings, I love you from my words and eyes, I kiss you from the corner of my mouth, I kiss you from my shoulder, I remember from my sleep, I hold you, I care for you.
A man who really loves you, he will put your photo in his underwear pocket and always carry it with you everywhere.
People who love you are afraid that they will not give enough, care about your emotions, give you care, know your weaknesses, and understand your thoughts. It is always him who takes the initiative to give you what you need, rather than asking you if you need it.
03.Love is a two-way street, not a person's persistence.
I heard that the phoenix flowers in the south bloom for two seasons, one season comes, and the other season disperses.
I always believe that the first encounter is the beginning of fate.
Behind Lu You's love for Tang Wan, there is also a Zhao Shicheng who has devoted his life to Tang Wan. Zhang Ailing used the lingering love words of "If you like a person, you will be humble to the dust and bloom flowers" to retain Hu Lancheng.
Although their love is heart-wrenching and touching, it is also regrettable after all.
True love is a two-way street, not a one-person obsession. To love or not to love is complicated, but it is actually simple.
If he loves you, he will respond to your love as passionately as you do, instead of making you insecure and insecure. But I use various excuses to say some insincere things to prevaricate you, such as some men will say that I am a straight man, I don't understand romance, I can't coax girls and the like.
Dear girls, I think you know that there are no real straight men in this world, there are just people who don't want to spend energy and time on you to get to know you. Some just don't love, So, girls, I hope you can stay awake, keep your eyes open, and go looking for someone who goes both ways.
Love that goes both ways is meaningful and worthy of your cherishment.