Introduction: In the TV series "The Housewife", Ren Xuetang, who was supposed to be the male protagonist, only appeared in two or three episodes, and then became the "Ren Xuezang" in the play, his life and death are unknown, and his whereabouts are unknown. Hundred Families Help Program His family didn't know what the reason was, so they didn't find it, but he himself was found in his living room. Even more surprising is that before his disappearance, he even had a "farewell book" ready. 
If Ren Xuetang's life comes to this point, then his image as a "good man" will always remain the same. Because, the kind of low-key, unassuming, and unostentatious personality he showed in this era, as well as his persistent pursuit of love and marriage, all feel very real. It's a pity that he survived like that. In addition, one of his actions before his disappearance completely revealed his true colors, not only showing narrow-mindedness and selfishness, but also revealing his foresight. Behind him, another shadow of a "bad man" appeared. The image of a good man suddenly collapsed and he was successfully labeled as a "scumbag."
1: Ren Xuetang is not a good man with all his heart.
Before Ren Xuetang decided to pursue the water bandit Zhang Biao, he seemed to have a premonition that his fate might be very unfavorable. Therefore, before leaving, he wrote a letter to Zeng Baoqin, who was pregnant, and the content was roughly as follows: In his heart, only Zeng Baoqin is his only wife. If she doesn't give birth well, then take her away!If he can return safely and succeed in his career, he is willing to follow in Dou Tao's footsteps and spend his life with him.
Since Ren Xuetang mentioned "Dou Tao" and expressed his willingness to "imitate", then we really need to understand Dou Tao's emotional experience.
Legend has it that Dou Tao's spouse, Ruolan, had an outstanding appearance and showed extraordinary wisdom from an early age, she began to learn to paint at the age of three, compose poetry at the age of four, play the qin at the age of five, and by the age of nine, she had mastered the art of brocade weaving. She was brilliant since she was a child, and she grew up under the careful care of her father. After the age of 10, you can start embroidering dragon and phoenix patterns. At the age of twenty-seven, he was already a well-known painter, poet and calligrapher. At the age of sixteen, he followed his father into the Xiangfamen Temple, where he unexpectedly met Dou Tao, a young man who bent his bow and shot birds, and the two hit it off at first sight and soon came together.
In this regard, Ren Xuetang and Zeng Baoqin have a striking resemblance to Dou Tao and Ruolan, they both fell in love at first sight, and they are both talented and beautiful. Their love not only transcends ordinary romance, but can even be said to be an ancient and unconventional "marriage" game. In addition, Zeng Baoqin's talent is similar to Ruolan's, both are versatile and intelligent people, and men should cherish her more.
However, the relationship between Dou Tao and Ruolan is similar to the relationship between Ren Xuetang and Zeng Baoqin - both have been "intervened by a third party".
Dou Tao and Ruolan behaved very respectfully at the beginning of their marriage, and the relationship between the two was very harmonious. Soon after getting married, the two began their separate lives. However, this loving and happy marriage did not last long, and it did not always go well. First, her husband's affair made the relationship between the two tense for a while. In their married life, Dou Tao also had feelings for other women, and once married a charming concubine, experiencing a brief emotional twist and turn. But later, he developed a deep dislike for this woman. He even considered getting a divorce.
However, Ruolan later used brocade to create a touching love poem for Dou Tao, and successfully won Dou Tao's heart again. After reading the love poem written by his wife, Dou Tao felt deeply guilty, so he chose to turn back. Later, he went to visit his daughter with his wife, and in front of her, he finally showed a sincere and sincere smile, and the daughter finally accepted her father's love. Therefore, the two put aside their past grievances and reconciled.
In the work "The Housewife", Ren Xuetang regards Zeng Baoqin as his "only wife" in his heart, and claims to imitate Dou Tao. Doesn't this imply that Shen Cuixi may be "a third party intervening", or the "little concubine" who confused his mind?It's hard to understand. Using this analogy, Zeng Baoqin was obviously very happy, but he put his main wife Shen Cuixi in the **?
2: Ren Xuetang's feet were on two boats, and both sides were split in half by knives.
If Ren Xuetang really only wrote such a letter for Zeng Baoqin, then this is enough to prove that he is a good man full of affection and single-mindedness, and he is consistent and solid as a rock for his first love.
However, we misunderstood that Ren Xuetang not only wrote a "letter of condolence" to Zeng Baoqin, but also provided Shen Cuixi with a "peace of mind".
The "peace of mind" he provided to Shen Cuixi was that he would ensure that Zeng Baoqin was properly settled, and then spend the rest of his life with Shen Cuixi wholeheartedly, and he would swing his sword to sever the emotional bond and forget the good old days.
The implication of his words is that he hopes that Shen Cuixi can concentrate on managing housework and housework, and serve the Ren family wholeheartedly, even at all costs. He was very strict with his family and did not allow anyone to act in any way. At critical moments, we should put the interests of the Ren family first, absolutely stop thinking nonsense, and ensure that there is no way back. Although he may not be able to return, Shen Cuixi has always been his only wife, and she has the obligation and responsibility to help the Ren family continue to prosper and shoulder heavy responsibilities. "I don't want to disappoint her!It was because he made Xuetang let go of his past feelings and spend the rest of his life with her Shen Cuixi wholeheartedly.
You've all noticed, right?However, he did not want to come back!Ren Xuetang is really a well-informed person, and his arrangements are so thoughtful and appropriateBut why didn't he come back now, why didn't he visit her!If he unfortunately dies outside, Zeng Baoqin will not hesitate to protect him and always remember his deep friendship. If he gets the chance to return, their relationship will become even closer and better companions and lovers, deeper than ever.
For Shen Cuixi, this also has the effect of "painting cakes to satisfy hunger and looking at plums to quench thirst". Her husband Ren Xuetang finally came to his senses and decided to pay more attention to "marriage and family", and even for her sake, he was willing to cut off all relations with Zeng Baoqin and abandon his past feelings. It seems that all his efforts have been worth it, and this day has finally arrived. Shen Cuixi did not marry the wrong person.
Since then, Shen Cuixi has been more determined to take on the responsibility of revitalizing the family and building a career, and she is determined to continue to work hard, even willing to give everything for the Ren family - all because she has a place in her husband's heart, and he loves her deeply.
When the audience witnesses this episode, do they have similar feelings and thoughts as me?If yes, it's certainly not me. Ren Xuetang's business background is really admirable, he is scheming, and he always carefully plans every step!
If he really dies, not only Zeng Baoqin will guard him, but Shen Cuixi will also go to the soup for him, and these two poor women will take their own responsibilities and do their duty for their respective "love and responsibility".
As the head mother of the family, her life is bound by both his deep "emotions" and his "sense of responsibility". All his life, he has been manipulated by two women. If he did pass away, it would be equivalent to using the entire lives of two women to bury and cushion him. Is such a self-interested person really worthy of love?Is he a true humble gentleman?