Qiao'er left, and she left forever with deep resentment towards him and guilt for the Ren family. She didn't even want to see him one last time, and left him with the last words of "this life, this life, the next life, never see each other". "Does he really love him?When he saw his face covered by a handkerchief, he felt deep remorse. Qiao'er, the wife who had a deep affection for him when he was young and gave birth to a son for him after marriage, his love is sincere.
I still vividly remember that when he and Qiao'er were both working at home, he was the owner of Qingyuefang, and Qiao'er was the eldest daughter of Shen Cuixi, the head mother of the family. The two were very close at the time, and although they didn't even have a chance to hold hands, he knew that this daughter would be his wife and spend the rest of his life with him. Later, he married her. He cherishes this marriage very much, and in his heart he longs to marry Qiao'er as soon as possible.
During that period, despite Qiao'er's status as a servant, she was still highly respected in Renfu. She is a well-known shopkeeper in the house, and she is also a very capable little housekeeper. The most important thing is that Qiao'er has a ruthless mouth, and her personality is both pungent and daring.
During her errand days, women often came to her to beg for anger, even women who had fought lawsuits for their husbands. Once, when Zeng Baoqin didn't want the concubine to wear a formal red wedding dress to find trouble, Qiao'er rushed to Shantang Street alone, not only slapped Ruyi hard, but also humiliated Zeng Baoqin in public.
Qiao'er, a woman with a strong and spicy personality, has become a submissive and easily angry person since she became his wife, which makes him deeply heartbrokenHe was a very good man and a very talented woman. Still, he can't contradict his mother. Since he became the leader of Li Zhao, he has had to spend a lot of time and energy every day to please the upper echelons and ensure that the rights of the lower echelons are maintained.
Therefore, he had to go wrong step by step, step by step. He was originally a good man with high aspirations, but the things of the world never gave him such an insignificant opportunity. He is a person with no future, in this era, no one can change his fate, he can only choose to conform to the law of social development and find a job he likes in this world. If you want to win, the team is indispensable, because the team represents the side that rejects different opinions. In real life, he will not have any choice, the only thing he can do is follow orders and take responsibility.
He was reluctant to frame Shen Cuixi, let alone Qiao'er interceding for him on the side, but he had no choice. He knew he was going to be taken to court for trial. However, just when the plan was about to succeed, Qiao'er suddenly stood up and denounced him as a mentally deranged person and expressed regret for marrying him. Is he a madman?He completely collapsed, and the defensive line that he had worked so hard to build suddenly collapsed, and he was burdened with the notoriety of this life, wasn't it for Qiao'er and the children?
Qiao'er was able to get out of the predicament with one life and two lives, although he seems to be a disgusting person in this world on the surface, but in fact there is also the helplessness and inner struggle of people at the bottom of society. In him, we see just an ordinary person—a person who has lost his mind and has been taken advantage of.
However, how can a person who has lost his mind be able to identify who is good to him and who is taking advantage of him?He is an ambitious man, he wants to be a strong man, he wants others to know his strength and ability. Despite the fact that the aura of success is very dazzling, not everyone has the opportunity to wear it, and he is also considered an unworthy member.
Behind the willingness to be a fertility tool, there is a deep love.
Qiao'er's situation when she got married was not ideal, the Ren family had just lost the responsibility of leading the weaving, Shen Cuixi was also expelled to a small courtyard that even locked the door, and there was no one to support her, plus his father also deliberately announced his departure from the Ren family on the wedding day. So, she married in an environment where no one was taking care of her. This shows that since Qiao'er got married, she has completely severed ties with her former "maiden family", and she has also changed from her original status as a family shopkeeper to an independent business.
Despite this, Qiao'er was still relieved, because those women who had a fiery personality would only manage to meet him when they still seemed shy in front of him, and would even take his hand and whisper to him that they were imprisoned by Shen Cuixi in the silk industry. She knew he must have something on his mind to tell him. Although he verbally said that he should not worry too much, in fact he added that everything would be better once they got married, when they only cared about each other.
His father was an influential person, while his mother was a well-informed person. Especially after getting married, his first requirement for Qiao'er is to have a child until the child is born, if the child is not born, he can only choose to take a concubine. He didn't even want to have such a marriage. He was reluctant to do this, and Qiao'er didn't want to do it. Therefore, in just three years after marriage, Qiao'er gave birth to two daughters for him in a row, named Zhaodi and Yindi respectively.
Just when the battle between Shen Cuixi and Zeng Baoqin was fierce, Ren Rufeng was ** because of his dealings with the water bandit Zhang Biao, and this time the position of leader and weaver was handed over to him by Li. "I'm here to let you know you're not a good man!Although she thought that such behavior might make Shen Cuixi a little embarrassed, Qiao'er was very happy that Shen Cuixi could encounter such a situation. Because in those days, their family of three all worked in the provincial capital. Therefore, in order to ease the tension between him and Shen Cuixi, Qiao'er decided to get pregnant and knelt at Ren's house with her two daughters.
Although he is well aware that his actions are immoral, Qiao'er's identity has become the most direct means for him to break through the predicament. Moreover, only when he is doing well, Qiao'er and her children can follow him and live a better life. He told his daughter that her daughter was the pearl of her palm and the happiest thing in his life. He told Qiao'er many times that he wanted to fight for a better future for his children and create a better world for them, and Qiao'er agreed.
He was unaware of the harsh rebuke his mother had given himHe knew her thoughts, and he knew that his abilities and efforts were insignificant, and her presence would make him feel uneasy and inferior. After getting married, Qiao'er became more and more submissive, and even dared not speak, and her respect for him increased a little, but her love decreased a little. However, if he becomes stronger, he can not only defend Qiao'er at home, but also earn the respect of others, and he assures himself that everything he does is for Qiao'er.
I've heard that the world is so big that you shouldn't be able to tie yourself down easily. This applies to me and to my life. Anything you're proud of has the potential to become an obstacle that limits your progress.
For Ding Rong, what he is most proud of is not the role of a weaver, but the establishment of a two-way love relationship with Qiao'er. Now that his marriage has been fulfilled, he has an obligation to ensure that Qiao'er has a happier life. He said his marriage was unhappy, but he believed he would change. The love between him and Qiao'er is genuine, and this deep affection drives him to speed up and motivates him to get out of his current predicament.
The true meaning of marriage is to find the right partner, enjoy the fun of swinging with you, and spend the romantic time of a lifetime;I found someone, stayed by your side, and grew old with you. If you choose the wrong person, I will accompany you to the sword debate on Huashan until the last moment. What is love?Meeting the right person is love, and meeting the wrong person is a catastrophe.
His father, his father, his mother, and his mother. Although there is a deep affection between him and Qiao'er, Qiao'er blooms for his love and withers for his love. Both of these emotional ups and downs stem from a deep love for him. If it weren't for him, Qiao'er would never have been swayed by his mother, let alone forced to be a timid woman.
Revealing His True Colors is the ultimate means of salvation.
If it is said that in this world, the person who can understand him best is undoubtedly Qiao'er. He was originally an ambitious young man who could become the shopkeeper of the Ren family at a young age. Although his heart is full of resentment, the world itself is unfair. Not only did this provide him with an opportunity to climb upwards, but also because he was not in a good enough position and could only stop abruptly during the climb.
If he had the opportunity to get the position of Leaderweaver, he would naturally understand that it was a power struggle between important people, and he himself was just a character who was seen as cannon fodder, but wouldn't such cannon fodder also be an opportunity to work hard?He thought that if he could get a good future in his career, it would be enough!At the beginning, he still had deep respect and expectations for the Ren family, but he overestimated the unclean behavior of the powerful, and it was even more difficult to see the evil of being a **.
He knew that his efforts would be rewarded, but it was just an illusion, and what really benefited him was the truth of his heart. It is often said that people suffer because they are unable to live exactly how they feel in their hearts. He thought that if he could live according to his heart, he would be happy. If a person really lives according to his inner emotional life, he may become crazy or become a legendary figure.
Now that he has become the "sandwich biscuit" of the weaver and the official family, since everyone is forcing him to join the team, he will naturally choose a thicker thigh hug, otherwise he will only leave regrets in his life. His personality is very simple, that is, "he is not understood, he does not want to accept the misunderstanding of others, and even wants to think of himself as an impossible person to understand." Therefore, after he boldly returned the tapestry to the Ren family, he forced himself to become a person who would become crazy after failure.
However, everything has its cause and effect, and from the moment he was willing to become a loyal follower of Li Zhao, he lost his original intention. Those who lose their minds are often unable to achieve their desired goals and find it difficult to protect them, so their hearts are always filled with resentment and frustration. He was unwilling to completely obey Li Zhao and become a downright bad person, but he was unable to give up the power and honor that Li Zhao had given him.
So he chose a lifestyle that suited him better. He didn't plan to ** Shen Cuixi, because he knew that such an act would not only cause harm to the Ren family, but also to the entire Suzhou, and the many weavers who took silk brocade as their main livelihood.
The essence of human beings is like this, once there is a weakness, it is easy to be manipulated by others, and if there is no longer the courage to resist, it may eventually lead to the breakdown of the family and the death of people, and even to hell.
He was well aware of the possible consequences of framing the affair between Shen Cuixi and Wei Lianggong, but he had no other choice. Especially in the last return incident, he learned the lesson that once the matter is revealed, he is likely to be pushed out to be the backstabber. But no matter how hard he tried, he had to take this risk and was trapped in the fire several times.
But he missed a detail, when he revealed to Qiao'er that he had seen the affair between Shen Cuixi and Wei Lianggong with his own eyes, Qiao'er began to suspect him, and even when he was about to succeed in framing, he publicly revealed that he was acting under Li Zhao's threat. But he still refused to admit it. He did, however, have solid evidence, as evidenced by the unfinished men's garment.
He thinks that although he may have been a little reluctant before, why can't he go all out now that he has obtained solid evidenceAlthough he didn't take any action against Shen Cuixi, he caused Qiao'er to lose her life and suffered the fate of double death. Qiao'er pleaded with Shen Cuixi for him, but the pleas for him had disappeared, and she would never have the chance to meet her unborn son again.
In fact, everyone has a desperate need for a strong desire to succeed. There aren't many people who can be hailed as successful, and true success doesn't just depend on amazing determination, continuous hard work, and a positive heart. Without these conditions, you will never be able to do it. As long as you falter every step of the way, then the ultimate success will not come.
Ding Rong, the man at the bottom of society who had big ideals but tried to find a shortcut, ultimately failed to achieve the success he most desired, and at the same time lost the deepest love of his life, a lifetime of notoriety, and a lifetime of guilt for killing his wife and son.
In this world, the person who can really change his personality will never be someone else, because the most unrelieved is always himself. People are on the road, but their hearts are blown away by the wind. The cold wind whistling in the depths of my heart, after experiencing countless twists and turns, sometimes felt angry, sometimes sad, and sometimes fell into decadence.
He is a disgusting man, willing to be a means of fame and wealth for the powerful, turning his back on his moral conscience again and again, and gradually pushing himself into the abyss;He was a poor man. He was a sympathetic man who should have had dreams of success even for the insignificant little and had worked hard, but had to compromise because he was too weak.
In a person's life, yin and yang are often intertwined and mutually influencing existences. If you want to be yang, you must stick to your own ideas and live your own wonderful and brilliant life. If you crave shade, you must go against your desires and become like a walking corpse;There are many failures and successes in life, but as long as you persevere, you will definitely achieve unexpected results, and you can even say that the achievements belong to you.
If you crave sunshine, then you have to give it your all and always hold on to your bottom line. Behind every success, in addition to the tears and sweat shed, it is also accompanied by the spirit of uncompromise, reluctance to retreat and sticking to principles.