On December 9, at the funeral of Andy Lau's father, many celebrities gathered, and the atmosphere in the Hong Kong circle was sad. However, the focus is not on Andy Lau himself, but on his eldest sister, a woman in a low-key coat. On this sad occasion, she and Andy had zero communication throughout the whole process, which attracted people's attention and heated discussions.
Andy Lau is the only seedling among brothers and sisters, and has become a big star with his outstanding acting talent and handsome appearance. However, his eldest sister and younger brother live an ordinary life, and the trials and tribulations of life have left a deep mark on their faces.
At the funeral, Andy Lau's eldest sister appeared in plain black, and her dress and expression made people feel sad. The old coat in a black shirt has attracted criticism from **. Her eyes were puffy and her hair was gray, as if she had endured all the vicissitudes of life.
Once, Andy Lau once gave financial support to the eldest sister's family, however, due to the eldest sister's gambling addiction, she not only defrauded Andy Lau of his money, but also sold fake tickets in his name, and the relationship between the two became estranged. The eldest sister was still unwilling to change after forgiving again and again, which eventually led to the breakdown of the brother-sister relationship.
It is reported that Andy Lau's eldest sister currently lives in the slums and is often photographed buying vegetables and fruits in the vegetable market. She always has an indifferent expression when facing the camera, as if she has long been numb to the attention of the outside world. All this may also be related to the breakdown of her family relationship with Andy Lau.
When Andy Lau was asked why he didn't help his eldest sister, he said helplessly: "If I help her, I will hurt her, so I can only stop contacting her, otherwise she will continue to go on and can't change at all." Behind this sentence is a brother's deep helplessness and irreparable family break.
Over the years, Andy Lau has been known for his good character and has been generous to the people around him and the staff. However, a scene at the funeral shows the unmitigated relationship between him and his eldest sister. Many people may think that after their father's departure, the blood relationship between siblings should last a lifetime. However, life is far more complex than we can imagine.
Some people also noticed that Andy Lau's wife wore a valuable glass-grade jade bracelet at the funeral, which contrasted sharply with the eldest sister's simple dress. This makes people reflect more deeply on the relationship between family affection and materiality.
At this moment, we may be able to think from a different angle, if we were Andy Lau, would we choose to reconcile with the eldest sister?The preciousness of family affection cannot be measured by money, but in a deep rift, the choice of reconciliation or continued estrangement may only be known to the parties concerned.
On the whole, the indifferent exchange between Andy Lau and the eldest sister at the funeral made people think deeply about the fragility and complexity of family affection. In the journey of life, family affection is a precious asset, but it can also become a scar that is difficult to reconcile. Perhaps, this is a moment for reflection and reflection.