Establish a clean and honest family style
Create a clean family
Let every family
Be a strong line of defense against corruption
**The general secretary pointed out: "No matter how much the times have changed, no matter how much the pattern of life has changed, we must attach importance to family building, pay attention to family, pay attention to family education, pay attention to family style, closely integrate the cultivation and promotion of socialist core values, and carry forward the traditional family virtues of the Chinese nation." "The family style and family education of party members and leading cadres is a major matter related to the party style and political style. The proletarian revolutionaries of the older generation took the lead in setting an example and left us a rich legacy. **The family style is mellow, the family education is strict, it is exemplary, and it has set a glorious example for us. Warm and harmonious, loose and harmonious** The family atmosphere with Yu Ruomu is warm and harmonious, relaxed and harmonious. Yu Ruomu, a nutritionist, was born in Jinan, Shandong Province in 1919. His ancestral home is Zibo, Shandong. In 1935, he participated in the "129" Movement and joined the Communist Party of China in 1936. In October 1937, he went to Yan'an. In the spring of 1938, he married ** in Yan'an. At that time, ** was overworked at work and often had nosebleeds, so the Organization Department went to Shaanbei Public School to find Yu Ruomu to do nursing work for **. Gradually, they developed feelings and eventually became a revolutionary couple. **For Ruomu, he said: "I am an honest person, you are also an honest person, and honest people and honest people can get along together." Soon after the marriage, ** returned to Yan'an from Taihang Mountain, he knew that ** was married, and immediately made a limerick poem: "A thousand miles of marriage are tied by a thread, and noseache brings a beautiful marriage, the female secretary of Zhongshan Policy, and the caretaker of Mr. route." "* There is a strong sense of family. When the relationship between him and Yu Ruomu was confirmed, for the sake of prudence, he invited Yu Ruomu's second brother, who was studying in the boys' team of Northern Shaanxi Public School at that time, to tell the story of their acquaintance seriously and frankly, and solemnly solicit his opinion. In order to show respect, I also asked for food at a restaurant on the street and invited him to a meal. Since then, they have loved each other, loved each other, and experienced the ups and downs of life together. After liberation, Yu Ruomu worked in the Policy Research Office of the State Science and Technology Commission and the Institute of Botany, Chinese Academy of Sciences, and served as the director of the Policy Research Office, the deputy director of the Botanical Garden of the Institute of Botany and the secretary of the general party branch. From 1969 to 1973, he was sent to work in the cadre school of Hengdong Cao City, Hunan Province, Chinese Academy of Sciences. In 1972, when he returned to Beijing from Jiangxi, when he heard that Yu Ruomu had returned to the Beijing Botanical Garden from the cadre school, he asked his children to take turns to visit on weekends, bringing food and money to see what they needed to help buy it. It's almost the Spring Festival of 1973, ** bring the children here, and say that during the Spring Festival, you have to find a way to bring your mother back and let her go home for the Spring Festival. **also personally called** the relevant leaders of the Academy of Sciences to make this request. When the children picked up Yu Ruomu from the botanical garden, ** dressed neatly and stood at the staircase waiting, as soon as Yu Ruomu came in, he shook hands with her and said welcome home!**Before dying, he told his children to take care of their mother, Yu Ruomu. After his death, Yu Ruomu wrote affectionately: "In the more than 50 years that I have lived with Comrade **, Comrade ** has always been kind and persuasive, constantly improving my thinking and consciousness level, and gradually making up for the gap between us caused by differences in age, position, and life experience. It was on the basis of this common ideal and thought that I always regarded myself not only as his wife, but also as his student and subordinate. I admire his wisdom and decisiveness in his work, and I respect his party spirit and personality that are as transparent as crystal. On this basis, our family life is naturally harmonious and harmonious. In the eyes of his wife, ** is so pure;In the eyes of his children, the father is so kind. ** loves children very much, often tells them jokes, cares about some trivial things in life, and shows the father's deep love for his children. Although he is very strict with his children, he never restricts the development of everyone's personality, never deliberately lets them live according to any standards, or work according to their own ideas, he creates a relaxed environment for children to grow up. He never asks too much of the children, never asks them how many points they have scored, how their academic performance is, and what level they should achieve. **Teach them how to be a person, how to be a decent person, to be a peaceful person, and to be an ordinary person. Maintain self-esteem and strictly follow the rules**Always be strict with self-cultivation, strict use of power, strict self-discipline, self-respect, never use the power in your hands for the benefit of yourself or your family. He often said that power is given by the people, must be used for the people, and must be used for the people's welfare. He often admonishes his family and the staff around him: "No matter you go to work, you must remember one thing, that is, you can't touch a penny of public money." If the state doesn't check it today, it won't check tomorrow, and it will have to be checked sooner or later. Remember this and you won't make mistakes. "* First of all, he has strict requirements for his wife, Yu Ruomu. In the early 60s of the last century, the country's economy was in difficulty, and some high-end snacks, high-grade sugar and other ** commodities were temporarily sold in the market to return to the currency. One summer, Yu Ruomu bought a satisfactory **towel quilt and was very happy. However, the next day, the newspaper published the news that China's economy has recovered to a certain level, and the first commodity can be canceled, and all the first commodity will be reduced to parity from now on. For this reason, Yu Ruomu complained a little**: Why don't you say it in advance. * replied solemnly: "I am in charge of the economy, this is the economic secret of the state, how can I talk about it casually in my own home?".I want to take the lead in observing party discipline. "In the fifties and sixties of the 20th century, there were two cars, one Jim and one Jis, which were made in the Soviet Union at that time, and he stipulated that his family could not use his car, and Yu Ruomu rode a bicycle to and from work. She was working at the Institute of Botany of the Chinese Academy of Sciences at the time, and sometimes she went to Xiangshan, leaving early and returning late, and in the morning she took her lunch box and rode her bicycle to work. I had to ride for an hour and a half at a time, and I was hungry and ate a piece of candy halfway through, and I had the strength to ride again. She not only rode to Xiangshan, but also rode to the Ming Tombs Reservoir. After smashing the "Gang of Four", Yu Ruomu was transferred to the Implementation Policy Office of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and he also rode a bicycle to work. Once I was hit by a bicycle and fractured the top of my foot, and I had to rest for a long time, so I gave the bike to my second daughter to ride. In the same way, although the children's learning problems are greatly valued, teaching them how to read newspapers, read references, and how to broaden their horizons to understand world events, they never take out party documents to say anything. Not engaging in specialization, strict requirements for oneself with the standards of ordinary workers is a major feature of the family style. **Set "three prohibitions" for his family: not allowed to ride in his car, not allowed to touch the documents he reads, and children are not allowed to enter and leave his office casually. He especially explained that children are not allowed to pick up and drop off from school, and they are not allowed to engage in specialization, so that they can study and live like ordinary children from an early age. ** often admonishes his children with such a tutor: "Be honest and decent, no matter how you go, you must abide by local rules and discipline;."If you promise someone something, you must do what you say, and if there is a change in the situation, you must tell them the truth. These things seem small, but they have to be done. If you don't behave well on the outside, that's my problem. ”Diligent and thrifty, noble realm**The diet is very simple, each meal is coarse tea and light rice, and never eats and does not accept gifts. His meals are very simple, two dishes and one soup at noon, and the recipes are rotated once a week, all of which are some home-cooked dishes, and every meal must be eaten and drunk, and there is not a grain of rice and a mouthful of soup left. One year during the Spring Festival, the staff went to the small room where he was eating, and saw that there were still two dishes and one soup, one meat and one vegetable, so they said to him: "It's a holiday, let's add a dish." * smiled and said, "No need to add, I celebrate the festival every day." This means that the food today is the same as the festival compared to the hard times of the past. The chef who cooked for him said: "The chief eats a few ordinary home-cooked dishes all year round, and my skills can't be improved." "*The requirement is: as long as there is enough to eat, not waste. Never eat extravagant delicacy. He said: "Shark fin sea cucumber is a delicacy of the mountains and seas, it is too expensive to eat!It used to be eaten by landlords. "On Chinese New Year's Eve in the 90s of the last century, Wang Liping, deputy secretary of the Shanghai Municipal Party Committee in charge of reception work at that time, gave ** New Year's greetings. **I was eating, and there were two dishes on the table (one plate of tofu and one plate of fried snow peas), and I ate it with relish. Seeing this scene, Secretary Wang couldn't help but sigh: "This is the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner of our national leaders!""* Life is very simple, the daily necessities are very simple, and there is no pursuit of personal enjoyment. He often reminds his family to save every kilowatt-hour of electricity and every drop of water. He drank as much water as he could, and never poured it out at will. Even if it is a drop of water, a grain of rice, or a kilowatt-hour of electricity, he will not waste it. His used suitcases, worn clothes, shoes, old towels, toothbrushes, used desk calendars, pencil heads, etc., will not be thrown away casually, according to his words: "They cannot be allowed to retire easily." "His bathroom sink is funnel-shaped, with a bucket underneath, and when he washes his hair, he lowers his head and pours water from a large porcelain jar from above, which is considered a sprinkler head. There is a shaver that has been used for 60 years. In 1935, ** left the Long March to resume the party's underground work in the White District of Shanghai, and after arriving in Shanghai, he was sent to Moscow to report directly to the Comintern on the situation of the Chinese Red Army's Long March. He got on a Soviet steamer, touched his chin, his beard was so long, he wanted to shave, but he didn't have a razor. I wanted to go down to buy it, but I didn't dare to go down, because many spies in Shanghai knew him. In the end, he gave the money to a Soviet sailor and asked for help in buying a razor. From 1935 to 1995, when he was finally hospitalized, this razor accompanied him for 60 years. In his later years, ** suffered from eye diseases such as glaucoma and cataracts, and often ordered medicines, in order to avoid infection caused by handkerchief wiping, in 1993, the doctor suggested that he switch to using a disinfectant cotton ball to wipe his tears. ** Thinking that this is too wasteful, he asked to save his used tampon balls and use them for other purposes after disinfection. After a few months, he was still thinking about the waste, and he had to calculate how many cotton balls he used in a yearHow much does it cost?The staff accumulated the used cotton balls and counted them: ** About 250 grams of cotton balls a month, worth seven or eight yuan, and the annual cost does not exceed 100 yuan. **After listening, I asked the staff again to disinfect the cotton balls for other purposes, so that I could settle down. The towels he uses every day have broken four holes, and he still doesn't want to throw them away easily. He often said to the staff: "Don't change my 'four towels'. It wasn't until the towel could no longer be used that he refused to replace it, but he still instructed, "Don't throw it away, you can use it to clean up." The only time he was in an imported ultra-limousine was less than three minutes. In the second half of 1985, there were many advertisements in newspapers and on the streets to promote foreign products, especially foreign cars. Seeing these billboards, ** felt very uncomfortable. During that period, the trend of leading comrades in the party sitting in imported cars was prevalent, and the more they sat down, the more advanced they became, and the crown and Mercedes-Benz ran everywhere in Beijing, and there were many in Zhongnanhai. In this regard, the masses have a lot of opinions, and the newspapers and internal references have disclosed it from time to time. As the first secretary of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, he is very concerned about this matter. One day in January 1986, he asked his secretary to drive a German-made Mercedes over to have a look. The secretary drove over the highest-class Mercedes-Benz 500, the Japanese Crown, and the Shanghai sedan. **When I saw the two foreign cars, my expression became very serious. He went straight to the crown car, sat on it, looked at the inside of the car, felt the seats, touched everywhere. Then he said, "This car is good, I can't sit in it." Why import these cars?It's just to be swaggering and get off!"The only time I took an imported car this time was less than three minutes. He said: "The country's foreign exchange is limited, and spending so much foreign exchange to buy these high-end imported cars is just a few people to enjoy." The old man does not take a foreign car, and it is not practical to spend so much foreign exchange to buy a car, so the old man takes a red flag car. There are countless examples of thrift and simplicity, because this is his consistent style of work and life. This simple style of life stems from his lofty spiritual realm. He also often said to his family: "In the past, people used to say that our country is a country with a large land and rich resources, but in fact, our 'land' is not big, and our 'things' are not rich, but our country's population is more than that of other countries." There are so many resources in our country, everyone must save a little use, we all have to be 'filial sons', we modern people must be 'filial' to our sons, grandsons - the descendants of our children and grandchildren, we can't eat them up, use them up, let our children and grandchildren 'flee'. ”Passionate about learning and diligentThere are not many revolutionaries of the older generation who have a good family style, but it is really rare to organize family members to study philosophy collectively like **. There is no style of playing poker but the style of reading and learning, which is the biggest feature of the family style. **The family style of loving learning was revealed when he and Yu Ruomu got married. In the spring of 1938, they held a lively and simple wedding in a bungalow of the Central Organization Department in Yan'an. For three nights in a row, under the bright sesame oil lamp, Yu Ruomu talked about the history of the party, the losses caused to the party by blind activism after the defeat of the Great Revolution, the threat to the party after the defection of Xiang Zhongfa and Gu Shunzhang, and the rescue of the party and the Red Army after the failure of the fifth anti-"encirclement and suppression" in the Soviet area, etc. "* Comrade gave Yu Ruomu a party lesson in the cave room" became a good story recited by the cadres of the Central Organization Department for a while. The object of their love is Lenin's book "On Imperialism" that Yu Ruomu often reads at the door of the cave when he is doing nursing work for **, and they each sign their names on this book that witnesses their love and treasure it. ** I look down on personal fame and fortune, but I attach great importance to learning. Although he only went to primary school, he loved to study, studied diligently, and was good at learning, especially attaching importance to the study of Marxist philosophy. During his tenure as the head of the ** Organization Department in Yan'an, he organized a study group within the ministry, focusing on the philosophical works of Marnles and ***, and persisted for 5 years. **I love to learn, and I also ask and help my family to learn, and under his drive, the whole family is interested in learning. *, he was sent to Jiangxi. For more than two years, in addition to regularly participating in factory labor, he mainly studied books. Several of his children went to see him, and the most he talked to them about was reading, letting them read Marxist-Leninist works and ** works, and teaching them how to study. **Help the child analyze that when you started to read Marx's works and couldn't read them, we changed to "** Anthology", because *** works are written about Chinese's own affairs, which is easier to understand, and you have a little knowledge. He said that dialectics has always run through the teaching method. Reading philosophy is the most important learning content in a person's life, and only by mastering good thinking methods and work methods can we do things well. Everyone may have a conclusion about the past, but how to analyze and look at the future must be guided by philosophical thoughts. He said that one of the particularly important reasons why he was able to make the Chinese revolution successful, and it is also a very clever place, that is, he cultivated a generation of people with philosophical thoughts.
* Enthusiastic about organizing family study groups, he hopes that through this form, a learning atmosphere will be formed, and in the longer term, he hopes that children can cultivate their self-learning ability, have the right way of thinking, be able to find problems, solve problems, and improve their work ability. One of the learning experiences he imparted was to listen to more negative opinions, he said that when he was in Yan'an, he often listened to negative opinions after raising questions, and he was very anxious when he couldn't hear them, and sometimes he refuted himself. He said that only by regularly refuting with opposing opinions can we temper a truly insightful vision. He is also very concerned about the learning of the staff around him, especially the study of philosophy, and often supervises them by giving exams, rewarding correct answers, and allowing them to consult books. He said: "Learning philosophy well is very useful for work and life. Looking at the problem should be divided into two, looking at it dialectically, and the good and bad aspects should be taken into account, so that fewer mistakes will be made. The staff respected the opinions put forward by **, and they organized themselves, formulated study plans, exchanged learning experiences, and created a positive and healthy living atmosphere. ** When practicing calligraphy, I wrote such a sentence many times: "Not only the top, not only the book, only the truth, exchange, compare, repeat." Once, after carefully studying this painting, he scratched his head with his hand and said thoughtfully to the staff: "This is my experience after studying the documents and telegrams drafted by *** when I was in Yan'an. 'Not only the top, not only the book, but only the truth' is materialism, and 'exchange, comparison, and repetition' is dialectics, and together they are materialist dialectics. "Not only the top, not only the book, only the truth, exchange, comparison, repeat" of the fifteen-character formula, ** said for a lifetime, did a lifetime. After his death, the fifteen-character formula was engraved on his tombstone. -end-
*: Quwo County Women's Home.