The collapse of adults, starting with mid life unemployment

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-01-28

The collapse of adults is that people are middle-aged, old and young, with all kinds of expenses at home, asking for money everywhere, but at this time, as the pillar of the family, suddenly lost his job and cut off his income.

Mr. Chen works as an accounting supervisor in a company and earns income every monthAbout 10,000 yuan, he has been working in this company for 7-8 years, and his income is relatively stable, plus his wife's income every month, the annual family income is about 200,000. If you pay off your mortgage every month, you can save some money in addition to your daily expenses. The life of a small family is okay.

At this time, Mr. Chen's mother fell ill, the family had spent all their savings, and he owed foreign debts. The life of the small family is also tightening, and in addition to living expenses and mortgages, they also have to pay off debts every month. The young couple did not complain, thinking about the hard work for a few years, the mortgage and foreign debts were paid off, and life was easy. After adjusting the state, the family soon entered a normal life trajectory, and the young couple got up early every day and was greedy for darkness, in order to earn more money, they went to work part-time on weekends, thinking about paying off their debts as soon as possible.

The good times did not last long, and due to the impact of the market economy, many companies were facing losses, and some even went bankrupt. Mr. Chen's company is not doing well, and the company is preparing to lay off employees. Mr. Chan also had a fluke mentality, believing that he was not on the list of layoffs. Suddenly one day, the leader above said that he wanted to talk to Mr. Chen, and they called Mr. Chen to the leader's office, and the leader told him directly that he was laid off, and the company compensated N+1 compensation. That's it, after working for so many years, I lost my job.

At this time, the family's income is not enough to spend, although there used to be a part-time job, but the income is small and unstable. Mr. Chen was very anxious, and he quickly adjusted his mentality, began to prepare his resume, and looked for a new job.

In the first few days, I could still receive interview notices from other companies, and the interview results either were less than half of the salary, or I was too old, and they all ended in failure. Thinking about it is just the beginning, and then slowly searching. I searched like this for a few months, and I didn't even have a notice of an interview later. It's like a stone sinking into the sea, and there is no news.

When people reach middle age, it is already very difficult to find a good job. Except that you have strong abilities, there is no substitute for others. Otherwise, you can be down-to-earth, find a job to support your family, put down your face, and start again.

While we work, we still need to use the work period to accumulate more contacts and resources, and at the same time learn more Xi knowledge to prepare for our future.

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