Big mouth, often slapped in the mouth. People often talk about other people's gossip in order to show off that they are well-informed. Do you know why so many people pay attention to the private lives of celebrities?There are also people who pay to buy news from the paparazzi?It's not just to satisfy the inner desire to snoop, the kind of arrogant feeling that you can't see when you show off to others, and tell others, you can't do it, only I can.
Showing off is always easy to do bad things. Especially if you want to do good deeds, you must be strict, this is the first test of whether you can survive. Secrets, it's best not to know, can't be avoided, if you know, you must rot in the bottom of your heart.
Secrets are successful, and leaks are harmful. The fewer people who know about life and death matters, the better. Because human nature is beyond your control. If you think about fairness and democracy, and tell everyone about the future and future results, people will be gratefulPerhaps turn around and throw yourself into the arms of the enemy, pushing you into the fire pit.
The smaller the meeting, the smaller the number of people, the shorter the discourse, and the bigger the decision. The bigger the meeting, the larger the number of people, the longer the words, three or five hours can't be finished, no need to guess, it's all trivial and bullshit, waiting for you and me to raise our hands to decide.
Therefore, when encountering a major event, the secret comes from his mouth and rots in my ears, and I can no longer let a third party know. Otherwise, when disaster is coming and the people are killed, don't say it unpredictably.
If a person is strict in his mouth, others will trust you, and the important matters of his vital interests will be entrusted to you. Big mouth, proclaim everywhere, who dares to really treat you as a friend, if there is a good thing, how can it be your turn?
Many things shall not be proclaimed until they have been accomplished. Pay attention to a bright plank road and dark Chen Cang, just because I am afraid that other people's eyes will be red, and I will be ruined by enemies, opponents, leaders, doormen, and even an unknown pawn for no reason.
Strict mouth is to tell you to distinguish what can be shared, and what can only be mentioned without a word. People must carry it clearly, how can the heart be open at will, how can people be inexplicably familiar?
Enthusiasm is not thorough, and you have to change it. Hospitality, no.
Good and bad tell together, in case the speaker has no intention of listening to the heart, and the heart of the person is hot when they hear it, they will build you a meal when they mention the nail rake. This kind of unjustified calamity should not be brought by yourself.
Life is very good, and you must not suffer from suffering and seek sin. Be sure to control your mouth and remember well: others have high emotional intelligence, and speaking is to add points to yourself, help yourself reduce obstacles, and ride the wind and waves;If you go straight and make people angry honestly, you must talk less to avoid trouble coming out of your mouth and the pot falling from the sky.
Don't talk about people in front of people, but praise people for their strengths, and maintain the reputation of others is to protect their own lives. Regardless of whether people are right or wrong, they talk more about their own mistakes, and they should learn from whoever they Xi and take so-and-so as an example. More to love, less to dislike.
Speaking of strict mouths, I can't help but think of Monkey King.
The dragon king said that the monkey took the Dinghai God Needle Ruyi golden hoop stick and refused to stop, and stole the mountain of treasures in the Dragon Palace, what corals, treasure beads, and scallops on Zhangzi Island are countless, and he did not appeal. Hades said that the monkey had scribbled dozens or hundreds of baskets of life and death, defaced thousands of pages of records, and could no longer find out the falsification that had occurred in the past thousand years, and he did not refute it.
The queen mother said that the monkey ate 300,000 catties of peaches, and he did not quibble, and he did not vomit a single word of injusticeLao Jun said that the monkey ate 800,000 elixirs, and he did not deny it, and he did not complain;The Jade Emperor said that the monkey had eaten none of the peaches and refined elixirs harvested in the past 10,000 years, and he had no objections, but he didn't say a word.
When he was pressed under the Five Elements Mountain, for 500 years, the shepherd boy came, and he did not complain;Encountering the land, he did not say half a word of complaint. Heroes and heroes, one person does things and one person does, and has nothing to do with others, but the poor monkey monkey grandson turned into ashes, and Huaguo Mountain became a bare flame mountain after being ploughed a few times, and there was no longer life.
Fortunately, he is strict-mouthed, as long as people, no, monkeys live, everything is still possible. Since the Dragon King boss said that he took countless treasures from the Dragon Palace, the King of Hades wanted to write off the account, the Queen Mother lost the peach, and the old king lost the elixir, it was not he who did it, but he did it, what else could he do?can only let his stomach become the end of it all;can only let his body bear all the suffering;can only let his hand reopen a new chapter.
Who calls yourself showy about these things?Then resist all. Anyway, it has been pressed under the Five Elements Mountain, and the whole world is shouting, who believes it?You dare to redress grievances, who still remembers this favor?Character cannot be defeated, as long as you live, the lost territory can eventually be recovered, the Monkey King is dead, who knows what kind of sun and moon essence Huaguo Mountain once bred?
At this time, it is the best thing to be strict, and there is still a chance to reactivate it after 500 years, and truly embark on the path of cultivating positive results. If you only blindly show off the glory of calling Monkey King when making trouble in the Heavenly Palace, or complain about the injustice of this world, or say who caused you to do this, as soon as you come out, you will be beaten to the sky. You said that Sun Wukong is him, and there will be a scene of going out of the mountains to learn scriptures later?It is estimated that he has long been turned into ashes, no longer in the world, not in reincarnation, and there is no place for him in the Five Directions and Ten Realms.
Don't get angry. Don't be angry, don't be bored.
The air is enchanting and full of excitement.
Love and hate are coquettish, and you stretch your waist gracefully.
Remove the loneliness and embrace the laughter.
Life is boring, don't be monotonous.
Use purple and red flowers.
Dress up in a different heartbeat.
It needs to be quiet, but it also needs the waves that come with the wind.
If it has been calm, it will be boring to death.
What's so good about that?
It's better to give some laughter and bring excitement.
Give each other, another good.