In contemporary society,"Gnaw the old"The phenomenon is becoming more and more common among college students, which has brought a lot of trouble and helplessness to parents. However, in a recent news item on the Internet that "the re-examination will change the relationship between mother and child", a broken mother publicly rebuked her own son, and many people actually supported and understood the mother, believing that her approach was correct. This incident has sparked deep thought and discussion about the behavior of college students preparing for the civil service examination. In this context, this article will explain how parents should understand their children's situation and give appropriate support and guidance when college students are preparing for the civil service exam.
This phenomenon is mainly manifested in the fact that some college students after graduation choose to rely on their parents at home, under the pretext of preparing for the civil service examination, and do not actively integrate into social work. Parents feel helpless about this phenomenon, and some even keep it in the dark, thinking that this is a way for children to plan for their own future, and they should be supported and understood. However, preparing for exams at home for a long time not only affects children's growth and independence, but is also a waste of social resources. Parents need to be keenly aware of some of their child's signs of escapism, such as addiction to recreational activities, low mood, lack of motivation and planning, etc., to understand their child's situation more fully.
The choice of college students to prepare for the civil service examination is not only the pursuit of a stable career, but also a response to social competition. However, some students may only superficially prepare for the exam, but in fact they are running away from other responsibilities and challenges. Parents should guide their children to establish a correct outlook on life and values, and provide necessary support and guidance. First of all, pay attention to your child's Xi and test preparation attitude to ensure that they are truly focused on the test preparation processSecond, communicate with your child to understand their inner feelings and provide the necessary support and guidanceAlso, help your child establish clear goals and plans and monitor their implementationFinally, guide children to better understand the importance of career choices and encourage them to face various challenges in society positively.
Recently, a devastated mother publicly reprimanded her son on the Internet, saying that if he still has no plans for the future of the public examination, she decided to cut off the mother-son relationship with him. This move was unexpectedly supported by a lot of people. It is believed that mothers are doing the right thing and that their children should not be left to gnaw at home aimlessly. From this incident, we can see that although parents are willing to give their children support and understanding, they should also dare to question and remind their children at the appropriate time to awaken their sense of responsibility and independence.
Through observation and care, parents can better understand the real state of college students when they prepare for the civil service exam, and avoid them missing out on opportunities for growth and development due to avoidance. Establishing a good communication channel with your child and stimulating your child's inner motivation will help shape their positive attitude towards the future. Parents should be clear about the support and guidance they give, and they should neither interfere too much with their child's development nor be irresponsible for them. In addition, parents should also have certain career planning and psychological counseling skills to provide more comprehensive help for their children.
When facing college students preparing for the civil service examination, parents need to understand their children's situation and give necessary support and guidance. At the same time, parents should dare to question and remind their children, and encourage them to establish a correct outlook on life and valuesAnd through communication with children, we can understand their inner feelings and provide necessary help. Through such efforts, we can help children maintain a positive attitude in their exam preparations, shape their positive attitude towards the future, and lay a solid foundation for their personal growth and development. In the end, we believe that the understanding and guidance of parents can achieve a better future for their children.