Eight years of extramarital affairs have been bothering me, and the choice between love and love has become a difficult problem for me to solve. in XuzhouYunlong MountainDuring the tour, I decided to leave early to avoid itand XinAs well as her husband awkwardly getting along. MountYunlong MountainAfter the top of the mountain, I listened to the tour guide's introduction to the geographical environment of Xuzhou in an ancient temple, and deeply thought about the balance between giving and giving in life. FaceXin languageWith a family and children, I began to question whether I would have the courage to spend the rest of my life with her. This is a time full of contradictions and complex issues, in pursuitLoveAt the same time, I was faced with the difficult trade-offs.
In August, I came to XuzhouYunlong MountainPlay. Yunlong MountainIt is adjacent to Yunlong Lake in the south, although the mountain is not high, but the surrounding landscape is intoxicating. I insisted on leaving early and sittingTaxiGo aloneYunlong Mountainto avoidand Xinand the embarrassment between her husband. After climbing to the top of the mountain, I overlooked the urban area of Xuzhou, where there were many high-rise buildings and a prosperous area, and I felt a magnificent landscape unlike any other.
Near the top of the mountain, I found an ancient temple called Xinghua Zen Temple. This temple has a long history, built in the Northern Wei Dynasty, and has a history of nearly 1,000 years. Xinghua Temple is a very famous ancient temple in northern Jiangsu, located inYunlong MountainEast foothills. As a Buddhist Zen temple, Xinghua Temple has attracted attention due to its unique geographical location and historical background.
Xuzhou is located in the transition zone between the north and the south, the key to the north, the gateway to the south, and the gateway to Nanjing. Its geographical location determines the importance of Xuzhou and is one of the reasons why it has become a battleground for soldiers. In addition, the surrounding area of Xuzhou is mountainous, easy to defend and difficult to attack, forming a natural defensive barrier. The existence of the Yellow River's natural danger has further increased Xuzhou's defensive advantage. In addition, Xuzhou also has a waterway system that extends in all directions, such as surround by Surabaya and flowing through Bianshui, which facilitates transportation and transportation. These advantages make Xuzhou a strategically important location in the military.
Standing in the courtyard of Xinghua Zen Temple, I began to think about the choices in life and the balance between giving and giving. Even though I've always loved itXin language, but she already has a family and children of her own. I'm working withXin languageThe affair tasted itLovesweet, but also experienced many painful struggles. Now, I need to decide whether I want to give up this affair and choose to go back to my family. I knew it wasn't easy to make such a decision, but I also realized that I needed to take responsibility for myself and my family.
In the environment of Xinghua Zen Temple, I felt a sense of inner peace and space for thinking. I thought about myself withXin languageand future choices. Extramarital affairs have brought a lot of passion and joy to my life, but they have also added a lot of distress and pain. I understood that I couldn't run away and hide all the time, and I couldn't keep letting other people make decisions for me. I need to be brave enough to face my choices and make a mature and responsible decision.