As we all know, companionship is a wordless confession that represents the most sincere love and care for others. Whether it's a husband and wife relationship, orParent-child relationshipWe all want to be able to get each other's company and make more good memories around each other. MarriageThe wife longs for her husband's company and wants him to take care of her. In the family, children crave the company of their parents, not just their material support. When a childGrow up**When parents reach old age, they also crave the company of their children, which is seen as the bestFilial piety。However, the reality is often not as good as it should be, and children are also under pressure to live and work, having to live away from home and not being able to spend long periods of time with their parents. As parents, they must learn to let go, adapt to living alone, and try not to burden their children. Parents can only truly succeed in expressing their love if they are allowed to become independent and independent from their parents' lives at an early age.
Gao Dong's college classmates are a typical onePhoenix manThey all come from remote and backward rural areas with relatively low economic income. However, his shortnessMarriagesounded the alarm for Gao Dong. After he got married, he took his parents to live in the city and slapped his wife in order to honor his parents, which led to a family disputeMarriageof rupture. Then, he encountered it againMarriageThe dilemma in the market because:Phoenix manidentity and difficulty finding a new partner. This gave Gao Dong a lot to think about, and he realized that living separately from his parents was the right choice.
The conflict caused by the difference in the living Xi of Gao Dong's wife and his parents is a very real problem. His dad is a big smoker, and his wife is very nasty about cigarettes. In addition, his parents' frugal Xi conflicted with his wife's requirements for quality of life. On top of that, his mother can't see her son doing housework, which can also cause friction. In order to avoid further disputes and quarrels, Gao Dong made up his mind to live separately from his parents.
Although Gao Dong decided to separate from his parents, he was not an unfilial son. He gives his parents 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, and goes back to his in-laws' house at least twice a year, takes his parents out to play, and takes them to the hospital for physical examinations. His wife is also very concerned about her parents, giving her in-laws 2,000 yuan a month in alimony, and often keeps in touch with them.
For parents, living independently does not mean being isolated and forgotten. On the contrary, it can give them more freedom and independence. With a high degree of freedom, you can decide your own lifestyle on your own or choose your favorite social circle. In addition, independent living can also give parents more time and opportunities to develop their interests and hobbies. In this way, parents can better enjoy their retirement and live a more fulfilling and happy life.
In modern timesSocialCompanionship has become a scarce resource. However, companionship does not only mean being together physically, but more importantly, caring for each other spiritually. In the selectionMarriageWhen facing the problems of our parents, we should be more rational and calm, and find ways that suit ourselves and our families to meet each other's needs. Whether we choose to live separately from our parents or with them, we should respect each other's feelings and needs and strive to create a harmonious and happy family environment.