Walking through thousands of mountains and rivers, it is all for this world full of freedom and a free homeland. I have been wandering in a foreign land for more than a year, and now I finally have the opportunity to recall that warm longing and missing my home. For those who are adrift, where exactly is their home located?When they looked back at their distant homeland and looked up, the road ahead still seemed confused. I broke up with him that year and my life changed forever....My life started to be different. Although only failure is the ultimate goal, I only have the future, not the past.
Reading guide: With its magnificent atmosphere and noble quality, the TV masterpiece "Crossing the Guandong" presents the audience with an eye-catching large-scale population migration event in the history of our country. In this TV series, we see vivid and vivid characters, they are either heroic, loyal and kind, or impassioned, and they use their lives to write the legend and glory of life. Many characters in the film, especially Wen Ta Niang and Xiu'er, have left a deep memory on us. It is these two women who associate the joys and sorrows of a family with the ups and downs of society, and they have become symbols of countless female roles in China.
Although Wen Ta Niang is only a supporting role in the play, her soul is irreplaceable. Her dazzling light cannot be hidden, and no one can ignore such a woman of wisdom and heart.
In her young years, like many first-time love girls, Wen Ta Niang's love for Zhu Kaishan was unhesitating and uncomplaining.
In those days, Zhu Kaishan was penniless and had almost nothing. And Wen Ta Niang is the young lady of other families. Although the family was originally opposed to this marriage, Wen Taniang firmly believed in her choice and believed that only Zhu Kaishan would marry him. When she was young, she devoted all her energy to Zhu Kaishan, entrusting her body and mind to a poor young man.
However, all the events that followed fully confirmed that Wen Ta Niang's judgment was absolutely accurate, and her bet on this life was correct.
In the first episode of the TV series "Breaking through the East", Zhu Chuanwen went to the Tan family for a wedding, and after a little decoration, he planned to take Xian'er home, and brought a stone of millet with him, because the Tan family was willing to use this stone of millet to marry Xian'er to Chuanwen.
Unexpectedly, Millet was hijacked by bandits on the way. When Wen Ta Niang witnessed the group of robbers' eyes flushed because of Xiaomi, she realized that Xiaomi would most likely not return. In order to save her life, she decided to hand over Millet to the kidnappers, thus avoiding a possible life-saving catastrophe.
Although the millet used to welcome the wedding is no longer there, her daughter-in-law still wants to get married. Therefore, Wen Ta Niang decided to go to Tan's house to pick up relatives in person. Her trip was undoubtedly to give the Tan family a great respect. After discussing with the Tan family, she decided to bring Xian'er home first, and then Xiaomi would gradually arrange a marriage for her.
Although Wen Ta Niang did not succeed in marrying Xian'er in the end, it also showed that she has excellent adaptability and adaptability in the face of various situations.
During the time when Zhu Kaishan went to the gold mine, Wen Taniang shouldered all the responsibilities of the family. Not only does she have to make sure that her three children's daily needs are met, but she also takes care of every detail and plans well. Wen Ta Niang is a very wise person, she can not only take care of her own life, but also know how to care and love her children. She has to show the image of a loving mother and ensure that the children's daily life is in order, but also show strict fatherly love, so that the children understand honor and shame, and understand etiquette. When she learned that Chuanwu had stolen the precious old ginseng of the Xia shopkeeper, she strictly carried out the duties of her father and gave careful and patient guidance to Chuanwu.
After that, Buntamu decided to adopt a Japanese child named Ichiro. The child was originally picked up by Xiu'er, but because Xiu'er's father was against **, Xiu'er had nothing to do, so she decided to send Ichiro to Zhu's house. When everyone in the village learns that the Zhu family has adopted a child with an infectious disease, they are all conflicted about a group of people going to the Zhu family to cause trouble. It was Wen who came up with a way to pick up the kitchen knife and prepare to fight them, which caused everyone to panic and choose to flee.
For Bunta-niang, whether Japanese or Chinese, Ichiro is a vibrant life. She couldn't stand idly by, so she didn't hesitate to stand up to the villagers and decided to adopt him, which also made Ichiro the fourth child of the Zhu family.
After that, Ichiro, who had been rescued by Wen Ta Niang, returned, but was unfortunately used by the Japanese and betrayed the Zhu family. When Wen Ta Niang learned that it was Ichiro who betrayed the Zhu family, her expression was very calm, and she was not full of anger and sadness like ordinary people. Because, she knew her mistake. As if nothing had happened, she actually went to celebrate Ichiro's birthday when Zhu Kaishan lost consciousness, and also personally made Ichiro's favorite hand-rolled noodles.
It must be admitted that Wen Ta Niang has a deep understanding of human feelings. Until things are completely figured out, she didn't speculate, and she didn't go toe-to-toe with the Japanese. In addition, Ichiro is a witness to her upbringing, and she also has a certain understanding of his heart. As a result, she chose to wait and see what happened in order to adapt to the changing environment.
I also want to send a message to Ichiro through this bowl of hand-rolled noodles: although he may have made mistakes, in her heart, Ichiro has always been her best son, and she hopes that he will deeply cherish family affection through this bowl of noodles.
The Zhu family has a total of three daughters-in-law, and Wen Ta Niang naturally needs to follow a unique set of balance guidelines when dealing with the relationship with these three daughters-in-law. She must ensure that every daughter-in-law is treated fairly, neither overly pampered nor neglected by any one daughter-in-law. Otherwise, there will be a situation where "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law do not get along". If you are not careful, it can easily lead to conflicts within the family.
So far, many mothers-in-law have not been able to properly handle even one daughter-in-law, let alone three. She is my neighbor and she lives in the same building as me. Although Wen Ta Niang is illiterate, she has done a very good job of handling the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
As a well-informed woman, Wen Ta Niang has an in-depth understanding of the personalities of her three daughters-in-law, so she has implemented a strategy of "precise policy" for each of her daughters-in-law.
The eldest daughter-in-law, Na Wen, was a member of Gege, and she liked to show her cleverness, but at the critical moment, her attitude was very clear, which was seen by Wen Ta Niang, and she turned a blind eye to it.
The third daughter-in-law, Xia Yushu, is an energetic person, and Wen Taniang doesn't care too much about her, only occasionally joking with her.
Xiu'er, as the only second daughter-in-law, gave her deeper care and love. What is the love of the mother?Xiu'er's feelings for Zhu Chuanwu have always been the same, but Zhu Chuanwu chose to leave with Xian'er the day after Xiu'er's wedding. Despite this, Xiu'er's deep affection for Zhu Chuanwu has never changed, how can such a poor daughter-in-law not have Wen Taniang's care and love. Wen Ta Niang is determined to use her doting to establish her prestige for Xiu'er and ensure that the other two daughters-in-law dare not laugh at her.
It also highlights how much difference there is between marrying a man who doesn't really love her and marrying someone who really loves her. No matter how hard life is, marrying the man you love dearly can bring you sweetness and happiness in your heart. It is precisely because of such happiness that Wen Ta Niang is willing to take care of this big family wholeheartedly.
To sum up, although Wen Ta Niang and Xiu'er are not significant in their contributions and achievements in the play, and they can't go outside like men, they use the kindness, tenacity, courage and wisdom of women to successfully unite the vitality and spirit of the whole family. They are the strongest people in a family. It is only when they take care of the rear affairs for the men with deep care and tolerance that they can step out of the house with peace of mind and give their all to the front. In this process, we see the love and fidelity between women and their husbands, as well as the attitude of men towards the family. Even though Wen Ta Niang and Xiu'er are just ordinary women, their fate shows us that only when women are truly loved can they have more confidence and decision-making power to manage the entire family.