In film and television dramas, Zhong Yuemin is undoubtedly one of the most "irresponsible" actors.
As Zheng Tong said: "We all have respect for Zhong Yuemin and hope to live like Zhong Yuemin, but in fact we are not him."
He filmed ** for Zhou Xiaobai in the way of "patting his mother-in-law", but after going to the countryside, he chose to break up, leaving only a sentence of "inappropriate" as his apology.
He fell deeply in love with the Qinling Mountains, which sang the praises of Xintianyou, but because he wanted to return to the city, he missed the last encounter with the other party.
He "abducted" Gao Yue when making pancakes, but finally chose to go to Hoh Xil.
He meets three girls who really treat him, but in the surge of emotion, we gradually realize that he only has love for one person - himself.
Zhou Xiaobai - The chance encounter at the Shichahai Ice Rink provided a perfect supplement to the spiritual blank space between us.
Zhou Xiaobai was born in a ** family, and her arrogance and superior family environment shaped her arrogant and stubborn personality.
In that era full of red, Zhou Xiaobai and her shiny red scarf suddenly imprinted deeply in Zhong Yuemin's heart.
After the sweet time at the beginning, the conflict between the two quickly escalated: the influential second-generation red Li Yuanchao raised his arms and shouted, calling on the younger generation of the compound to arrest the "little bastard". Xiaobai didn't want him to go, so he looked up and said to him, "If you need me, then don't go." ”
Xi Zhong Yuemin, who is accustomed to freedom, does not want to face all kinds of orders and threats, and perhaps from that moment on, Zhong Yuemin has the idea of breaking off relations with Xiaobai.
His deep affection for Zhou Xiaobai is like an innocent teenager who injured his waist because of love, which is also an exploration of his own heart. He had a deep affection for the woman who loved Tchaikovsky dearly, and from the point of view of spiritual pursuit, they were identical.
They became each other's first lovers, and despite their great efforts, they still failed to achieve the desired results.
It's really hard to tell what we're really looking for, and who we're really in love with. In this world, I don't know how much I can do. Just because of that first heartbeat, I wanted to keep going.
Yuemin's affection for Xiaobai is not accidental, he has observed an unruly temperament from Xiaobai, so he thinks they are very suitable.
Yuemin pieced together the mental outlook from the first person, and he believed that finding a spiritual partner who could comfort each other was the way home. On the way, he found that this man had not found a spiritual home, but was drawn by a force called "loneliness". He made a mistake.
Qinling Mountains – The song crosses countless ravines, which represents the true freedom of the soul.
Qin Ling was very witty, and she noticed early on that Yuemin was different from others, because she had a striking resemblance to Yuemin. Although the connection between Zhong Yuemin and Qinling was short-lived, it was deeply rooted in the bone marrow. He was a very spiritual man and very passionate. He will never forget the vibrant and passionate folk song of northern Shaanxi, nor will he forget the place in Qinling that is as free as his soul.
When Zhong Yuemin reunites with another person, fate seems to have sealed their fate: he is driven by the pressure of society, wears a suit, sits on the throne of leadership, and begins his business journey;Once again, he heard the song in the lobby describing the clouds blooming all over the sky - Qin Ling had also lost his freedom in the lobby. The two meet again at a party, and their love ends. These two people who have lost their souls of freedom are not only unable to stay together because of money, but their souls that attract each other are gradually withering.
Yuemin's deep affection for Qinling is an unswerving emotion, and he loves so passionately that he leaves without hesitation. The secular ideas they wish to get rid of can only be realized through the experience of cutting in line on the Shaanxi Plateau.
Yuemin sees his soul in the second person, a woman who is very similar to him, there is no commitment between them, there is no sense of responsibility, they are truly free people, and they will not change their personality because of love.
Gao Yue - her cheerful temperament and righteousness remind people of their past selves.
Many people believe that Gao Yue's appearance was very timely, neither in advance nor delayed. She is an elegant woman, and her every move on stage is full of tenderness and delicacy. She always gave Zhong Yuemin a warm hug and acceptance as usual.
The encounter between Zhong Yuemin and Gao Yue was actually an accident. In the army, they are all famous "pancake kings", and they are all well-known good cadres in the military and locality. In the process of changing jobs, the two were dissatisfied with the assignment of work and quickly became partners in the pancake stand. If I have to point out the uniqueness of Gao Yue's attraction to Zhong Yuemin, it is undoubtedly her tenacity and total devotion to friendship.
Xiaoyue entrusted him with the responsibilities of her career and family;Going to the soup for his friends side by side with him provided him with unfettered opportunities.
Yuemin had a deep dependence on Gao Yue, but when he regained his composure, Gao Yue still stood there quietly and waited.
Yuemin realized from the third person what kind of person he should be in this world, although he misses freedom, but at the same time bears a certain responsibility. Gao Yue misbehaved, did not stick to tradition, and was willing to give him freedom;However, there isn't much in common between the two and they can move forward together.
For these three women, Zhong Yuemin actually doesn't really love them, he only cares about himself.
He searched and pondered on his journey, and finally realized that if he could not achieve the balance of his personality, then no one was truly suitable for him.
Therefore, you have to understand that in our lives, what we seek is not to be in tune with our own hearts, but to truly understand ourselves or with our imaginary souls. Therefore, in the end, it may not be the person who loves you the most, nor the person you love the most, but the person who is most suitable for you.