Pursuing and expressing love is a delicate art. However, there are some ways to pursue that may make girls feel uncomfortable and even disgusted.
In this process, there are three ways that are especially easy to discourage girls, and the second way, which is known as the most deadly.
Let's dive into these three ways to pursue and provide some food for thought for those who are exploring the path of love.
One. Too intrusive attention
The first type of pursuit that is most disgusting to girls is the overly intrusive attention. This way is manifested in extreme concern for the lives of girls, almost to the point of surveillance. Checking her every news through social **, liking and commenting without thinking, or frequently sending messages asking about her whereabouts, such behavior may make girls feel overly concerned and lose their space and privacy. Girls crave respect and understanding, not excessive interference.
Two. Excessive comparisons and show-offs
And of all the pursuits, the most lethal may be excessive comparisons and show-offs. Some men like to attract attention by showing their material resources, social circles, or professional achievements when courting girls. However, this excessive show-off often makes girls feel uncomfortable. Girls pay more attention to the connection between real emotions and human nature, rather than the glamorous appearance on the surface. Excessive comparisons will not only make the girl feel pressured, but may also make her wonder if the other person is sincere.
Three. Disrespectful invasion of personal space
The last way of pursuing that girls don't like is disrespectful and violates personal space. This includes forcibly approaching or being too intimate without a clear indication of willingness to socialize. Or even when she makes it clear she's not interested, she still lingers. Respecting the other person's wishes and space is the foundation of a healthy relationship, and if a man ignores a girl's rejection or boundaries, it is easy for her to feel upset and violated.
The second way of death: excessive comparison and showing off
Of the three ways, excessive comparisons and show-offs are considered the deadliest. This is because it goes directly to the heart of human relationships, which is real emotion and empathy. Girls value a real and in-depth person more than a stranger who only shows off. Excessive comparisons may make the girl feel that the other person is only seeking short-term vanity satisfaction, rather than treating her sincerely. Genuine emotion and empathy are the cornerstones of a relationship, and excessive comparisons and show-offs can undermine this cornerstone and lead to the disintegration of the relationship.
In the process of pursuing love, it is crucial to understand the feelings of girls and respect their choices. Excessive intrusion, comparison, and show-off may make girls feel uncomfortable and even disgusted. Building a healthy, equal, and respectful relationship takes time and effort, but it ultimately makes for a beautiful experience worth pursuing. I hope that every suitor can learn more in the process, become a better version of themselves, and create their own love story.