Kazuo Inamori said
You can't see others being good, others may not be bad, but you are certainly not good, because you don't have good in your heart. You want others to be good, others may not be good, but you are certainly good, because you have a good heart. People are good, although the blessing has not come, the disaster has been far away;People are evil, although the disaster has not come, the blessing has been far away. ”
There are two things in this world that are not easy to look at. One is the sun, which is daunting in its glorious beauty;The second is the human heart, which is complex and diverse and elusive. However, there is one kind of ** in people's hearts that is even more difficult to face, and that is jealousy of other people's good luck. What's more realistic is that these people who don't like you are often the people around you.
There's a saying that no one really wants you to do well except your parents. This sentence expresses our ambivalence with those around us: I really want you to do well, this is a real emotion;But at the same time, I hope you don't have as good a life as me, which is also a true psychology.
Normally, the better the people around you, the more you can motivate yourself to become better. However, most people want to be worse than themselves. If you are richer than him, he will be jealous;If you are happier than him, he will be dissatisfied. The vast majority of people suffer not because they are not successful enough, but because they see that the people around them are more successful than themselves.
Being jealous of others does not make our lives better, and indulging in coveting other people's lives all day long will only lead to the loss of self and the reduction of happiness. To understand the world is to touch the heavens and the earth, to gain insight into all beings, and to have a broad mind.
The world is more than just the tiny pieces of our lives. In this world, there will always be people who are richer, more beautiful, and more capable than us. We can't always compare ourselves to others, the key is to live our own lives. The easiest way is to sincerely hope that others will live well, know how to empathize, and the fulfillment of others is also the fulfillment of oneself.
Let go of the superfluous comparison mentality, learn to appreciate the good in others, and take back our excessive attention to others and focus on how to improve ourselves. Only with sunshine, self-confidence and a positive mindset will our lives become better and better, so that there is real meaning.