The entanglement between money and feelings has now become the biggest obstacle in blind date marriage. Even though two people love each other, there is a rift because of the bride price. For those boys who can't afford a high bride price, it's hard to even get the chance to date, let alone start a relationship.
In modern times, couples who are in free love may be able to reduce the burden of the bride price, but for boys who meet on a blind date, the bride price has become an indispensable part.
It's really not easy for a boy to get married!
In Shandong, a man went on a blind date, and the woman directly told him that the bride price was 280,000 yuan.
Hearing this, the man retreated, "I can't afford to marry at all."
The story takes place in a village in Shandong, early in the morning, a man and his cousin go to the woman's house for a blind date. In order to show his sincerity, the man deliberately bought a gift, a carton of milk and a box of dried fruits, although the value may only be about 100 yuan, but it is a courtesy.
It's often said that the devil is in the details. The man went on a blind date with a gift, which was deeply loved by the woman's elders.
This guy looks good!Although the blind date had not yet begun, the elders of the woman's family were full of praise for him.
The elders did not interfere too much with their blind dates, simply asking the men about their families and work, and then leaving a private space for the younger people to communicate freely.
Whether it is suitable or not is known only to the parties. The elder and the matchmaker just did the job of matchmaking and gave the space to the two of them.
The girls are outstanding, look neat and clean, give a ladylike feeling, and make people fall in love at first sight.
However, appearances should not be deceitful, and the girl asked the man about it directly.
Do you have a house or a car?The girl asked.
The man told her that he was 21 years old, and asked the girl's age, and learned that she was three years older than him, 24 years old. They also ask each other about heights, family members, and more.
The man replied that the house had been bought in full, more than 800,000 yuan had been spent, and the renovation had been completed. He also owns a car that he owns in his own garage.
Girls seem to be fairly satisfied with the men's situation.
However, when it comes to the bride price, the girl directly asks for 2880,000 yuan, which is said to be the standard of the local bride price. The man was a little surprised, saying that they didn't have such a high bride price on their side.
Nevertheless, he understood that if he got married, he still had to give the bride price according to the girl's request, because this was the rule of marriage, and he understood this.
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Speaking of the bride price, the man realized that he could not afford it and prepared to leave.
Just as he was leaving the door, the man also asked the girl's mother if the bride price here was really 2880 thousand.
The girl's mother's answer made him completely desperate, and there was no hope for this blind date.
It's not that our family wants such a high bride price, the bride price here is this price!The girl's mother said.
The man nodded in understanding, then turned to leave. He told his cousin that the bride price here is really too expensive, close to 300,000, and he didn't match it, forget it.
However, an interesting scene happened next. My cousin said that since there is no match, then let's get the gift back.
The matchmaker stopped them, saying it was rude. But the two of them thought that since it was impossible, they could not waste the gifts.
So, the man went back to the girl's house, took a carton of milk and a carton of dried fruits, and said that he didn't like it, so he took it back and drank it himself.
The man unceremoniously left with the gift.
The most embarrassing thing is the matchmaker, I didn't expect the man to be so unreliable, this gift is only worth a few dollars, but it can't leave a good impression on the girl, it's too confusing.
Should I give a gift to a blind date?If someone goes on a blind date more than a dozen times a day, he won't lose too much.
Therefore, if there is no match, the girl should take the initiative to return the gift, rather than the man himself. It can be said that neither side knows how to be polite.