Women's interpretation of happiness may not last if happiness is equated with money. Money is important, but it is often only a symptom of happiness, not its essence. If happiness is regarded as a child, although the child is the continuation of life and the sustenance of the spirit, this sense of happiness is also weak. The growth and change of children make this sense of happiness always face challenges and changes.
If happiness is attributed to marriage, it seems that it has found a home, but the trivialities and frictions in marriage may make this happiness dissipate at any time. Without self-growth and inner fulfillment, it is difficult to maintain a sense of happiness for a long time.
True happiness lies first and foremost in the ability of oneself to create happiness. This involves an attitude towards life, a perception of self-worth, and personal growth and improvement. Only with this ability can we continue to create a sense of happiness for ourselves in life.
Second, we need to have the ability to attain happiness. This involves the ability to get along with people, communicate emotionally, and deal with various life challenges. It is only when these two abilities work together that we can truly have a lasting and profound sense of well-being.
Therefore, happiness is not given by external objects or others, but needs to be created and fought for by the self. When we truly understand and practice this, happiness will continue to flow like living water.