Look ahead, don't look back. ”1
Wong Kar-wai said, "To say that there are no regrets in life is a lie, if life is really without regrets, how boring it should be." ”
There are so many expectations, so many regrets, so many regrets, all of which are heartaches that cannot be erased.
In the Eight Divisions of the Heavenly Dragon, Azhu received the palm of Qiao Feng;In the Condor Heroes, the sixteen years of the disappearance of the little dragon girl and the broken hand of Yang Guo;In the ordinary world, Tian Xiaoxia's death;In the Douyin platform in the past two days, Yi Ling's father, a single father who cut his liver to save his daughter...
When people live, what they have is a fluke, and what they lose is all life.
After the age of 30, I felt more and more the fragility of life, the impermanence of fate, and the powerlessness of those of us who are nameless.
Don't say right or wrong, you can't comment on it, sometimes even life and death are always a blow to the head without warning.
The older generation said that in life, there are often only four things that cannot be seen:
Life and death, right and wrong, success or failure, honor and disgrace.
Actually, it's just one word: me.
Thousands of high-rise buildings rise from the ground, and cross the river by feeling the stones, in fact, everyone is the same.
Why is happiness always walking on thin ice?
Because suffering is always there.
Therefore, in my New Year's speech every year, I always don't like to say some motivational quotes, enthusiastic rivers and lakes, and warm greetings.
Because I know very well that no matter how brilliant the fireworks are today, and the fireworks are burned out, tomorrow and next year will be another 365 days to wrestle with fate.
Only a firm belief will be enough to withstand the frost and rain of the coming year:
Live, no matter how painful it is, live strongly.
Because there is nothing we can do but stay alive.
Friend A used to engage in the education and training industry in Shanghai, and he was cold and owed a lot of debts, but he didn't slow down in the past two years, and he didn't dare to see people, one was that he couldn't pay back the money, and the other was the last self-esteem of the middle-aged people.
At the beginning of the year, I called him 10,000 yuan and only sent one WeChat:
Hold on, the light boat has entered the Wanzhong Mountain.
Friend B's mother, who went to the river to wash clothes in the evening in her hometown, was hit by a motorcycle and broke her leg, it was dark, no one, no surveillance, and the perpetrator ran away.
The medical expenses were all self-funded, spending hundreds of thousands, and what is even more tragic is that the small restaurant that has been open for more than ten years was forced to close for several months because of the construction of roads and elevated highways, until it had no choice but to close...
The balance of income and expenditure is unbalanced, and he has almost returned to poverty overnight.
The only fortunate thing is that his wife has picked up a life and is currently recuperating at home.
Friend C, her husband is addicted to online gambling, has lost all his family savings and left a bunch of bad debts, divorced, and has two children by himself.
On the one hand, he has to earn money to support his family, and on the other hand, he has to pay off his ex-husband's gambling debts, but fortunately, his ex-in-laws and his parents still help him bring the children together to make some money to pay off his debts.
But the hard work day and night has made her less than 40 years old and gray sideburns in her 50s.
It's okay to be tired, but I feel sorry for my parents, and I'm getting old, and I'm sinned. ”
Hate your ex-husband?”
It's all downplayed, this is fate. ”
Some of the contract workers who were not part of the establishment had their performance suspended, and some had even their salaries suspended for more than half a year.
Relying on credit cards and Huabei, I barely survived.
is 30 years old, no house, no car, no savings, how can you have the face to go on a blind date, how can you have the courage to fall in love. ”
You say, is it that in another ten years, I will be orphaned in my life, and I will not be able to marry (marry)?”
* There will be people who like to be alone, but they just have to face the disappointment of being alone.
I can't fight for it, I can't afford to have it, and I'm worried about the deterioration and betrayal after I have it.
Making a living, courtship, and the internal cause of bitterness all lie in this.
Some people pretend to be ghosts during the day, and some people cry alone late at night.
Some people are vicious and despicable, but they go to the hall of elegance and pretend to be saints.
Some people uphold the bottom line and be honest, but they are haunted by bad luck and suffer for half a lifetime, and they can't shout a word of grievance.
This fucking real world is so cruel.
I only hope that everyone can follow their own wishes, live this life calmly according to their own hearts.
Whether it is suffering or tiredness, you can bear it, whether it is joy or sorrow, no matter how much slander and malicious blows you suffer, you can stick to your conscience in line with the bottom line of human nature and live this life.
No matter how dazzling the belt of Hermes is, how comfortable is the pleasure of power, and how passionate is the song and dance of the drunken and gold-obsessed warbler, once the body is messed up, it is the desolation of tears behind bars.
Look at the former school girls and the richest man, how many endings are comedies?
A little wealth is peace, and a clear conscience is enough.
The long season, the long years, and the life of suffering have passed another year.
Next year should be better today than it is now.
The light boat has entered the Wanzhong Mountain, friends, hold on.