It turns out that everyone's fate has already been arranged at the moment you are "born".
As the saying goes: "Eight buckets of rice set a limit, and traversing the world intends to be poor." ”
If our destiny is destined to only have limited wealth, then no matter how much we struggle, we cannot change the established trajectory. There are many things that cannot be arranged by an individual.
Why is there a "28 rule"? Why are most people reduced to "80% of the average person"? Is it because they don't work hard enough?
In fact, the top 20 percent of people are able to get development opportunities because they happen to have the right time, place and people. And what about ordinary people? Maybe they have tried their whole lives and have not been able to see the face of opportunity.
Chance is a magical thing, and whether you can encounter it or not can really only rely on "luck". When we're lucky, we can succeed. And when we're unlucky, we may have to make it through this life.
Anyone who has read "Romance of the Three Kingdoms" understands this sentence: "Heaven and earth are all working together, and heroes are not free." ”
When the time comes, the whole world seems to be helping you. Just like Cao Cao before the Battle of Chibi, he easily conquered the north. This is his chance. However, the subsequent defeat was also an irresistible fate.
Therefore, life is full of inadmissibility. There are so many things that we can't change through hard work.
All experiences are the arrangement of fate.
The people you meet and the things you experience are all predestined. Of course, these people around you will teach you some truths and make your life more colorful.
What you can accomplish and what kind of career you have is also fatefully arranged. However, all experiences are valuable. The value of this is that we have lived a life of pleasure.
Some people have an uneventful life, stable and ordinary, maybe not much accomplishment, but they live a comfortable life. Is this their luck?
Some people have a rough life, want to stop and rest, but can't do it, keep running around and toiling, living harder and harder. Is this what they experienced?
A philosopher once said that it is because everyone's experience is different that a colorful world is constructed.
Why is the world so colorful? Because everyone's experience is unique. Why is everyone's experience different? Because the fate of people is different.
We must believe that fate will lead us to a "vague" path in life. And this path will help us find the direction of our lives and live our own lives in the years to come.
Fate is like a network, weaving the blueprint of our life.
Many things are decided at the moment of our birth.
Someone has made the idea that the world is a game and that we are the "predetermined" characters in the game. What this character will go through and what results it will achieve is carefully choreographed.
When it comes to fate, it reminds people of Chai Rong of Zhou Shizong during the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms period.
Chai Rong, known as one of the heroes of the Five Dynasties and Ten Kingdoms, led the Later Zhou Dynasty to glory, conquered countless separatist regimes, and even defeated the Khitan and recovered the sixteen states of Yanyun It has become an inevitable trend. However, fate played a joke and took his life at the age of 38. At this time, the lucky man Zhao Kuangyin ascended the throne and established the Song Dynasty.
It's a frustration. For Chai Rong, who is determined to "fight the world in ten years and rule the world in ten years", his untimely death is undoubtedly a helplessness. For the Song Dynasty, the inability to recover the sixteen states of Yanyun was also a kind of helplessness.
All these helplessness are collectively referred to as the "choice of history".
Man is not capable of going against the tide of history. The so-called "history is a great trend, and if you go with it, you will prosper, and if you go against it, you will die" is exactly this truth.
This is especially true for the average person. Many of these encounters are closely related to the circumstances and timing in which we live. Everything is in "fate".
Life just needs to go with your heart, with your nature, and with your fate.
What do you want to pursue in your life? In fact, we only need to pursue our own fate, and that is enough. Conform to your heart, obey fate, and finally live your own life.
However, many people actually can't do it. Why? Because many people are Xi used to "watching" others behave. What others do, they do it themselves, without the slightest thinking and assertiveness of their own.
However, it must be admitted that everyone's life experience is unique, which dooms many people to have to "go with the flow" in life. This may be the best attitude towards life.
There is a famous saying: "Some people live in high-rise buildings, some people are in deep ditches, some people are bright, some people are rusty, there are thousands of people in the world, and there are no clouds to ask for." ”
Some people are destined to live on top of tall buildings, and we need not envy them. Some people are destined to struggle at the bottom, and they don't need to struggle too much. You must understand that the light and the rust are all sentient beings.
In this world, there are countless unique lives, and we don't need to force them. Sometimes, it is precisely when you don't force it that you can embody the true wisdom of life.
As the proverb goes: "What is the fight on the horn of a snail, this life is parasitized in the light of the stone fire." ”
Human life is like a snail's horn, tiny and fragile, so why should we fight for something? What to do may be plain and sufficient. Everything else, just as you like, as you like, as you like.