Many times, the person asking the question already has the answer in mind, and when asking for help, he just wants to confirm that his decision is the right one. - Keigo Higashino, "Anxiety Relief Grocery Store".How many people have tried to ask questions with the answers, only to be apprehensive at the moment of asking. Perhaps, sometimes what we want is a deception, allowing the other person to tell a lie once, and then believing him and thus choosing to deceive ourselves, because too often the relationship is more important than the truth, and companionship is more important than separation, or it is permissible to use an excuse to cover up a mistake, and the reason for being allowed is only because of "love".
I have seen couples who pretend to be deaf and dumb and still support each other to survive, parents who have seen *** still smile, and couples who have calmed down after hysteria. In fact, because there is love in the heart, it is difficult for people to separate, trivial things are not enough to threaten a strong enough relationship, but if there is a continuous chicken, fly and dog jump, then no matter how strong the love and honey will be crushed, because people will have a burnout mentality, once the happiness and pain are equal, or each has a chance to win, maybe another story will have to begin.
Knowing what to do is like knowing which question to ask, some words are destined to hurt, and some answers are destined to be intolerable. It's just that we all whispered in our hearts: just this once, what if it was a misunderstanding. Because I am reluctant, I am willing to be the last time, but I will not deceive myself forever, mistakes can be made but can be changed, things can pass, but I want to be able to see hope and light, just throw away the answer and listen to you.
Sometimes, it's the fear that you've made the wrong choice, or just asking for support, and the feeling of being alone is too sad, and that's the worst of things. The trust that was wiped out, the feelings that were betrayed by the straightforwardness, and the beauty that was taken away by the years, everything was unbearable, so he gently closed the door and left, without noise or abuse, just asked gently, and then got a definite answer, drawing a lonely end to an emotion.