Every parent has a common desire in their hearts, that is, they want the next generation to be better than themselves. As ordinary people, we aspire to have children who are both excellentEducationand wealth, able to live better than us. This expectation is natural. However, the reality is not quite as it should be. Sometimes, as time goes on, we are faced with disappointment and dilemma. We find that the saying "one generation is stronger than the next" is not entirely true, but there will be a situation where "one generation is weaker than the next". For example, we willPost-70sCompare with the post-90s, when the post-90s becomePost-70sof parents, can they live better, or can their children live better? From the perspective of opportunity, environment, development and market, it is obviousPost-70sis in a better situation. They have more opportunities and don't face endless competition. It can be said that the number of children who "live worse than their parents" will not decrease, but will only increase.
In modern society, parents often have high expectations for their children. They want their children to surpass themselves and achieve more. However, some children may not live up to such expectations for a variety of reasons. This situation is becoming more and more common in our society, especially for families who are in financial difficulties and their children often face greater challenges and difficulties. It also makes us wonder why some children succeed while others don't.
Take, for example, Mr. Chen from Guangzhou, who is a local resident. Over thirty years old, he himselfStart a businessAnd with great success. Coupled with the many properties and assets left to him, he can live a carefree lifelife。However, over the past few years, he has found it increasingly difficult to do business, which makes him wonder why young peoplelifeSo hard, and they themselves were back thenStart a businessIt's so easy. His son had graduated from a certain 211 university, but he couldn't find a stable and suitable job. This made his son very upset. Puzzled by this, Mr. Chen asked his son, "You graduated from 211 University, how can you be unemployed?" The son replied, "Now big companies are also laying off employees, and the probationary period has become free labor." After three months, even 985 graduates will be laid off. It's not as easy as you think. Mr. Chan later realized that this was indeed the case. However, for Mr. Chen, this is not a problem as he has many connections that can help his children find a good job and get himlifeBecome stable. Mr. Chen's son can be said to be lucky, not becauseEducationhigh, but with the help of a good father. Imagine what it would be like if you didn't meet someone who was a good father.
In contemporary society, the phrase "fight dad and fight mom" has become popular again. Many children need to rely on their family background for better opportunities. It's because they found themselveslifeNot as good as parents. At the same time, due to the saturation of the market, children without resources can hardly stand out. In today's society, young people without background and resources are either trapped by 996 working hours and meager wages, or unable to buy a house, car, or get married, orlifeLack of time for pursuit and rest. In contrast, young people whose parents have money and resources have a much easier timelifeThey either have a stable job, five from nine to five every day, or they live a rich and happy lifelifeor just marry someone else and enjoy the doubling of wealth. The gap between people seems to change from comparing oneself, to comparing one's parents, to comparing one's family background. Why are children inferior to their parents? First of all, it is a society where relationships are very important. Parents tend to be stronger when it comes to social resources. Second, the parents are at least married, and the children may not be able to afford it financiallyMarriagefees. On top of that, some parents have abundant resources, as long as their children know how to take advantage of themlifeDon't worry anymore. For children from ordinary families, the starting point of others may be the end of their life's hard work. Some people are bornlifeIn luxury, and some people will never be able to achieve their dreams in their lifetime. That's the reality, that's itlife
For the mundanePost-70sFor families, the predicament they face is just beginning. For economic conditions are goodPost-70sFor families, even if the children are not as good as them, it is not a big problem, because rich families can live a carefree lifelife。But for those who are financially difficultPost-70sFor families, if the children are not as good as them, they will face a big problem. First of all, children are not as good as their parents and cannot buy a house or a car, so parents need to help them buy it. This cost is unaffordable for the average family, and even if it can, it will deplete the family's savings. Eventually, they run out of money of their own, the children are saddled with huge debts, and the whole family is in trouble. Secondly, the children'slifeNot as stable as parents. AsPost-70sMany of them are employees of the unit and have stable jobs. Even if the salary is average, they enjoy working 9 to 5 and live a very relaxed lifelife。In contrast, if children want to get into a stable unit, they also need to compete, with hundreds or thousands of people vying for a position. Therefore, compared with their parents, children are less stable and more competitive. Finally, children rely on their parents, resulting in their parents being lonely in their later years and having no one to take care of them. When parents are old,lifeWhen they are unable to take care of themselves, they need the help of their children. However, if children are financially unable to support their parents, they will not receive the care and attention they deserve. The whole family will face loneliness and hardship. That's the reality, that's itlife。Life is like a play, and drama is like life. Each person's life story is unique. Someone from an early agelifeIn a wealthy family, have everything. Someone from an early agelifeIn poor families, struggling to make ends meet. In either case, everyone has to accept the reality and do their best to change their destiny. Whether it's fighting dad or mom, or working hard, the ultimate goal is to live a better lifelifeto live up to the expectations of your parents. In any case, parents always want their children to be better than them, and this is a parental feeling that cannot be changed. However, the reality is often harsh, and sometimes children do not live up to their parents' expectations, which makes parents disappointed and confused. But no matter what, the love and expectations of parents will always be the same, and they will always support their children and help them find their own path and live their own wonderful life.