My name is Uncle Zhang, and I am 70 years old this year. My first wife died many years ago, and my children were married, leaving me alone in the family. The lonely days of these years are too difficult, and I also want to find a partner, so I registered a blind date**, and I want to find a suitable partner to continue.
I met Aunt Li on **, and I feel that the two of us are a good match. Aunt Li is more than ten years younger than me, and her children are all self-reliant and live alone in a rented house. After many meetings and exchanges, we felt that our personalities and temperaments were very compatible, so we decided to get married and spend our old age together.
On my wedding day, I danced with joy and finally someone took care of me. Aunt Li also smiled from ear to ear, took my hand and said, "Lao Zhang, let's go white!."I also said movingly: "Aunt Li, I can live 100 years old with you!."”
On the first day after marriage, I happily got up early and greedy late to make a big table of delicious food for Aunt Li and my daughter-in-law. Aunt Li also smiled and said to my daughter-in-law: "Girl, your father is a treasure, I will take good care of him." Don't worry!My daughter-in-law also smiled and said, "Mom, I have already handed over my father to you, you must let him eat well and live well, and his health is great!."”
The next day, I said, "Wife, what are we going to do today?"Aunt Li said, "Whatever you want, I'll listen to you!.""I was so happy that I took Aunt Li out to the park. We walked slowly and watched the ducks frolic around the lake. Aunt Li smiled and said to me, "Uncle, we are like these ducks, we also want to be happy!."I nodded and said, "Yes, yes, we're like two inseparable ducklings!"In the evening, I made a few of Aunt Li's favorite dishes, and peeled grapes for her to feed. She ate it deliciously, and I was too late to be happy!
I thought about it for a long time, and I didn't understand why Aunt Li was suddenly unhappy. Did I do something to make her angry?I carefully recalled the bits and pieces of the first two days, and I felt that we were very affectionate, and nothing unpleasant happened.
At lunchtime, I tried to ask Aunt Li, "Wife, what do you want to eat at noon?"I'll do it for you!Aunt Li glanced at me and said angrily, "I can't eat it, you can make it yourself." I hurriedly said, "Then I'll make two poached eggs, can we eat some simply?"Aunt Li said "um", and she didn't know whether she agreed or not.
I quickly made two poached eggs and beckoned Aunt Li to eat. Aunt Li ate silently for a while, and then suddenly asked me, "Did your mother say yesterday that my cooking was not delicious?"I was confused, and quickly explained: "No, no, my mother likes your dishes very much, and she doesn't say anything bad!."Aunt Li said: "You are still hard-mouthed!."I heard it all, your mother thinks I'm not a good daughter-in-law!”
I coaxed her and said, "Wife, you must have misheard." I assure you that my mother is very satisfied with you, so she is relieved to leave me in your care. Aunt Li didn't think so, she stood up and was about to leave, I grabbed her anxiously and said, "You sit down first, let's talk slowly, don't do this!."”
Aunt Li shook off my hand and said, "What is there to talk about!."I've only been married for three days, and your mother said I can't do it, and we're divorced!I said anxiously: "Wife, calm down, we just got married, how can we get divorced?"Aunt Li said: "I listen to your mother and know that she doesn't look down on me!."How am I going to stay in your house?After saying that, she went into the house to pack her things, and it was useless for me to plead.
I'm really at a loss now, the newlywed Yan'er is only three days old, and Aunt Li is going to divorce me!I thought to myself, even if she heard it wrong, she shouldn't be so excited, right?Is this little thing worth a divorce?I sat in the yard at a loss, not knowing how to get Aunt Li to give up this idea of divorce!
I'm sitting in the yard with my mind messed up and I can't think of it. After a while, I decided to go and see Aunt Li first, if I could persuade her to calm her down.
It has been 5 years since I married my husband Liu Ming, and I gave birth to a son and a daughter, and I live happily. Since my father-in-law Liu Zhiqiang and mother-in-law Li Fengying retired and moved from their hometown to live with us, I realized that living with my elders would have so many difficulties.
My father-in-law has a stubborn personality and loses his temper at every turn. For example, at dinner today, he saw that I served him a little less food, and immediately asked me loudly: "Zhao Xin, you think I eat too much, do you deliberately serve me less food?"”
I hurriedly explained: "Father-in-law, I serve it according to everyone's portions, there is no eccentricity, you can look at the bowl again, there are seven or eight dishes." ”
The mother-in-law persuaded on the side: "Lao Liu, the children will not treat us badly, don't be so suspicious." ”
The father-in-law snorted, noncommittal. I had to hurry out with my plate. My father-in-law complained to my mother-in-law, and she advised me not to take it to heart. "You treat him like a child, and take care of him more, because he is old and has a bad temper. My mother-in-law said to me gently.
I sighed: "Mother-in-law, I understand what you mean, but my father-in-law is really getting harder and harder to serve." Last time I bought new clothes for my child, he had to be picky and said that the quality was not good, and the purchase was expensive. The child happily put on new clothes and took pictures, but he was criticized by preaching, saying that the current children are not sensible and only know the famous brand. ”
This kid, grandpa doesn't care about it. Our generation Xi used to being frugal, so don't take it personally. "My mother-in-law enlightened me as always.
However, just last week, my father-in-law's temper finally made me anxious. I wanted to buy my son a second-hand electric car so he could go to school. As soon as my father-in-law heard this, his eyes widened and he asked me loudly: "With such a small profit, you can't even afford a BMW?"If you marry the Liu family, you are good for nothing except having children!”
I was furious and replied, "Father-in-law, our family has limited economic conditions and cannot afford to buy a BMW. Buying an electric car is already good, you don't have to make trouble!”
It's not out of luck!I can't even afford a BMW, is my surname Liu?Zhao Xin, I think you dislike the Liu family for not being rich enough, and deliberately didn't take us seriously!My father-in-law did not budge and angrily accused me.
I couldn't hold back any longer, and said the idea of living separately on the spot: "Father-in-law, you are so unreasonable. In this way, you can move out and rent another house to live in, so that you don't have to fight every day!”
I didn't expect this sentence to stimulate my father-in-law, and he was so angry that he slapped me in the face. "Zhao Xin, what nonsense are you talking about!What's wrong with me staying at my son's house?You're trying to drive me away!”
I was caught off guard by him, and I burst into tears and had a dull pain in my forehead. Seeing this, the mother-in-law hurriedly came over to persuade her, and the father-in-law calmed down, but he still looked angry. I could only hold back my tears, silently thinking in my heart, it is not a matter to quarrel like this.
My brother-in-law Liu Dong is 10 years younger than my husband Liu Ming, and he has been developing his career in other places, and we rarely have contact. This time he suddenly called **, which surprised me a little.
Xiaozhen, I'm Brother Dong. I heard Brother Ming say, my parents have moved to your houseLiu Dong's voice sounded very kind.
Brother, you're finally back!It just so happens that Dad's temper is getting more and more weird, come and help me talk about him!"I hurriedly told Liu Dong about Liu Zhiqiang's various vexatious troubles and today's big quarrel.
Liu Dong was speechless when he heard it on the other end of the **: "My God, my dad has changed so much, why do you lose your temper all day long?."When I come back this time, I have to educate him well!”
Then it's troublesome!I can't stand him anymore. "I finally found an outlet.
Okay, I'll go to the airport right away and buy a ticket, the fastest flight, and I'll be back tonight. It doesn't matter, there is a brother, he must apologize to you!Liu Dong's tone was full of a sense of justice.
hung up**, my heart suddenly became much more steady. Although Liu Zhiqiang has a bad temper, he only listens to Liu Dong's words the most. Since Liu Dong followed his uncle to other places to develop when he was a child, more than ten years have passed, and Liu Zhiqiang also misses this little son very much. Hearing that Liu Dong was coming back this time, Liu Zhiqiang also had a little surprise on his face.
At 8 o'clock in the evening, Liu Dong returned home on time. As soon as he entered the door, Liu Zhiqiang stepped forward to hug his son with a smile: "Dongdong, good son, I finally came back to see my parents!."”
Liu Dong's face was calm, and he didn't hug Liu Zhiqiang back, but went straight to the point: "Dad, I heard Zhen'er say that you have been very bad to her recently, you often lose your temper, and you beat people today, is that so?"”
Liu Zhiqiang was taken aback by his son's serious tone, and he was at a loss: "This." Dongdong, don't listen to her side entirely, she is not filial to be said by me.
Tell me, why aren't other people's daughters filial?Just because I didn't buy a BMW car for my nephew?Liu Dong's tone was even more stern.
Liu Zhiqiang was speechless when asked, and his face was embarrassed and helpless. Liu Dong continued to question: "You are retired and have nothing to do at home, so you know that you are looking for your daughter." As an elder, you have to think more about young people!Now that society is difficult, it is not easy to buy an electric car, and you are still picky, is this reasonable?”
Dongdong, you can help your sister-in-law speak!Liu Zhiqiang defended himself dissatisfied, but he had softened his attitude.
I only look at the facts, I don't help anyone. You've gone too far. If Zhen'er really can't stand it and proposes to live separately, I fully support it!Liu Dong was resolute.
The two fathers and sons were at a stalemate and argued for a long time. In the end, under Liu Dong's persuasion, Liu Zhiqiang unwillingly apologized to me and promised to correct his temper in the future and stop making trouble unreasonably. I breathed a sigh of relief and decided to continue to let my parents-in-law live with us.
It became a turning point for our family to become more united. Liu Zhiqiang also gradually realized that he was old and old-fashioned, and began to learn to help with housework and often tease his grandson. I no longer complain about my father-in-law's temper, but learn to be tolerant and understanding. In life, it is the most rare thing to get along in harmony, and I deeply understand this.