Every season of "Goodbye Lover" will have a pair of characters who are "headaches".
Their relationship is one of joy and sorrow, and the audience is very angry and has issued breast warnings.
This season of the year, it can be said that Zhang Shuo and Wang Mianmian are the youngest of the three couples.
Some viewers even expressed their dissatisfaction, thinking that it was unnecessary for the two to be on this show, and it would be good to just break up.
The couple's marriage was bizarre.
The problem is that they had a wedding, but they never actually received a marriage certificate.
What is the reason for this?
At the urging of their parents, the two held a wedding 3 years ago.
Everything went smoothly on the wedding day, but there was a vulgar "wedding trouble" in the process.
The man's friend "sexually harassed" the two bridesmaids.
Because the matter was not properly resolved on the wedding day, the marriage between Wang and Zhang Shuo planted the seeds of "disharmony" from the beginning, resulting in them never getting a license.
In the past three years, they have often quarreled over this matter, and even quarreled very violently, even causing public quarrels.
If the contradiction between the two is only because of this problem, then Zhang Shuo can use Wang Sleep's attitude to make up for the follow-up operation, which may alleviate the contradiction between the two.
However. I realized that it was only after reading 3 issues that I began to pay attention to the details of the relationship between the two.
It was heart-wrenching that poor Wang was trapped in a trap.
If you lack this background knowledge and only occasionally open the show, I believe many people will feel this way:
This little girl's temper is really hot.
No matter what the occasion, she did not hesitate to hurt her husband's dignity, and even trampled his dignity on the ground in public.
Fu Seoul, along with the people who solved their marriage problems on the same show, wondered why they were able to quarrel every day.
If you dig deeper into the cause and effect of the incident, you can't help but feel that it turned out to be so rash.
They are a couple on campus, from wearing school uniforms to wearing wedding dresses, performing an enviable long-distance love run.
Zhang Shuo pursued the beautiful Wang Sleep very carefully, and he couldn't take his eyes off it.
Wang Mian said that he never had to twist the bottle cap himself, and every time someone else screwed it and handed it to him.
However, once the two actually started communicating with each other, the relationship quietly changed.
Zhang Shuo said that he attaches great importance to the sense of ceremony, so every year on his birthday, Wang Sleep will carefully prepare a gift that he likes.
In the show, Zhang Shuo casually mentioned two gifts.
They had just graduated with an expensive guitar that was worth a lot of money, and it was one of the first gifts they received.
Wang sleeps and finds that Zhang Shuo keeps watching ** and listening to songs.
In order to buy him this item, she silently spent half a month's salary.
After receiving the gift, Zhang Shuo naturally felt very happy. So how did he react?
He was moved to tears, and then sent his crying ** to Wang Sleepy ......
The second gift was a keyboard that Zhang Shuo was reluctant to buy.
He usually likes to play games and plays until midnight, so it's natural to want better gear.
Wang Mian Mian carefully captured it again and gave it to him as another gift.
It can be seen that Wang Mianmian cares about Zhang Shuo very much, she can keenly observe his preferences, and can even give him gifts from the depths of his heart.
What about Zhang Shuo, what about the opposite?
On her birthday, she received a sweater chain from him, but she didn't like it at all, and even lost her temper because of it.
He decided to always ask, "Are you interested in this thing?" before sending something"Make sure to get her confirmation.
She really never received a gift from me again.
In the past 10 years, he has never even given her a bouquet of flowers.
One of Zhang Shuo's female friends had a birthday, and as a result, he went to give flowers to others.
In the show, due to the gift giving, the two had a fierce quarrel, and Zhang Shuo even roared at Wang Sleep.
How can you be so sure that I will like everything you give me?
Didn't you say you liked it, gentleman?
Wang Mian's last trace of psychological defense also collapsed at this moment, and after the two quarreled again, she finally couldn't help crying.
If this man really loves her and cares about her, he will not be reluctant to give the gift she likes, nor will he not give flowers for ten years just because she has refused once.
Perhaps out of attachment to his original love, Wang Mianmian has always had a desire to return to the past, so he can't bear to be separated from him.
But when the "butt washing" incident came out, Wang slept really miserably.
Husbands and wives should share the difficulties of life after marriage.
Love can determine the depth of a couple's relationship before marriage. How far it can be achieved depends entirely on the relationship between the two.
Wang Mianmian obviously said a lot of good things that Zhang Shuo had said to her, and actually did a lot.
Zhang Shuo got sick and had butt surgery, and embarrassingly, he still had to clean the wound every night.
Wang Mianmian didn't care about it, and didn't care about it at all.
A young unmarried woman goes to the hospital every day to wash his buttocks.
Zhang Shuo was very moved, this is what he said.
What kind of return did he give back when he was moved?
Wang Sleep suddenly fell ill before going on the show.
Every day, Zhang Shuo would take her to the hospital, and after she finished the hanging bottle, she would send him a message in advance to ask him to pick her up.
Where did he go?He went home and played games.
Wang Mianmian also had a high fever that did not go away, and his body temperature was maintained at 38 degrees.
After a difficult 38-degree cooling, Zhang Shuo finally breathed a sigh of relief and said happily: "You have finally reduced your fever, then I can go out to play with my friends with peace of mind." ”
From the point of view of Wang Sleepy, such a situation is really bleak.
These memories are all spoken by Wang Sleepy and may be somewhat subjective, so we can find clues from the show.
After climbing the snowy mountain, everyone felt some altitude sickness, and Wang Mian's physical condition was particularly bad, and he suddenly had symptoms of fever.
Zhang Shuo, as a husband, asked the staff for medicine after verbally expressing his concern.
Then he went into the room alone, lay down, closed his eyes and fell into a sound sleep.
It was not until the next day, after the king had gone to sleep and the fever had subsided, that the king went to her room with a lamb skewer to please her.
He has always been like this, always making up for his mistakes with some trivial actions, some cheap costs.
Only think about solving the momentary emotion, instead of going back to the root of the problem.
If this continues, it will only make the wife insane.
Then stand on the moral high ground and calmly observe her madness, claiming that she is emotionally unstable.
He is eventually praised by the outside world as a good person, while she is regarded as a crazy woman by others.
How frightening.
The day of the poster.
The two of them talked about their current married life, and Wang Mian frankly said that now the two are just partners who live together.
Husbands and wives have not lived together for a long time, they are just "love-free sex" or even "loveless sexless" couples.
They have no plans to have children, let alone children.
We've only been married for three years, and others still treat us as newlyweds.
Their mutual dislike has reached the point of intolerability.
The contradictions between the two of them are one after another, although others may be able to quarrel at the head of the bed and at the end of the bed, but they can only quarrel today and continue to quarrel tomorrow.
Wang Mianmian always used not bringing ** as an excuse, which led to the two agreeing to get the certificate twice but failing to finalize the relationship.
After having a fever, Wang Mian said calmly to Zhang Shuo, we can be friends first, when your partner makes you feel tired.
As night fell, another fierce quarrel began.
She couldn't really see him as an ordinary friend who had nothing to do with it, which didn't match what she was saying.
Maybe it's because she has paid too much before, she can't let go of the investment of the past 10 years, and she can't accept the ending of Lan Yinsuguo. She wants to use the last of this time to recover the debt she owes.
She is more because she can't stand to give but can't get a response, she longs for Zhang Shuo to spoil her and love her like before.
The more she struggled, the deeper she sank.
The psychological counselor made an analysis after the show that Zhang Shuo and Wang Mianmian were able to maintain such a relationship for 10 years, and what is even more surprising is that their relationship began in high school.
It is very likely that the reason is that Zhang Shuo's family is well-off.
Although Zhang Shuo's family background is average and he is not rich and rivals the country, he should be able to solve the problem of food and clothing, and his parents should be the kind of parents who are selfless and care for their children.
Although it is not mentioned in the show, Sleep once stated that Zhang Shuo's parents are very good people. It was precisely because of the influence of his parents that she finally believed that Zhang Shuo and him entered into marriage, she never thought that such an excellent parent could educate such an excellent child.
80% economics is psychology and 100% psychology is economics.
In this way, it is not unreasonable.
However, now that Wang Sleepy has become a post-90s beauty blogger, with her own career and excellent appearance, she has no need to rely on a relationship that consumes her internally.
In relationships, women tend to take on more responsibilities, but when their desires are abused, this feeling is extremely desperate.