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The years go by, time flies.
The most unbearable thing in this world is time. We may grow old before we know it. No one wants to get old, but no one can control aging either.
We have no choice but to accept this reality. Aging is something you can't control, so don't overthink it and do what you have to do.
We are not afraid of getting old, but we need to know how to get old.
Because age is only part of getting older. Some people are not very old, but they are already old. Some people are very old, but their minds are not old at all.
In general, three changes mean that a person is aging:
I don't want to spend any more money.
A lot of people may think that not wanting to spend money has nothing to do with getting older.
Because some people are reluctant to spend money, even if they are young. They don't feel safe at all, and they seem to feel that they will never get back the money they spent.
Of course, this is just an exception.
Actually, I'm talking about you spending a lot of money at the beginning, and suddenly you don't want to spend money.
Just think, why don't you suddenly want to spend money?
The answer is simple. In other words, you have a lower ability to make money, so you want to save for retirement.
When a person starts planning for retirement, it means that he or she is getting older.
I know a friend named Ruee. When we first met, he spent lavishly. At that time, I advised him not to spend money like this. Otherwise, it will greatly affect his life.
Long Jiang said that you can only make better money by spending money. There is no point in making money if you don't spend money. After listening to him, I didn't argue with him anymore, because there was no need at all.
After that, Liwei suddenly didn't want to spend money, and I asked her if she had encountered any difficulties, and Liwei replied that there were no particular difficulties, and she just started to think about the future.
Although Long Jiang has spent a lot of money over the years, he has never been afraid of the future, let alone what will happen when he gets old, he said that he is starting and feels very anxious. He won't have any pension.
I'm a little surprised by the change in Longjiang, but it seems to be true, and when you start thinking about retirement, you can suddenly get older.
Compared to when we were younger, we have a sense of crisis and have to think about the future and what will happen when we grow up.
Therefore, if a person who has the courage to spend money suddenly stops spending, it is likely that the person is getting older. This change is not an external cause, but a change in ourselves.
I was especially impressed when I saw something like this online:
In fact, that's exactly what it looks like. If a person is secure enough in his heart to not think about money, let alone his future, then why is he not willing to spend money?What about the money?
To put it simply, not wanting to spend money doesn't mean you don't want to spend money, but it may mean that you have low earning power and no money to spend.
My body is tired.
When I was young, I was very energetic and didn't have the pressure to stay up late. Sometimes I stayed up several times in a row, and gradually I found myself tired. I can't stay awake anymore.
If you feel tired, especially if you stay up late, or feel tired all the time, it means that your body is not functioning properly. When the body functions declines, it means aging.
Now that I'm older, I can't do some things, and of course I'm physically tired.
My friend Xiao Meng knows this very well. Xiaomeng is a self-** practitioner. She stayed up late writing articles. If she gets a good night's sleep the next day, she'll be extra energetic. And she doesn't feel tired at all.
However, in recent years, Xiaomeng has clearly felt that his body is different from before. Now, if I stay up late to write, I'll feel tired the next day. Even after a day's sleep, I felt sleepy and didn't have the courage to stay up late.
When I talked to Xiao Meng about this topic, Xiao Meng said: "It is impossible for human beings not to be satisfied in this world. Once you reach a certain age, even if you are not satisfied, your body cannot deceive you. Say.
Now, Xiao Meng doesn't work hard anymore. I don't think it's worth risking my life to make money. Due to this situation, you need to take good care of your body to avoid problems.
I especially agree with Xiao Meng's view, "There is nothing more important in this world than life, because life is the foundation of everything." Once human life is gone, everything becomes meaningless, and I put it away. ”
I saw a quote on the Internet that touched my heart deeply:
In fact, it does. In the future, I hope that each of us will take care of our bodies and avoid health problems. If we know how to save money, only then can we live the life we want without worrying about the future.
The competitiveness is gone.
There are several situations that often arise in life:
There are several people, young and old, who want to do something great. When the work was done perfectly by the young people, the elders stood up and said:
You see, young people are still very good and can always get ahead of us. Do the "old thing".
Yes, when we are young, most of us are competitive and want to keep up with others in everything we do. Falling behind is considered embarrassing.
But as we get older, we seem to see through things and find that there is no point in arguing over something.
It's that when we encounter something, we begin to understand how to look forward, backward, how to stop being aggressive.
In fact, when we have such a mentality, it means that we are old.
Being young is nothing, and there's nothing to be ashamed of. Because everyone gets old one day.
Still, we can't give up our desire for a better life and a better future.
If we choose to "lie down" and stay still because we all know that we will grow old, then life will become less interesting later in life.
Birth, old age, sickness, and death are actually natural laws. There's no need to think too much about it, and there's no need to worry. Just live every minute with a clear conscience, that's all!