Divorce is the only way to end a marriage. When the marital relationship breaks down and the parties choose to divorce, the former husband and wife cease to be partners in each other's lives. Some people may remain in touch after the divorce, but many more will choose not to contact again.
For those who choose not to contact again, their decision is made for a number of reasons. First, they may already be disappointed and bitter about their past marital relationships. After the divorce, they want to be able to start a new life and get away from the shadows of the past. Staying in touch can keep them reminiscing about painful past experiences, which is detrimental to them coming out of the shadows.
Secondly, no longer contacting is also to protect the privacy of yourself and your family. After the divorce, both parties have their own new lives, with their own families and friends. Keeping in touch can leak each other's privacy and cause unnecessary distress and trouble for both parties.
In addition, no further contact is also to respect the other person's decision. After a divorce, both parties have the right to choose their own lifestyle and circle of friends. If one party wants to stay in touch and the other party doesn't, it's important to respect the other party's decision.
Of course, choosing not to contact again does not mean severing the relationship with the other person completely. In some cases, it is still possible for both parties to maintain a certain amount of contact, such as necessary communication for the sake of children, property, etc. However, such contact should be based on consultations and needs of both parties, not on unilateral requests.
In conclusion, no longer being in touch after a divorce is a common option. It helps both parties to step out of the shadows of the past, protect their privacy and that of their families, and respect each other's decisions. Of course, everyone's situation is different, and the final decision should be made according to the actual situation and needs of both parties.
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