Introduction: Teachers are highly respected and relied on as the guiding light on the path of students' education. However, the subtle changes in the teacher-student relationship, as well as the distrust and lack of understanding of parents, have led to unfounded reports and criticism of some teachers in their work. This article will revolve around a teacher wearing 2The controversy caused by the 80,000 yuan mink coat was discussed, and the misunderstandings in the work of teachers and how to understand and communicate between parents and teachers.
In the traditional teacher-student relationship, students usually have a lot of respect for the teacher and rarely communicate with the teacher after class. Nowadays, however, the relationship between students and teachers has changed subtly, and most students are close to and understand the hard work of teachers. However, it is often difficult to get along peacefully in the interaction between parents and teachers, which is mainly due to the impact of some bad teacher behaviors on the whole teaching team. Although parents superficially respect teachers, they secretly pay attention to their words and deeds. Once parents are dissatisfied, they will report teachers one after another.
However, the issue of teachers' attire has sparked a controversy. This is because the winters in the Tohoku region are colder, so you choose to wear 2The 80,000 yuan mink coat has become "overly high-end" in the eyes of some parents, and it is considered that the teacher's salary is not commensurate with it;Thus, an incident of a female teacher being reported by a parent was triggered.
Parents have certain expectations of teachers' dress standards, expecting teachers not only to focus on their work, but also to strictly control their own tastes in life. As a result, it is inevitable that the teacher's attire will be the focus of parents' attention. However, sharing oneself on social ** and expressing affection for mink coats, regardless of the teacher's original intentions, has sparked dissatisfaction and questions among parents. Behind this incident is a generation gap and misunderstanding between teachers and parents.
The key that led to this teacher being reported was that she was wearing a 280,000 yuan mink coat **. However, the teacher herself claimed that the dress was financed by her husband and purchased by her own frugality, and that she had never participated in after-school tutoring or received any favors from her parents. After an investigation, the true situation of this teacher was confirmed.
Teachers are not well paid, and despite the education authorities' strict ban on private tutoring, teachers often go the extra mile to provide more help to students. Teachers buying high-end clothing is not a reason for parents to question their work ethic. Teachers have their own needs and pursuits, and they can use their savings to buy clothes they want through thrift. Wearing an expensive coat does not mean that they are engaging in off-campus tutoring or accepting benefits from their parents.
This teacher, at the parent-teacher meeting at the end of the semester, took the initiative to discuss this topic with parents. She says she has always worked hard and held herself to a high standard for every student. She appealed to parents not to take teachers' personal consumption too seriously, let alone to button a mink coat to the teacher's hat for supplementary lessons. Parents should be more understanding of the work and efforts of teachers.
As a group of people who carry the mission of education, teachers have a sense of responsibility and professional ethics. They educate children on their own and provide individualized support. Of course, there are some black sheep in the teaching team, but this is not representative of the entire teaching team. Parents should give trust and understanding to teachers in their work, and should not generalize to all teachers because of individual incidents. The efforts and dedication of teachers are understandable, and they deserve the understanding and respect of parents.
Parents' complaints about teachers often come from misunderstanding and distrust, trying to draw from a mink coat to solve the problems of the teacher's profession, and teachers are willing to reconcile and ease the relationship between the two sides through communication, explanation and demonstration with parents. In education, parents are of course an important party, but teachers are the main body of education. Parents should be more understanding and tolerant of teachers' work, communicate with teachers in a trusting and cooperative manner, and jointly promote the growth and development of students. At the same time, teachers should always adhere to professional ethics and professional standards, and work hard to provide the best educational services to students. Only with understanding and trust between the two sides can we truly achieve the co-prosperity and development of education.