Men really like women, and there are these 2 obvious manifestations

I saw such a sentence on the Internet:

"Beautiful love is not obtained by chance.

It takes time to precipitate, be patiently watered, and it takes two people to go through all the hardships together in order to keep the clouds open and see the moon. ”

Only when a man feels sorry for a woman will he put the other party at the top of his heart and will do his best to protect the other party.

My friend and husband were college classmates and got married after graduation.

Although she got married early, her career was not delayed at all.

Before marriage, she said to her husband: "Even if I get married, I will not give up the career I love, and our family responsibilities will be shared in the future." ”

Her husband was full of promises at the time, without the slightest hesitation.

Originally, she thought that her husband was just casually responding, but in the days after marriage, her husband's performance impressed her.

Her company is far away from home, and she says that she can take the subway, but her husband insists on sending her every day and wakes up early with her for this reason.

Sometimes she came home late after working overtime, and when she came home, she saw the spotless floor and the prepared meals.

She felt that her husband was working too hard, so she said that she didn't have to do this in the future, and she would talk about it when she was on vacation.

But her husband said:

I came back early, so I did it easily, so that when you go home, you can look comfortable, and you can concentrate on your work, and whoever of us is free will do the housework. ”

After giving birth to a child, she wanted to return to the workplace quickly, so her husband discussed with the elderly on both sides and asked her parents to take turns to take care of the child for them, so as not to embarrass her.

In this way, she rose all the way through the workplace and became a young female manager of the company, with a bright future.

One day, she suddenly asked her husband with emotion

Why would you like to support my cause like this?Other families seem to be afraid that women are too powerful. ”

Her husband replied:

"Probably because I feel sorry for you.

I didn't think about it that much, I just knew that it was something you loved, so I would protect you.

It's not easy for people to have a little love, now that you have found it, I'm happy for you, and I hope you will always have this love. ”

Later, when her friends gossiped with everyone, she had a feeling:

"It turns out that someone is willing to take care of the things you love, and there will really be a feeling of being distressed. ”

In "Do You Know If You Should Be Green, Fat, Red and Thin", Minglan once went back to her parents' house and had dinner with her family, and encountered something that made her unbearable, so she had an argument with her father.

When she threw off her chopsticks and reasoned with her father, her father was so angry that he raised his hand to hit her.

At this time, her husband Gu Tingye appeared, and with a "father-in-law", Minglan 's father stopped.

Later, he stood in Minglan and sought justice for her, and said to her father:

"Be a man, others hurt you, and you have to hurt others. ”

The implication is to ask Minglan 's father not to always favor other daughters, and then ask Minglan to tolerate it.

In fact, there are many more actions of Gu Tingye to protect his wife, and every time he protects his wife without hesitation and stands up for his wife.

Minglan asked him not to be so good to himself, but he didn't care, because in his heart, husband and wife are a community, and he doesn't help anyone.

When a man really puts a person in his heart, he will want to shelter her from the wind and rain and not let her be hurt in the slightest.

When the other party encounters difficulties, they will rush ahead of the other party without thinking about it.

If a man really likes a woman, the obvious manifestation is the word "distressed".

Because he feels sorry for you, he will support you to pursue what you love.

Because he feels sorry for you, he will willingly protect you from harm.

Emotion