My mother spends more time on TV than at home.
She has dedicated almost her entire life to the studio of CCTV. However, when she finally survived retirement and was ready to enjoy the joy of family, the 55-year-old news of her death in another country came out.
She is Xiao Xiaolin, known as the "iron-faced beauty", not only the host of "News Network", but also the founder of "Today's Statement", and the guide of the famous CCTV host Sa Beining.
Please arrange my funeral in the United States, I don't want to go back to China.
He would rather die alone in the United States than return to China to "return to his roots", and even refused the funeral of his biological parents on his deathbed.
He is Li Yong, who is known as "Brother Yong", and has hosted the Spring Festival Gala many times.
Although these two well-known CCTV hosts died in other places, the last words they left behind are thought-provoking.
A man who devoted his life to the country and its people has tragically passed away, and it is said that he still thinks about the situation of others on his deathbed. He left a 26-word "warning proverb" that touched countless people.
In 1999, the culture was far less widespread than it is now, let alone legal knowledge. Many ordinary people do not know how to use legal means to protect themselves after being bullied.
Therefore, this popular law program "Today's Statement" for the sake of the people came into being, and its founder is Xiao Xiaolin.
When it comes to "Today's Statement", people will immediately think of Sa Beining, whose humorous hosting style, witty language and excellent on-the-spot response ability have left a deep impression on the audience.
However, if it weren't for Xiao Xiaolin, Sa Beining might not have become the host of this show, and it would not have been possible to bring so much laughter to the audience.
Xiao Xiaolin attached great importance to the show "Today's Statement" at that time, and she personally participated in and worked hard to ensure that everything was perfect, from the recording of the show to the layout of the scene, she would carefully check every detail.
Despite being busy, I am happy just thinking of being able to do something practical for the masses.
Because of the lack of trust at first, she was left to do all the work alone. However, even the strongest people cannot resist long exertion. Her body finally couldn't support it, she became weaker and weaker, and her physical strength was constantly exhausted.
She realized that she was a core supporter of the show "Today's Statement," and that if she collapsed, it would be difficult for the show to survive. Although she has always been hands-on, she has actually put the cart before the horse.
If this show is stopped for her own reasons, she will not be able to really serve the people, then she will suffer from self-blame for the rest of her life.
Thinking of this, Xiao Xiaolin decided to give up hosting and devote herself to behind-the-scenes work. However, in order to ensure the long-term development of the show, she still needs to personally supervise the selection of the host, and it is in this process that she and Sa Beining begin a fateful story.
Xiao Xiaolin first released the job information of the host recruitment, and then conducted interviews one by one. That's when Sa Beining broke into her career.
Sa Beining just wanted to "give it a try" on a whim at that time, after all, if he could really become the host of CCTV, how decent it would be for him.
With a tentative mindset, he went to the recruitment site. Since Sa Beining is not a broadcasting professional, other interviewers do not recognize him and feel that he is "not suitable".
However, Xiao Xiaolin saw the potential contained in Sa Beining. She was amazed by Sa Beining's generous and calm, confident and independent attitude and slightly humorous style of speech when he was hosting.
She believes that the "professional training" should not be used to negate the powerful and unique charm displayed by a young person.
Xiao Xiaolin believed that this young man had great potential, so she insisted on keeping Sa Beining and often passed on the knowledge of hosting to him.
Sa Beining has always had a studious attitude, and after a period of training, he was finally able to succeed by his own efforts.
As the fame of the show grows, many people are no longer "legally blind", and Xiao Xiaolin has also reached the age of preparing for retirement, and intends to say goodbye to the stage with peace of mind. However, at this time, the sad news suddenly came.
In 2017, 55-year-old Xiao Xiaolin was ready to reunite with her family, but she was rarely able to spend time with her family because of her busy work. However, one day, she suddenly fainted at home, and at first thought it was low blood sugar, but at the insistence of her husband, she finally decided to go to the hospital for a check-up.
When Xiao Xiaolin and her husband learned the test results, it was like a bolt from the blue, and they realized that Xiao Xiaolin had rectal cancer.
When her husband heard the news, his mind went blank, and when he saw him hiding in the corner and secretly wiping his tears, the corners of Xiao Xiaolin's eyes were also sour.
Because she is busy with work, her husband is in charge of her children's education and everything at home, and now she finally has the opportunity to spend her old age with her husband, but she has cancer.
Although Xiao Xiaolin was scared at the time, she tried to adjust her mentality to comfort her husband.
At this moment, her husband suddenly looked up at her, his eyes were red, and he said: "Let's go to the United States for treatment, the level of medical care there is very high, and you will definitely find an effective ** method." ”
Although Xiao Xiaolin knew that the cost would be very high, under her husband's firm gaze, she could only nod silently.
The couple boarded a flight to the United States, and their son happened to be studying in the United States, so that the family could finally get together!However, this reunion may be the last.
Xiao Xiaolin always feels guilty and indebted when she treats her son, she seems to only see in her memory what her son looked like when he was a child and suddenly grew up as a young man, but she felt vacant in the bits and pieces of her son's growth, because work made her have too little time at home.
In order to avoid making their son feel sad, they did not go directly to his son after arriving in the United States, but first went to an authoritative hospital to arrange hospitalization.
Although she insisted on maintaining her mental state at first, she could not bear the torture of chemotherapy and became weaker and weaker.
Seeing her family working so hard, coupled with the high medical expenses, Xiao Xiaolin was full of guilt.
She used to be so engrossed in her career that she cared so little about her family that she was reluctant to leave them and wanted to persevere, but in the end she couldn't overcome the disease, and finally she didn't even have the strength to get on the plane. She eventually died in a foreign land!
However, even when she was dying, she still cared about the audience, and in the last moments of her life, her last words were still for the sake of others.
When promoting, don't focus on ** like me, but on your own health and longevity. I can only function if you are in good health. Thank you very much!
Xiao Xiaolin regretted very much that she couldn't pay attention to her body, even if she had a family and happiness later, she passed away in an instant.
In these hectic times, some people may sacrifice their health to pursue work, however this is clearly unreasonable. We need to pay attention to the balance between health and work.
Sometimes timely pleasure is also a commendable behavior, after all, "no one can say which will come first, the future or the accident".
I hope that if Xiao Xiaolin has the opportunity to live again, she can spend more time with her family and pay attention to her own life.
As we all know, among the well-known hosts of CCTV, Li Yong is the first person that many people think of. He has hosted a number of popular shows, including "Very 6 1", "Lucky 52", "Wing Club" and "Dream China".
Ordinary people want to return to their homeland, but why did the well-known CCTV host Li Yong choose to be buried in the United States after his death, and even did not allow his parents to attend his funeral?
Before his death, Li Yong had been subjected to a lot of controversy, with some accusing him of "going abroad when he made enough money" and others condemning him as "ungrateful". So, what's the truth?Has he really fully integrated into American society and "forgotten" his roots?
Li Yong was relatively withdrawn when he was a child, always alone, and indifferent to the children around him, so he was not liked by others.
However, what is surprising is that this taciturn teenager later became a well-known CCTV host and won the love of many audiences.
Li Yong studied painting and athletics during her childhood, but neither of these interests lasted.
It wasn't until he was in college that he chose to major in broadcasting and hosting, became a choreographer after graduation, and successfully caught up with a beautiful girlfriend named Harvin. After that, Haven became a CCTV reporter and pursued a degree.
They later became husband and wife, as well as partners, and lived happily ever after, much to the delight of many.
Lao Yong's career is booming, and the important position of his wife is self-evident. She is not only Lao Yong's boss, but also responsible for paying his salary.
Despite this, Lao Yong has won the love of most people with his outstanding talent and humor.
Although he has been married for many years, Li Yong's love for his wife is still undiminished, and he gives all his money to his wife to take care of it.
However, at the end of 2017, Li Yong, who was "red through half the sky", suddenly broke the news of "resignation", and the family of three went to the United States!
Once the incident occurred, many people began to accuse him, criticizing him for "admiring foreign countries and foreign lands", as well as "making profits at home and squandering abroad".
Netizens are sharp-tongued, and Li Yong, as one of China's top male hosts, is loved by the audience.
As for the reason why he quit CCTV, some people are rumored to be terminated due to work mistakes, and some people say that it is out of more company for his family. As for the rumors of "immigration", they were directly denied by Harvin and called "wooden".
Until a Weibo posted by Ha Wen in 2018, the family disappeared.
In October 2018, Harvin expressed his grief over Li Yong's death with the words "Never lose my love". In fact, as early as 2017, Li Yong, who was engaged in hosting work at the time, was diagnosed with advanced laryngeal cancer.
His doctor at the time told him that there were more advanced methods for this disease abroad, so they decided to go abroad. However, even the best ** could not save Li Yong's life.
Eventually, he died, and for Harvin, the death of his lover was undoubtedly a heavy blow.
As a native of China, many people think that they should return to their homeland and put down roots. But as a CCTV host, why did Li Yong choose to stay in the unfamiliar United States rather than return to China?
Since Haven and Li Yong's daughter Fatumah is studying in the United States, Li Yong hopes to be by her daughter's side all the time and not make her feel lonely.
In addition, the cost of transporting a corpse back to China was too high, and he didn't want to make a show, he just wanted to leave this world quietly.
Because the place where they live is too far away, and the visa processing is not done overnight, not to mention having to let the elderly parents endure the blow of the white-haired person sending the black-haired person, considering their physical condition and actual situation, I can't bear to see my parents for the last time.
Haven later decided to settle in the United States as well, living with her husband and daughter.
After the death of her husband, she did not forget her parents-in-law in China, who were still very kind to them and would remit maintenance expenses every once in a while.
On the fourth anniversary of Li Yong's death, Haven shared a pot of flowers on social ** to express his nostalgia for her husband: "Long time no see".
When her husband died, he was only 50 years old, and he was unknown as a child, but with his own efforts, he succeeded in creating a career.
According to people familiar with the matter, Li Yong had long noticed that his throat was uncomfortable, but he didn't care, because his work originally required a "waste throat", so he never thought of going to the hospital for an examination.
By the time he was diagnosed with advanced laryngeal cancer, it was already too late. Chronic overwork and intense work pressure were the causes of this serious illness. However, what is more important than health?
In her nightly dreams, Harvin occasionally dreams of her late husband, Li Yong, in which he shines on stage. When she recalls the happy times of the past, she feels so sad that she may even wake up crying.
Health is always the most important wealth in a person's life, and without a healthy body, no matter how good a job is, it is difficult to achieve, because a healthy body is a priceless treasure.
When you are alive, the first thing you think about is to stay healthy, because only by having a good body can you enjoy a good life.
Health trumps everything, and there is no friend who can compare to it;And disease is the most terrible enemy. Therefore, we should choose sports and fitness to add color to our lives, rather than silently crying over diseases.
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