Recently, on the side of my hometown, another incident happened, two villagers actually had a conflict in the village for a trivial matter, and finally the two families even fought. After understanding the reason, it turned out that the two families would have a conflict, just because of the problem of the homestead boundary.
In fact, in recent years, everyone has also discovered that in rural areas, it is more and more common to cause contradictions because of building houses, building roads, and not being accustomed to one side, and making disrespectful remarks. Some contradictions and quarrels have also changed some traditional concepts in the rural areas.
I remember that in the past, people engaged in production in the rural areas paid attention to helping each other, and although some conflicts occasionally occurred, they would not die of old age. I will basically say hello when we meet, and we will help together if we have difficulties.
But now, this solidarity is gone. Sometimes there will be conflicts between neighbors because of some small things, and these conflicts are often caused by the following four things.
First, fight for land boundaries。In rural areas, the number one problem that often causes conflicts between villagers and neighbors is because of the two families fighting for land boundaries. For example;Some people take advantage of the fact that the owner of the farmland next to them goes out to work and is away from home for a long time, occupying the boundaries of other people's houses little by little, and when the owner comes back to see that there is a lot less land. Therefore, it also raises contradictions.
The conflict between neighbors is also because of the boundary of land, and some people will not hesitate to spend time and energy arguing with their neighbors in order to compete for a little land for building houses, and even do not hesitate to fight. Once such a contradiction arises, it tends to last for a long time. This is also the reason why some places now need to provide a neighbor agreement when building a house.
Second, engage in small actions and gossip。Of course, although it is said that many people's lives are better in the countryside now, in real life, there are more or less one or two people in each village who like to engage in small actions and gossip about others behind their backs. Some deliberately steal or damage the belongings of their neighbors, while others like to fan the flames in the back, which eventually leads to the deterioration of relations between some villages and neighbors, and eventually leads to conflicts.
Third, occupy public space。In fact, we have also found that in rural areas, some people just like to build privately, if the land is their own, it may be better, but some people will occupy the public space and the land space reserved by the villagers because of their own selfish interests.
For example;Construct illegal buildings, temporary houses, or grow vegetables on public roads, etc. Often, in these cases, other neighbors are very upset, and those occupying the common space are reluctant to back down because of their own interests. Once this kind of conflict arises, it will last for a long time, and even lead to the breakdown of the relationship between neighbors.
Fourth, noise disturbs people。Nowadays, the living standards of rural villagers have also improved, and everyone will listen to songs and play mahjong at home during their leisure time. Especially in some places where farmhouses are more concentrated, some people will also open ** loudly after returning home, and even some also play mahjong, noisy and all night, for some old people, it will also affect their rest. Therefore, there are also many local villagers who have conflicts because of these reasons.
Nowadays, the simple folk customs in the countryside need to be well established, and the spirit and concept of solidarity and mutual assistance in the past should also be passed on, instead of being scattered now. To be honest, in the past era, every family in the countryside was really united, especially those villages with strong family and clan values, and they would basically unite and help each other.
But now, the culture and practices inherited by these older generations have gradually disappeared, and there are more contradictions. It's really heartbreaking. Okay, the above is the topic that the author wants to talk to you about, is your village like that?Let's talk about it.
Rural