In Yanbian, Jilin Province, a girl Xiao Wang recently sparked heated discussions among netizens because she refused to attend the wedding of an unfamiliar classmate and refused to give a gift. Xiao Wang's behavior is actually a feedback to the inflated social etiquette and economic burden of today's society. In her view, the gift is no longer a simple expression of heart, but has become a heavy economic pressure. This incident reflects the desire of the younger generation to break free from the social Xi of being kidnapped by comparison and utilitarianism, and to pursue true friendship and human touch.
With the development of society, more and more people have begun to reflect on the traditional way of salutation. They believe that the essence of the gift is to express the heart, not the weight of money. For this reason, there has been a discussion in the society about how to return Sui Li to its original meaning, hoping to restore this pure emotional exchange. In the process, couples also began to limit gift money in creative ways, such as providing "gift money free cards" or holding simple weddings, etc., to reduce the financial pressure caused by gifts.
Traditionally, a wedding is a tedious and financially stressful ceremony. However, with the development of the times, couples are gradually seeking a simpler and more relaxed form of wedding. They begin to abandon too much materialistic pursuits and focus on emotional communication and authentic relationships. To this end, they have come up with various creative ways to limit the amount of money, such as offering "free cards" to show their gratitude in a symbolic amount. This not only reduces the financial burden of the guests, but also demonstrates the sincere friendship.
In modern society, many people lament that interpersonal relationships are becoming more and more indifferent, and traditional etiquette is gradually losing its original meaning. For this reason, more and more couples are beginning to pursue a wedding full of human touch. They hope that through a simple and warm wedding, they can bring each other closer and make guests feel sincere blessings and joy. This kind of wedding that pursues human touch is not only the inheritance of traditional culture, but also the cherishing of true feelings.
With the changes in society, the traditional ritual Xi gradually caused many controversies. On the one hand, many people believe that the gift is an expression of the heart, and that money should not be too much to worry about. On the other hand, young people are looking for simple weddings in the hope of reducing their financial burden. In this controversy, perhaps we can see society's desire for sincere affection, as well as a reflection on traditional etiquette. How to adapt to the needs of modern society while respecting tradition and finding a more appropriate way of expression is a problem that everyone needs to think about. In fact, whether it is Xiao Wang's refusal to follow the gift, or the newcomer's creative way to limit the gift money, it reflects people's yearning and pursuit of real interpersonal relationships to a certain extent. In this process, we should respect everyone's choice, and at the same time actively guide the social atmosphere to develop in a healthier and more harmonious direction.