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There are a lot of skills left by the ancestors to recognize people, and the Seven Views of Zhuge Liang's method of understanding people in the Three Kingdoms period is still quite interesting, which fully reflects the wisdom of the ancients and the grasp of human nature.
The Seven Views are the Law of Man:
One said: Ask it to see its aspirations by right and wrong. This is to consider the aspirations of others, that is, the character of the human being, by asking some big questions of right and wrong. No matter who it is, if there is confusion and a clear position on the major issues of right and wrong, it means that this person's position is not firm, there is a problem with the three views, and he will even cross the river and tear down the bridge. You see, since ancient times, basically all people who have great achievements are people with big ambitions, firm positions, and clear goals.
The second said: Poor people use rhetoric to see their changes. This is through unassailable words, or through constant questioning, to push him into a corner, to the point of being at the end of reason, to see how adaptable he is. But where the ability to adapt is strong, he will find ways to find another way to solve the urgent need from various angles and in various ways. On the other hand, those with weak adaptability are forced to this point, and there are those who are stunned and dumbfounded. You must know that a person who can speak well must be flexible and quick-witted.
The third said: consult it with a plan and look at its knowledge. This point is to ask the other party a difficult problem and consult a solution to the problem, to see whether the other party's strategy is far-reaching, whether the skill is superb, whether there is an overall view, that is, whether it can be taken into account, and all aspects of the problem are involved. If it is a tendon person, he is helpless in the face of trouble, even if he has a good intention, it will leave sequelae, or even backfire. On the contrary, a person with a strategic mind and superb skills must be a person who is well-informed, has a strong sense of the overall situation, and can take into account all aspects.
Fourth, tell him to see his courage by calamity. This is to observe the courage of the other person by making the other person face difficulties, whether they are facing difficulties or retreating. In danger and in distress, it is clear whether you are brave or not. If you rise to the challenge, it proves that this person has hard work, drive, and positivity. If you retreat, it goes without saying.
Fifth, drunk to wine and look at its sex. This point depends on a person's self-control, self-control. As the saying goes, if a person pretends to be crazy after drinking, and has no self-control, then the person's performance in the face of ** needs to be carefully considered.
Sixth, it is said that it is cheap to see it for profit. Gong Shengming, Lian Shengwei, this is also a test of loyalty, put a person in an important position, or a position of abundant oil and water, to see if he can maintain integrity, a person who can maintain integrity, must be clean and self-conscious, and not greedy for money, not lustful, and faithful people.
Seven said, look at the letter by the matter. Agree on one thing with a person, see if he can do what he says, whether he is trustworthy is the basis of a person's character, if it is a person who is untrustworthy and goes back on his word, ignore him as soon as possible.