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Many people feel pain in their lives, but why exactly? They haven't really figured it out yet, and if they can figure it out and see through it, they won't feel pain anymore. In this world, everyone's suffering** is because they can't figure it out and can't see through it. In fact, the cycle of cause and effect is inevitable, and if you think you have been wronged, embarrassed or treated unfairly, you are actually paying off your debts. For example, if you borrow 100,000 yuan from someone else, this is the cause, and if you repay the money, it will be the effect. What you owe to others is what you can't think of? As the saying goes, if you are debt-free, you will be lighter and easier if you pay a little at a time. This is exactly the process that life has to go through, and if you don't understand it, you will feel that it is a kind of suffering; But if you understand, it can elevate your state of mind, remove obstacles, and make your mind clear. When you reach it, there is no pain. 
For those who are single, they always feel that they can't find their other half, and it's painful. But if you think about it from another angle, many people still think that marriage is very painful! Every day someone nagging you and making trouble for you. It really depends on what you think. If you regard him as a coach who exercises your mind and urges you to grow, and he troubles you every day, it is just that the coach is a little stricter, which means that the coach is responsible! Isn't it annoying that people bother to train you? If others make themselves miserable and train you and make you grow, should you treat them with gratitude? Therefore, if you think through many things, it will naturally not be painful! 