The woman was willing to post 300,000 yuan upside down to ask for marriage, but she has been failing, and netizens said that they couldn't afford it after knowing about it
Online marriage solicitation represents the use of the Internet to find the other half of life, in order to achieve the purpose of mutual understanding, liking, and finally entering a legal marriage.
One expert mentioned that online marriage has three major advantages -
First of all, the large online community makes it easier to find the right partner.
Statistics as of the end of 2021 show that the number of Chinese netizens has reached 103.2 billion, an increase of 42.96 million compared with 2020, and the Internet penetration rate reached 730%。Even excluding older Internet users, the number of young Internet users is close to 700 million. This large group makes it easier to find the right partner online.
Secondly, online marriage saves the cost of finding a partner.
The traditional way of marriage requires a lot of time to look around for the right person, but through the Internet, you only need to post a marriage information to contact the right person.
Thirdly, it provides convenient conditions for people with different personalities.
Some people may be introverted and shy when meeting the living. Using online marriage solicitation, you can first get to know each other through online communication, and then further understand each other after they are more familiar with each other. This may reduce the feeling of insecurity in the presence of strangers.
Experts also pointed out that online marriage has three characteristics:
First of all, it is straightforward and purposeful.
The purpose of online marriage solicitation is clear, and the contact between men and women is for the purpose of finding the other half, which has a strong "directness".
Second, information is widely disseminated.
As long as you post your profile and expectations of your partner on an online platform, other people who are looking for a partner may be able to recommend your information to others who are looking for a partner, even if they think you're not a good fit for them. "
When it comes to getting married, online platforms have become a popular choice. People don't just display their personal information on these platforms, they also actively participate in blog spaces and group circles to show their talent and aesthetic level, hopefully in this one"Virtual space"to find the ideal other half.
Experts point out that with the increase in Internet penetration, online marriage solicitation has become a trend. According to reports, almost half of young people are willing to use online platforms to find a match.
Recently, it was reported that Sun from Heze, Shandong Province was asking for marriage on a short ** platform, and she released hundreds of marriages**, and the marriage conditions were quite relaxed, but she still failed to find a suitable partner.
This aroused people's curiosity, why did Sun encounter difficulties in online marriage?
Next, let's dive into the --- of this question
On the evening of October 28, Sun showed extreme frustration in a live broadcast. She said: "I really want to find a partner, not only do I not need a bride price, but I am also willing to pay 300,000 yuan." But why didn't anyone show up?I feel very depressed!”
Logically speaking, this is an era when there are more men than women, and as long as women express their desire to get married, they will attract a large number of suitors. But even if Sun is willing to pay a bride price of 300,000 yuan, why hasn't he found his favorite object?
People with knowledge of the situation revealed some background about Sun.
She is 32 years old and is older single. Sun's family is superior, and her parents are geological engineers, but because of her long-term work in the field, she grew up with her grandmother and grandfather. It is said that the two elders doted on her very much, and always gave her priority when there was good food at home. Perhaps because of this, Sun has developed the habit of loving food since he was a child, and he can't do without snacks every day. As she grew older, she not only loved to eat, but also ate amazingly. It is said that when she was 14 years old, she could eat three bowls of rice and half a catty of fat in one meal.
As she grew older, her food intake also increased, and by the time she was 17 years old, she weighed more than 210 pounds. Today, she needs six meals a day, and she prefers high-quality food, with big fish and meat at almost every meal. With the increase in food intake, her weight has exceeded 420 pounds.
She also consumes a lot of snacks and fruits such as chocolate every day. The cost of eating alone can easily exceed 5,000 yuan per month.
Because of her weight, she is very inconvenient to move, and she usually rarely goes out, so she can be said to be an otaku.
According to people familiar with the situation, today's men prefer slim women, so even if Sun is willing to pay a bride price, many men are reluctant to associate with her. This information later sparked heated discussions and discussions among netizens.
Netizens have discussed Sun's diet and living expenses. Some people think that she eats an astonishing amount of food, even more than several adult males combined, and it is speculated that this is also one of the reasons why she is overweight. Others, from an economic point of view, believe that to support Sun, they will need a considerable income, and may even need a full-time cook, which will be a heavy burden for those with lower incomes. In general, netizens have their own opinions on Sun's situation, but most of them think that with the existing conditions, the living expenses of a single person are already quite high, not to mention other expenses.
Sun, a person who does not know how to "temperate". Ordinary people control the amount of food after eating, but he doesn't. As a result, weight gains, which can cause problems with mobility and health. Not only does this affect his life, but it may also make it harder for him to find a partner. The income is generally not high, and people may be discouraged when they see how much he spends on food. Sun needs to learn "moderation" as soon as possible, otherwise he will face more problems.