Huang Han announced that he would bid farewell to the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" on February 24, 2016.
She conveys many emotions and values that the audience can feel on this stage.
Enhance the value and connotation of a pure blind date show.
She has witnessed the union of one couple after another.
is still very young, but she is affectionately called "Grandma Huang" by the audience.
Like a kind mother, she constantly sends sincere blessings and advice to young people.
As she left, she said:
Although it is a cold winter, it is already spring when the show is broadcast, and I hope that everyone will have the best expectations and the happiest mood for spring at that time.
However, when she first stepped on the stage, she also suffered from the suspicion of others, how was her own love life, as this emotional mentor?
What qualifications does she have to dictate other people's feelings?
is completely different from the gentle and virtuous and knowledgeable temperament that is currently presented, Huang Han showed a "tomboy" style when she was a child, although her birthplace is Rugao, Jiangsu, which is known as the "land of fish and rice", however, her birthplace is in the vast Xinjiang prairie.
Huang Han's favorite activity as a child was to follow the boys.
Chase cattle and sheep together, wade together to catch small fish and shrimp.
She didn't dare to go into the water, so she chose to catch dragonflies by the river.
Grabbed too many things, but couldn't find a place to put them.
She folded the hem of her dress into a small pocket, put the dragonfly in it, and tucked it into her pants.
As soon as I arrived at the house, I found that small red bumps appeared in the place where the dragonfly was placed on my body.
She was so confused that she didn't know what was going on, and even thought she was terminally ill and hurriedly cried to find her mother for help.
When my mother heard this, she felt angry, amused and distressed.
She was reprimanded and educated while being smeared with drugs.
Since then, Huang Han no longer has the courage to catch dragonflies.
When she was 5 years old, she returned to her hometown with her parents to visit relatives for the first time.
Not long after Huang Han arrived, his body showed many uncomfortable symptoms.
On the third and fourth days, countless small red bumps appeared on the **.
She innocently said to her mother: "Mom, I didn't catch dragonflies, why do I still have pimples on my body?"”
Seeing the pimples that suddenly appeared on the child's body, the whole family was very frightened and quickly sent her to the hospital for **.
Huang Han learned for the first time that the symptoms of some diseases were similar.
This time, I had a pimple on my own because I couldn't adapt to the new environment.
Subsequently, when recalling this past in the show, she expressed it like this:
When I was a child, I always didn't understand why, as a Rugao person, my body actually had a maladaptive situation.
Later, when I grew up, I realized that modern people are becoming more and more mobile, and their genes are constantly changing, so that there will be no more maladaptation.
But I think it's sad not to have that feeling, as if you've lost your soul's home.
He had just entered high school, and due to the needs of his father's work, he was transferred to work in Jiangsu.
Huang Han's family then moved to Yangzhou, Jiangsu Province and started a new life.
She was then transferred to Yangzhou, where her student status was transferred.
When you arrive in an unfamiliar place, you need to adapt to the local environment, as well as the teacher's teaching style and the way your classmates get along.
Scanning his eyes at the crowds of classmates around him, Huang Han suddenly felt isolated and abandoned.
As a result, her Xi grades dropped dramatically.
From a top student who used to be at the top of his class, he has become a student with the lowest grades.
Thankfully, her parents found out about her problems in time, and we had a deep heart-to-heart exchange, and her mother told her that everything is subject to change, and that people cannot step into the same river.
When you feel lost, maybe you can try to step out of your comfort zone and explore, maybe you will find a better version of yourself.
Her clever lady understood this at once.
Subsequently, she began to express herself unreservedly, actively communicating with her classmates and teachers, and soon mingled with her classmates and made many new friends.
Her gradually cheerful personality also led to greater progress in her studies.
Gradually catch up with the pace of his classmates and regain his rank among the top students in the class.
In an instant, time came to the most tense moment of life.
Huang Han was successfully admitted to Nankai University with three years of hard study and Xi, and she performed well in cultural classes.
Here she not only found her purpose in life, but also met her partner on the journey of life.
When she first entered college, she didn't completely relax like the rest of her classmates.
In Xi his studies, he is as serious as ever, and he is no different from before.
However, her rigorous approach is not limited to academics.
In her spare time, she often participates in various campus activities.
Walk the streets with your classmates, taste good food, and enjoy university life to the fullest.
The love experienced in the student days is the most unpretentious and pure.
Everyone has dreamed of experiencing a romantic love affair on campus.
Huang Han is no exception.
Every night before going to bed, the sisters in the dormitory would discuss some small gossip topics.
When it comes to the type of boyfriend you expect to date, at one point, someone expressed a desire to be able to find a handsome partner.
There are also those who say they want to find a partner who is tall and academically excellent.
Huang Han clearly stated one condition.
I expect my future boyfriend to be about 1.78 meters tall, preferably from the north, preferably a science graduate, two or three years older than me, and usually likes to wear suits.
After listening, her roommates teased her and asked her if she had already made a clear object in her heart.
When she was in college, Huang Han actually met two boys who met the standards in her heart.
When she took the initiative to confess, she received a series of rejections.
You lack gentleness. ", said the first boy.
You're not pretty enough, that's what the second boy said.
However, Huang Han did not feel discouraged by this, because she understood that feelings could not be forced.
After all, the melon is not so sweet when it is forcibly twisted, and no one can be sure of fate.
Her life has not been affected by emotional twists and turns.
She still works hard to learn Xi when she is still studying Xi, and she reads when she has time.
You need to go through the school playground if you want to go to the library.
Many people like to sit on the lawn of the playground in the fall, singing or taking pictures.
When Huang Han passed through the playground and went to the library Xi, one day suddenly happened.
Suddenly there was a pleasant guitar sound in her ears, and when she looked up, a boy on the lawn was playing the guitar.
The breeze blew, and Huang Han's mood beat uneasily like a deer.
This time, however, she did not take the initiative.
On the contrary, it is to engrave the appearance of this boy in the depths of memory.
In order to get to know each other more deeply, Huang Han asked his classmates about him.
His name is Yuan Jian, he is a liberal arts student, he likes to wear sweatshirts rather than suits, and his height is less than 1.78 meters.
Every point on Yuan Jian's body can be said to have failed to meet Huang Han's previous standards for boyfriends.
Her liking for this person is not affected by this.
When you really like someone, all the criteria don't matter anymore, as the saying goes.
She would secretly observe him inadvertently, occasionally passing by him nonchalantly.
Subsequently, they gradually deepened their understanding of each other in school activities.
Huang Han gradually realized that Yuan Jian was a person who could be trusted for life.
She took the initiative and wrote to Yuan Jian again.
In the letters, she expressed her love for him and expected him to give him consideration.
In fact, after this time together, Yuan Jian also praised Huang Han a lot, thinking that this girl was very diligent and responsible.
Therefore, when he received the confession letter, he was both a little shy and a little excited.
This is how two like-minded young people came together.
Later, they made a plan to read and Xi together.
In 1991, when Huang Han obtained a master's degree from Nankai University, Yuan Jian proposed to her, and their love had a happy ending.
They decided to go to Nanjing together to seek development after they got married.
They will walk hand in hand under the plane trees in Nanjing after work, look forward to the future together, and work together for a better tomorrow.
Born in 1997, it is the crystallization of their love, and Yuan Shimeng came to this world.
Their sweet world of two has now been transformed into a happy family of three.
Huang Han is not bound by family and children.
She decided to move in a better direction.
Han Huang received his Ph.D. from Nanjing University in 2002.
The direction of research has shifted from sociology to psychology.
Her success on the stage of "Do Not Disturb" also benefited from this.
After graduating, Huang Han was successfully admitted to the local party school and began his teaching career.
In the process of continuous and in-depth research, he has written many excellent academic **.
She was promoted to professor for her outstanding performance, and he was also invited to the position of vice president of the Jiangsu Provincial Psychological Society.
Her husband did not slack off, and after several years of accumulation and precipitation, he became a political and economic critic who attracted much attention in China.
The husband and wife each flourished in their own field and shone brightly.
Because she won the position of vice president, Huang Han received interviews from many TV stations.
She gradually moved from behind the scenes to the stage**.
Huang Han actually met Meng Fei as early as 1996 because of a show.
However, at this moment, Meng Fei has not yet become a household name "Grandpa Meng".
He is still an apprentice who works silently at the bottom of the TV station and never gives up.
Huang Han was an expert hired outside that show, while Meng Fei served as the choreographer.
During a dinner party, Huang Han realized ......
Meng Fei has a unique perspective on things.
His tone and expression are very humorous, giving a lively and not rigid feeling.
She can be said to have witnessed Meng Fei's mental journey of working hard in the TV station.
In order to transform, Jiangsu TV made a decision in 2010.
So he turned his attention to marriage and dating, which was lacking at the time.
With this marriage and dating show, Meng Fei has become a celebrity in the north and south of the country.
As soon as he landed on "Do Not Disturb", he easily won the top of the ratings.
Although major television stations have followed suit, their results have not been satisfactory.
Huang Han was very happy about Meng Fei's success.
However, no one expected that a few months later, she actually received Meng Fei's request for help.
Meng Fei proposed in **: "I hope you can become a resident guest of this show and do us a favor." ”
Huang Han was a little surprised when he heard this.
If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", the program has attracted much attention on major platforms and has aroused widespread discussion and attention.
Why invite guests to help?
As the popularity increased, people began to have a lot of doubts about the authenticity of the show.
Many viewers think that the male and female guests on the show are specially invited actors.
Whether or not they can successfully hold hands depends on the plot carefully choreographed by the program team.
These suspicions come to a head when a female guest named Mano appears.
As soon as she appeared, she uttered a famous quote that is still a classic today.
I'd rather cry in the seat of a BMW than laugh in the back seat of a bike.
This remark sparked a heated discussion among a large number of viewers, who criticized the show for spreading extremely bad values.
The program team can only look for ways to change, because they have to pay attention to the outside discussion.
The figure of his good friend Huang Han came to Meng Fei's mind.
She has a wealth of knowledge and experience, and it's safe to say that she definitely doesn't feel nervous on stage.
After receiving the invitation, Huang Han was a little hesitant to accept it.
Although I have participated in some shows before, I have appeared as a behind-the-scenes consultant.
There are many unexpected issues that can arise on stage.
I would prefer to be able to teach quietly from the podium, in contrast.
As a variety show, its most important function should be to relax the audience.
Instead of inviting another teacher to the stage again"Preachy"。
When she thought of her friend in trouble, she felt a little unbearable.
She then approached her husband and decided to discuss the matter with him.
After listening to her story, Yuan Jian gave her great support and help.
Inspired by her husband, Huang Han decided to take on this challenge.
Huang Han first appeared on the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" in June 2010.
After the first episode of the program was broadcast, the organizer conducted a ** questionnaire.
Do you support the new female guest of the party school?
As expected, Huang Han only managed to get 11 percent support.
She gives the audience the feeling that she is incompatible with the light-hearted love atmosphere.
Huang Han responded that she had been mentally prepared to avoid reading these comments and opinions.
She also said that when the first episode of the program was recorded, she had just returned from a business trip to Xinjiang, and she didn't know much about the process of the show and the personality characteristics of each female guest, so her performance was more jerky, she spoke less, and it was reasonable for her to be criticized by the audience.
She was not knocked down by the criticism of the audience, on the contrary, it inspired her to become stronger.
Every time she records a show, she carefully understands the personalities and past of the male and female guests.
He also reviews previous shows so that he can grasp the flow and transitions of the show.
The tacit understanding between Huang Han and Meng Fei has become stronger and stronger after several phases of running-in.
Gradually, she found her own orientation and rhythm on stage.
Looking at the young and slightly confused girl on the stage, she seemed to see her former figure again.
She hopes to use her own experience to help them.
Despite her previous role as a teacher, Huang Han did not look like a teacher on stage, and her advice was not conveyed in the way of educating others.
Instead, it's more like a friend or elder around you.
Both the attitude and tone are very cordial, and the speech is even more nuanced.
The audience also gradually changed their opinion of her because of such a change.
Her outstanding performance in the show has won many people to be called "Mama Huang" or "Grandma Huang".
The combination of her and Lejia's "one soft and one rigid" is very attractive.
After spending 6 years on the stage of "Do Not Disturb", Huang Han has witnessed countless encounters with lovers.
Her heart was filled with satisfaction as she saw the little couple on stage smiling sweetly at each other.
She delivered a large number of emotional fragments to the audience on stage and left a deep impression.
When you always ask others for advice on how to make choices, you have lost your happiness. But when you are brave enough to follow your heart and make choices and accept the results, the key to happiness is always in your own hands.
Sometimes we make mistakes or fail to succeed because we are swayed by emotions when we need to think rationally, and sometimes on the contrary, we overuse reason and ignore emotions.
In love, you should never complain about anything.
These remarks also give a pure blind date show a deeper meaning and value.
The attitude of the audience has changed from the initial receptivity to the expectation of listening to her comments every week.
There is no feast in the world, and Huang Han participated in the last recording of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" on February 24, 2016.
In order to commemorate her hard work in the past few years, the program team decided to ......
She specially produced a short film and a song to commemorate it.
Meng Fei and Huang Han shed tears many times during the recording.
At the time of farewell, Huang Han also sent new blessings to everyone:
The reason why Huang Han withdrew from the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" also aroused heated discussions among many netizens.
Some claim that her relationship with Meng Fei has broken down.
There are also rumors that it was because the program team invited Jin Xing to take her place.
However, Huang Han revealed the truth in a subsequent interview.
She expressed the idea that work took up too much time in her life, and she could not spend enough time with her husband and daughters, so she wished she could spend more time with them.
Huang Han revealed on the show as early as 2014 that there was a huge disagreement between her and her daughter.
On Mother's Day, the program team gave Huang Han an unexpected surprise at the opening, and she didn't know anything.
On the screen, Huang Han's daughter sang a song for her mother.
She said in ** that the way she communicates with her mom is usually through arguments, and she mentions that mom always shows her vulnerable side when she comes home.
When Huang Han heard her daughter's affectionate confession, tears couldn't stop flowing.
She cautioned that the trivialities of life should never be an excuse for ignoring the existence of love.
Because of her work, she missed out on many of her daughter's formative experiences.
She can give advice to the audience on stage, but she is helpless in dealing with her relationship with her daughter.
Therefore, after she quit the show, I was able to spend a lot of time with my daughter and husband in addition to her daily classes at school.
Experience the joy and happiness of simple living.
Now 56-year-old Huang Han and her husband Yuan Jian have gone through 31 years of ups and downs hand in hand.
Yuan Shimeng's daughter is now a slender, beautiful little girl.
She conveys the meaning of "love" to others through practical actions.
She is marked by intellectuality, modesty and elegance.
Through her, it is as if you can gain insight into things that are more fascinating than beauty.
The wisdom and beauty revealed are a smile after years of precipitation.
Women have the most unique charm given by time.