On the road of life, we are constantly meeting and saying goodbye. Encounters and farewells seem to be the inevitable melodies of life. Some farewells will bring tears to our eyes, and some farewells will cut our hearts. But either way, they all shape our lives and make us grow.
Perhaps the story of figuring out and saying goodbye can start with a farewell letter. This letter was written by Zhang Xiaoming to his first girlfriend Xiaofang. They met and fell in love in college and spent four years together. However, after graduation, Xiaofang chose to return to her hometown, while Zhang Xiaoming decided to go to Beijing. At the parting moment, they met on the playground of the campus to reminisce about the good old days. At that time, Zhang Xiaoming wrote this farewell letter.
Dear Xiaofang, when you read this letter, I had already stepped on the train to Beijing. I knew we were going to say goodbye. In the past four years, we have accompanied each other through the best time of our youth. However, there are still four years of life waiting to be experienced. I don't want this brief separation to make us miss out on a better reunion in the future.
What I want to tell you is that I didn't leave because I didn't love you anymore, but because I loved you so much that I wanted to pursue my dreams. I believe that as long as we have each other in our hearts, no matter how far away we are, our feelings will not change. I will wait for you until the day we meet again.
Goodbye, my little Fang. I hope you understand my decision and that you will support me. I will try to be better and fight hard for our future. ”
In this letter, Zhang Xiaoming did not explain his decision too much, but directly expressed his love for Xiaofang and his expectations for himself. He understands that saying goodbye does not mean the end, but for a better reunion. He hoped that Xiaofang would understand his decision and support him to move forward.
The moment of farewell is always so short, but the meaning of farewell is profound. It makes us understand that some people are destined to stay only for a certain period of time in our lives. However, as long as we have each other in our hearts, no matter how far away we are, our feelings will not change.
Figuring out and saying goodbye are not contradictory, but two inevitable links in life. We need to figure out our direction and goals in life in order to make the right goodbye. Farewell is not the end, but a new beginning. At the moment of farewell, we must learn to cherish the good memories of the past, and we must also learn to let go of the regrets and imperfections of the past. We must face the future bravely and pursue our dreams and happiness.
In this story, Zhang Xiaoming's farewell makes Xiaofang understand his decision and what he expects from him. She also understood the meaning and value of farewell. She let go of the doubts and uneasiness in her heart and chose to support and understand Zhang Xiaoming's decision. Their relationship thus became deeper and stronger.
This story teaches us that saying goodbye is not a terrible thing. As long as we figure out our inner thoughts and the direction of our goals, we can make the right decisions and choices. Farewell is for us to better face the future and pursue our dreams and happiness. No matter when and where, we must cherish every encounter and farewell in our lives. Because it is these experiences that shape our lives and allow us to grow and progress.