There is a collection of essays signed "Duan Duan", called "My Days in the World", in which there is a sentence, "To live is to compromise one after another." ”
This statement is very true, and it is a profound realization of all those who have experienced the beating of life. In the face of the storm that fate has given you, sometimes we have no power to fight back at all, and we have to choose to raise our hands and surrender and throw in the towel.
Learning to compromise is the true love of life
When people reach middle age, they understand many problems that they have not figured out before. I suddenly felt that, in fact, isn't compromise the most useful survival wisdom?Do you have to hit your head and break the blood flow to be called a hero?
Water, meet the mountain and go around, meet the stone and divert, meet the high into the waterfall, meet the low and gentle, and finally become the momentum of the waves, the state of the ocean.
Compromise is the tenacity of retreating. Life is not right or wrong, black and white, it is not brushing questions, there are standard answers, and only the parties are qualified to judge whether their answers are right or wrong. Sometimes, a compromise can be recuperating, like an animal hibernating and hibernating.
To compromise is to truly let go of yourself. When people reach middle age, "fame and fortune are all floating clouds, and the heart is calm", look down on life and death, take it calmly, do not force yourself to do what you don't like, stay away from people you don't like, let all cause and effect come, and accept it calmly, "everything is the best arrangement".
Loving life starts with convincing yourself and letting yourself go.
It is precisely because of love that I want to make life more resilient, rather than fighting with a sharp edge, the sharper the sword, the easier it is to break. Who wouldn't be brave enough to be brave, how cool it is, and the real great wisdom is to temporarily lower your arrogant head, avoid the head-on impact of suffering, and "stay in the green mountains, not afraid of no firewood".
If you love life, don't live a life of making up numbers
The days when I was counting in the world, there was a bit of ridicule and helplessness hidden in this sentence, and I hope that all people who love life will not take it seriously.
Whether you are here to make up the number or not, in fact, no one cares at all, and the people who really care are the people who love you the most. The most important thing you should care about is yourself.
People live for a lifetime, and they can't come in vain.
People live for a lifetime to see the beauty of the world. The wind blows the flowers and falls, the rain hits the plantains, the sunrise is steaming, and the mountains and rivers are traversed. No one can feel the beauty of life for you, and no one can answer "the world is worth it" for you.
People live their lives to feel loved and to be loved. A loving mother loves her son, a lamb kneels to suckle, and the two-way running of family affection gives you enough warmth. Sweet love, husband and wife hand in hand, let you fully feel the preciousness of love. There is more love, so that you have the strength to keep moving forward again and again.
If you can't make up the numbers, then live happily, take out all your energy and love, calm down, do things well, pursue real results one by one, make yourself gradually stronger, and have the ability to turn the gears of destiny.
Entering 2024, I wish you to do your best in the new year, move forward boldly, live up to the time, have a good heart, everything can be expected, and be affectionate!