Wen Wu II
When watching TV that day, Andy Lau and Peng Yuyan performed a clip after the tidbits, Peng Yuyan said that Andy Lau is a very good actor, and he treats people very kindly. You can learn a lot from him.
When I heard the word "harmony", my heart softened.
As the saying goes, "Harmony leads to prosperity, and disharmony leads to defeat." ”
Harmony is auspicious, and harmony is to let us have a generous and considerate heart to deal with others. If you treat others kindly, you have won the respect of others, and others will treat you kindly.
When people reach middle age, the greatest sobriety is to treat others kindly.
01 Treating people kindly will bring good luck
Gongqi is a person who treats people well and gets along in harmony.
Qi Henggong, the king of Qi, once asked his son for advice: "How to make the country rich and strong, what are the good suggestions?"”
Zigong replied: "The monarch should be kind to others, be kind to others, and resolve conflicts with harmony, so that the country can be stable and the people can live and work in peace and contentment." ”
Qi Henggong accepted Zigong's suggestion and began to change his way of treating others, to be kind to others, and to live in harmony. Soon the citizens of Qi began to follow suit, and the country gradually prospered.
It is true that kindness and kindness can bring prosperity not only to individuals but also to the country as a whole.
As the saying goes, "Harmony makes money." ”
Throughout the ages, people who can achieve great things have won in harmony. People who are amiable are more likely to be supported and trusted by others. It's also easier to be successful.
02 becomes a big thing, and the most important thing is harmony
I saw a sentence in the book: "You must be generous and harmonious in life in order to win the respect of others." ”
I think so. Harmony makes money, and resentment beckons resentment.
Lin Xiangru and Lian Po were ministers of Zhao during the Warring States Period, and Lin Xiangru's status was above Lian Po, who was indignant about this and looked for trouble with Lin Xiangru everywhere.
Lin Xiangru put the safety of the country first, tolerated and humbled Lian Po everywhere, and finally made Lian Po repent and plead guilty to Lin Xiangru. The two eventually became close friends.
This is also praised by later generations as "will be harmonious." ”
In the end, the two of them value harmony and hope to build a strong and prosperous country. They believe that this can only be achieved by treating each other in harmony.
There is a sentence in the Analects: "The use of etiquette, harmony is precious." ”
In dealing with others, we must value harmony, and everything can be done.
03 When people reach middle age, the more they must treat others kindly
My colleague Ya Zhi shared something with us that day.
Her son got into an argument with a classmate at school, which resulted in his son being injured. When she learned the news, she was very angry and heartbroken. I immediately rushed to the school and met the parents of the classmate.
Despite the anger and grievances in her heart, Yazhi tries to stay calm and sane.
Instead of blaming the other party, she asked about the incident in a friendly manner and expressed the hope that the two parties could reconcile.
The child's parents saw her kind attitude, and they were also at fault, and they kept apologizing to her. Thanks to Yazhi's efforts, the two families finally reached a consensus and settled the dispute.
If Yazhi was dealing with this matter, she would definitely stimulate the conflict to become more violent, but fortunately, she chose to treat others amiably to deal with the contradictions and conflicts. Let this matter be small, and the small thing will be nothing. It's handled very well.
In life, if there is no harmony, there will only be contradictions;If there is no tolerance, then there is only care;Only by treating others kindly, can life be better.
Harmony begets wealth, anger hurts the body.
Let's not lose our harmony because of small things, and maintaining a happy attitude is the key to solving problems.
There are often many contradictions in life, let's not turn small contradictions into big problems, life is too short to be amicable for inconsequential things.
Home and everything is prosperous, and people go further.
May you and I be kind people.