Potential Author Support Program
People often say that "people are in good spirits when they are happy", and marriage should be one of the four happy events in life, but many people get married not because they want to, and they may not marry the person they like!
Some people don't have the opportunity to fall in love in life, so when they reach the age of marriage, they have to rely on the matchmaker's introduction to go on a blind date, and when they go on a blind date, they may not meet the person they like, and sometimes their parents will make a hindrance and choose the person they like!
There is no doubt that parents are happy for their daughters, but parents think that they can be happy by finding a rich family for their children, which is not necessarily true!
There was a man in Ningxia who got married and spent 600,000 dowry, but when the bride got married, there was no smile on her face, she was sullen and unwilling to approach the groom, and even the groom wanted to hold hands, but the bride refused!
Some netizens posted such a paragraph**, in which a groom wearing a white hat and a beautiful bride stood together, the groom's face was full of smiles, but the bride was unhappy, as if she was in a bad mood, it was a big day, why was the bride unhappy.
According to the local villagers, the bride does not like the groom, but the parents have to let themselves marry him, the bride can only obey the will of the parents, although the bride has no feelings for the groom, but the parents' wishes can not be disobeyed, in order to reassure the parents, the bride had to wronged herself.
It is said that the groom gave the bride's family 600,000 bride price, so that the mother-in-law and the old man were satisfied, the bride learned that her parents received so much bride price, plus she didn't like the groom, so she was expressionless, the bride didn't want to marry the groom in front of her, but she had no choice.
The groom wanted to hold the bride's hand, but the bride dodged away, and then the groom tried again and many times before finally grabbing the bride's hand, although it was a little embarrassing, but the groom was still very happy, because the bride was indeed a beauty.
* The bride is indeed white and beautiful, looks like Tang Wei, the man is really discerning, and more importantly, he has money, and he can come up with 600,000 dowries, which is also powerful!
The man spent 60 bride price to get married, but the bride was sullen, "Marrying someone that parents like, are such parents really thinking about their daughters, or are they agreeing to this marriage in order to receive 600,000 bride price".
Some netizens said that the children's marriage should be decided by the children themselves, even if the daughter regrets it in the future, it is her own decision, not to mention that marrying a rich man may not necessarily lead to a happy life!
Some people also say that the woman's parents are doing the right thing, of course, the parents' opinions are the most important in marriage, and there is no problem for parents to receive the bride price, even if the daughter divorces in the future, there is also a guarantee of 600,000 yuan!
Author's point of view:
Marriage events, parents' opinions are very important, but parents should only provide advice, not make decisions for their children, adults should have the right to make their own decisions for marriage, parents should respect their children's decisions, after all, the future life is their children's own life, what kind of partner to choose, they should have the final say!
The bride can also make her own decisions, but she listens to her parents too much, although she doesn't like the groom a little, but she still follows the wishes of her parents and marries the person her parents choose for herself, as for what her future life will be, it depends on luck!
However, depending on the groom's attitude, it should be very good to the woman, and the woman may also be happy if she marries someone who likes her, as long as the groom is good to her!