Birth, old age, sickness and death are processes that everyone needs to go through, but knowing that this is the case, at the moment when you get your loved ones to pass away. Everyone's hearts will be very sad, we will be sad, we will cry bitterly. We're depressed, we're missing, it's all normal.
It's okay to be depressed for a while, but you have to think about how much more energetic and confident you need to be after this dark period has passed. Let them in heaven no longer worry about us.
When I was very young, I used to think about it, I didn't think about the sudden death of someone, I thought about the sudden death of someone. At that time, I didn't have any concept of death, I just heard adults say that they went to a far, far away place, where there was no disaster**, which was good.
I remember when I was a kid I wasn't very nice to me, and I wasn't bad. But one day he fell ill and passed away, and I was very reluctant to give up, and even secretly shed tears.
I feel very sad about his departure, because I think he is a very close person. Maybe I don't have many traces in his heart, but I am really sad because the adults around me say that I will never see him again.
So when you're in this situation as well, I hope you'll think about it. Your current depression is a reluctance to lose a loved one, and a reluctance to give up the good past.
But in the days to come, you can't stay that way, because they're gone. You have your own life to live. You can't always live in the memories of the past.
When the person around you is in the current situation, I hope you can accompany him silently, you must know that companionship is a good medicine, the heating between people is very effective, and you have lost a person who has been with you for a long time.
He will feel lost, and your company will ease the state, and he will be with himOn the way, I hope you will talk less about the past and instill in him the idea that the future will be better.
The death of a loved one is the pain of those around you who can't breathe. But life has to go on, and we have to pick ourselves up and live well, for ourselves and for those who have left. Missing is a pain that breathes, and we must turn grief into strength to make tomorrow better.
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