Yan Bingyan: After the Fenghua peerless TV series on the stage was completed, Yan Bingyan hurried to the hospital to visit her mother and learned that her mother was terminally ill and only had 3 years to live after surgery. In order to save her mother, she did not hesitate to use her savings for many years, and even gave up her dance career.
Yan Bingyan's story begins at this moment. In 1972, Yan Bingyan was born in Beijing, her ancestral home is Qufu, Shandong, and she is a descendant of Confucius ** Yan Hui. Despite her prominent family background, she was not interested in reading or Confucianism.
Her parents supported her to develop freely, so she began to learn Xi dance at the age of 6 and aspired to become a dancer. At the age of 11, Yan Bingyan entered the Beijing Song and Dance Troupe with her excellent dancing skills and appearance.
In 1996, she played Yu Chi Lanxin in the TV series "Gan Nineteen Sisters", a role that made her stand out in the film and television industry. Later, she played the female soldier Xiao Hong in "Red Cross Team", and won the Golden Eagle Award for Best Supporting Actress.
The film appointments continued, she played Li Zhijun in "Human Worm", and Wang Jianing, who played the fourth dezi, fell in love because of the play, and the two came together in the best years.
However, the good days did not last long, Yan Bingyan's mother suddenly fell seriously ill and was hospitalized, and at the same time, Wang Jianing chose to part ways with Yan Bingyan during this period.
Is Wang Jianing afraid that Yan Bingyan's mother will become a "burden", or is it because his feelings for Yan Bingyan are not deep enough? It's all a mystery. Yan Bingyan's mother felt deeply guilty, she didn't want to ruin her daughter's happiness, nor did she want to become a stumbling block in her daughter's career.
However, whenever her mother repeatedly complained of her inner pain, Yan Bingyan firmly decided to take care of her mother.
In order to pay for her mother's medical expenses, Yan Bingyan used up all her savings, but the medical expenses continued to increase like a bottomless pit, and in order to earn more money, she decided to take a risk.
In 1998, in order to raise her mother's medical expenses, Yan Bingyan resolutely shaved her hair to participate in the filming of a play. She posted a message through her interpersonal relationships: "As long as it's in Beijing, no matter what the role is, even if it's a trick, I can accept it."
Many directors were deeply moved by the behavior of this "filial daughter" and tried every means to give her a role. However, fate always plays tricks on people, and when Yan Bingyan was busy making money, some changes happened to the Beijing Song and Dance Troupe.
The Beijing Song and Dance Troupe carried out a series of reforms that year and began to strictly restrict dancers' behavior from going out to film, and Yan Bingyan, who was not in the troupe all year round, became the object of the most attention.
After careful consideration, she had to choose to give up her dream of dancing since she was a child and officially transform into an actress. However, being an actor is not a profession that everyone can be.
Although Yan Bingyan has starred in many film and television works and achieved considerable results, her mother has always been her only concern. In the days that followed, she starred in numerous plays, but most of them were to make quick money, so she did not appear in masterpieces for a long time.
In 2000, under the care of Yan Bingyan, her mother's physical condition improved significantly. However, the mother did not want her daughter to waste her youth for herself, and she tried to make her daughter think more about her future by hinting, but was directly refused.
In 2005, Yan Bingyan's mother still failed to overcome the disease, Yan Bingyan was grief-stricken at her mother's funeral, and Yan's father also cried silently. Afterwards, Yan's father didn't want his daughter to delay time anymore, and kicked her out of the house many times, such heartache is difficult for ordinary people to understand.
Yan Bingyan once faced the choice of rejecting "Teeth of Love". In 2007, she rose to prominence in the entertainment industry and received a fateful script, but director Zhuang Yuxin gave her the role of a 17-year-old girl.
Yan Bingyan was speechless because she was a 35-year-old mature woman at the time, and she thought: "No matter how good my acting skills are, the wrinkles and eyes on my face cannot be concealed!" ”。
In the face of Yan Bingyan's refusal, Zhuang Yuxin persuaded her for a long time, and finally persuaded her to play Qian Yehong in "The Teeth of Love", and this movie made Yan Bingyan win the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress! Compared with the joy of winning the award, Yan Bingyan is most pleased to find it in life.
the other half. However, Yan Bingyan complained that Li Naiwen was not good at filming "kiss scenes". During a filming, there was a "kiss scene" with the actor Li Naiwen, which was a simple scene, but Li Naiwen was a "first brother", he had no experience in love and was not good at kissing.
Therefore, this scene was actually reshot several times, and Li Naiwen's mistake made Yan Bingyan very angry, but when Li Naiwen hurriedly apologized afterwards, Yan Bingyan had a good impression of the 33-year-old man. Li Naiwen's evaluation of Yan Bingyan.
However, Yan Bingyan missed this opportunity to meet for the first time, and instead put forward strict requirements for others, so much so that Li Naiwen said in an interview many years later: "Teacher Yan Bingyan is a very strict person.
Looking at Yan Bingyan's acting career, it is not difficult to find a problem, she doesn't know how to be flexible at all, in other words, "very axial". Yan Bingyan refused to appear in "Tangshan Da**".
If a well-known director asks you to star in a play, you will definitely be elated, and you are even willing to show up for zero pay, but Yan Bingyan bluntly refused.
Feng Xiaogang invited Yan Bingyan to star in "Tangshan Da**", but she directly refused after asking, because the location was not arranged, and if she waited for a while, it would have a time conflict with the scene at hand. Yan Bingyan calls herself "a tendon".
Feng Xiaogang couldn't let go of his anger at this, because if he was another actor, even if he was filming in another crew, he would take time or leave to come to make a cameo, but Yan Bingyan bluntly refused.
Yan Bingyan, a person known as "a tendon", she has become a real actor with her persistence and persistence, but this trait makes her alone in love. Ni Ping once bluntly commented that Yan Bingyan is the most outstanding actress in her mind.
In addition to filming, she hardly participates in any activities and parties, and focuses all her energy on acting, creating roles such as Li Baoli in "Ten Thousand Arrows Pierce the Heart" and Zhao Shan in "The Big Exam". She never considered herself a star, but firmly believed that she was just an actress.
When talking about the criteria for choosing a mate, she succinctly said "see what you like", but this seemingly simple criterion is actually the hardest. Today, despite numerous awards and fan support, the 51-year-old is still alone.
She doesn't seem to care much about marital issues, because she is convinced that as long as her father and family are doing well, she will be satisfied.
Yan Bingyan is a model of "filial piety", she spent the most precious 8 years of her life during her mother's illness, and even gave up her dance career, ruining her reputation as an actress in her early years.
In the end, she successfully returned to the screen with "Teeth of Love", but her dedication to acting has kept her alone to this day.
Yan Bingyan sacrificed her dreams for her mother and gave up love for acting, but behind her bright smile on the screen, she hid the pain in her heart, but she silently endured the pain alone.