Feelings are an integral part of our journey in life. However, a mature and beautiful relationship does not happen overnight, it needs to go through four necessary stages. Understanding and mastering these stages will help us to better manage our relationships and create a good life.
Stage 1: Passionate first acquaintance
The beginning of a relationship is always full of passion and romance. At this stage, we are often attracted to each other's appearance, personality, talents, etc., and everything seems so flawless. However, over time, the passion will fade and we begin to see different sides of each other.
The second stage: the run-in period of contradictions and conflicts
As the passion subsides, we begin to see different sides of each other. At this time, the relationship entered the run-in period of contradiction and conflict. At this stage, we may find some shortcomings in the other person or something that is not in line with us. However, it is these contradictions and conflicts that allow us to understand each other better and also teach us how to deal with and solve problems.
Stage 3: The familiarization period of in-depth understanding
After the run-in period of contradictions and conflicts, feelings enter the familiarization period of in-depth understanding. At this stage, we have a deeper understanding of the other person and begin to accept each other's imperfections. At the same time, we began to pay more attention to each other's needs and feelings, and learned to listen to and respect each other's opinions.
Stage 4: Stable and beautiful maturity
After the first three stages of running-in and understanding, the relationship finally enters a stable and beautiful maturity period. At this stage, we have learned how to deal with contradictions and conflicts, and also to appreciate each other more. Instead of pursuing passion and romance, we focus more on stability and authenticity. At this stage, we begin to enjoy each other's company and the beauty of life.
A mature and beautiful relationship needs to go through four stages: the passionate first acquaintance period, the running-in period of contradictions and conflicts, the acquaintance period of in-depth understanding, and the stable and beautiful maturity period. It is only through these stages that we can truly understand each other and cherish each other. On the road of feelings, we must learn to be honest with each other, understand and support each other, so that feelings can thrive and bloom into beautiful flowers. 100 help plan